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writes:im not sure if im being daft but i just want to know peoples opinion.i was with a girl from the age of 16 to 20(still my age). she was 15 when we met and broke up with me when she was 19. i was absolutley gutted, my head really was in a mess. i have gotten over it even though i do think about her a lot, but it doesnt get me down like it did. any way i really like a girl of seventeen, ive been paranoid shes too young for me but everyone as put my mind to rest that she isnt. but the advice im looking for is this, i hear lots of people say that girls change so much at 19 20. so basically im thinking should i not bother with her cos if anything did happen between us i could end up getting hurt again cos shes around that age. i cant be bothered to really like some one and they change and let me down. i could see myself really falling for her cos she really is such a nice girl and stunning. am i just being stupid?
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (16 July 2007):
 I think you shaould give it a go! We all change all the way through our lives. I've changed since I was 20 and I'm sure I'll change again in the next few years. Why should you not have a chance to be happy incase the relationship doesn't work out. Isn't life a game of chance?!
You aren't being stupid and I don't blame you for being cautious, but you can't not have anything good in life because there is a slim chance that you may get hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2007): of course not! i think you have to let yourself fall.if you get hurt,don't be afraid to love again until you find the right girl for you
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