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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday, he loves me so much , I love him more, but we keep fighting, because he keeps picking on me a lot and he drives me crazy, I want him back, how?
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (2 August 2007):
 Well you can take him back if you want to but if he's not willing to stop the behavior, you're going to be in the same boat again in a month or two. Ask him why he feels the need to constantly criticise you? Were his parents perfectionists, and he was nit-picked as a child? Is there something else in his life he'd like to change, but can't, so he finds other things that he thinks he can change and harps on them? If he's not willing to see his own behavior as part of the problem and be willing to change, I don't think he'll be able to keep any woman for very long.
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reader, duskyrowe  +, writes (2 August 2007):
 I lived with a guy for 7 years who was always nick picking on me for no apparent reason, it got to me so much that I was a shadow of my former self. I lost contact with my friends, my family noticed I was not myself. Do you what? I left the creep,and it was the best thing I ever done, that was 3 years ago. He took away all my self-esteem over the years, it took a while to get it back, I have dated some lovely guys since and would not go back for all the tea in China. Find someone who respects you not undermine you my love.
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