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male
age
36-40,
*ike21
writes:I'm 21 and engaged ive been with my fiance for nearly 3 years ,i do love her . Recently i went on holiday with my family and we got friendly with a family that live about an hour away from us . The mother of the family has 3 young kids and is married and her husband is a nice guy.But I think ive fallen for her she's 33 and gorgeous.We had a connection i could feel it and so could she, we just clicked and one night she had a few drinks, she told me she fancied me. ive been back off holiday for a month and i cant stop thinking about her, i find any excuse to call them just to hear her voice.i dont know what to do?
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (2 August 2007):
 I think you're infatuated with this woman, and perhaps grabbing at the last threads of your singlehood status. She probably was attracted to you too because you're a younger man and that's always kind of an ego boost to any woman over 30. But think about the consequences. It'll never be more than a fling at best. She is probably not going to divorce her husband and uproot her kids to be with you permanently, so you need to let it go. It is nothing more than a sexual attraction but it could cause severe damage to both your lives, and your families.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2007): Dont break up her marriage... maybe you should be re evaluating yours. She has kids and a husband, the poor guy. A five min f**k is not worth the agony of a divorce and trauma to her children. If shes willing to leave her husband for you then fine... but if your engaged yourself then you should really be thinking what those vows mean to you. Maybe youre just getting cold feet...? I'm sure she was into you and you should feel great about that; dont let lust over take you and ruin lives though ya know.
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