A
female
age
26-29,
*esevedmate
writes:I am in a group of 4 friends. There is 1 particular person who always gets her own way, along with her "coff coff" best friend. We always do what they want and I am fed up with it. I feel as if I am the bottom of the group, like a reserved friend or something. It's almost like me and my other mate only exist in our group, if one of the bosses are away or something. I am sick to death of being a reserved friend, and I need a way to put up with it without ruining my friendship all together. Please Help!
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reader, DJ8433  +, writes (4 August 2007):
 Just like a pecking order in the barnyard, there is a pecking order for social groups. You can accept your position in the pecking order or move, either up or out.
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reader, lovehate +, writes (2 August 2007):
 Sweetie do not worry. This is my situation and a lot of others. There is always a leader and his/her follower. I know lots of groups like this where the other 2 or whatever number have exploded and said "excuse me..can we do something else i want..." It's always ended up in fights. So listen, speak to the "bestfriend" about it calmly and say you feel left out and not "in". Take it slowly and don't "explode". She will tell you what she feels and if she does'nt care. You are to good for that crowd.
Keep me posted :) Send me a message if you want.
Remember i am only a few years older than you! X
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