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*irlonthewing
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now and have been living together for a year and a half now. I'm starting to wonder why we are still together though. When we first started dating everything was so fun and so new...now we argue constantly and never do anything outside the house together. We are always so busy with work and just come home to relax. He had made it more than clear that he never wants to get married, and that's fine. I've always thought... if we aren't going to get married, then at least right now I'm with someone I truly enjoy, and am having a good time with. It's to the point where... we don't have fun with each other... we are basically like an old married couple. Fighting over household chores and stupid bills and going to bed upset every night. AND HE SEEMS PERFECTLY OKAY WITH IT! I just am trying to decide whether or not to throw in the towel and just cut my losses. Reply to this Question
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reader, edsbabygirl +, writes (3 August 2007):
 I am kind of in the same pickle accept we don't live together and we don't fight over bills. We fight over my jealousy and his stubborness. Now I love him to death and that is why I stay with him. If you love him and are fine with the way he acts than stay, if you just want something more then take the big step, and remember it is easier to take the step out the door than stay.
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reader, opinionated +, writes (3 August 2007):
Get Out. Tell yourself and believe it...this is the most fun and romantic this relationship is going to get. You have plenty of time in the future to bicker like an old married person. Right now you need to be with someone who you enjoy, even if you are just home chilling out. That can be a blast with the right person.
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reader, Helen Help! :)  +, writes (3 August 2007):
 your young u should be out there having fun hes obviously not your mr right so i suggest u get out there n find him if neither of u are willing to try something new togeather thn ur just gunna stay as u are n ur not happy so wats the point go n find someone who will take care :)
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