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writes: A few days ago whilst out with friends [one of which is my cousin]. My girlfriend embarrassed me by making fun about my youngest cousin. As we were discussing family she brought up my youngest cousin and started dissing him by calling him a 't**t' and other names and how much he annoys her despite her seeing him only three times. She works with children herself as part of college and she was making fun out of him being silly and slever for his age. I was quite shocked and my cousin was shocked too.How can I tell her that I think it was wrong of her to do this?The thing that irritates me the most is the fact that she is so defensive of her family and if I'd had done the same she would have gone in a strop.
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reader, x_goddess_x  +, writes (4 August 2007):
 u need to stand for you and ur family and just get her on her own and talk to her about it and if she strops let her couse i think family come first but tht just my opinion so do wat you think right really
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reader, :):):) +, writes (2 August 2007):
Is she close to her family is not she might be jealous that you have a good relationship with yours. Next time she says anything tell her that its unfair for her to judge someone she barely knows and that you wouldnt expect this from her, hopefully that should shock her into been more sensitive in future xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2007): tell her up front, and ask her why she gets all defensive over her own family but yet she thinks its funny to make fun of yours.
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