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writes:My wife and I went to a dance and she asked me if it was ok if she danced with someone she was attracted to.She then went and spent 30 minutes up at the bar talking to 2 guys. I left (mad) and she came home at 4 in the morning told me she was at a party. 4 days later she tells me she got walked home by the guy she was attracted to and then spent 2-1/2 hours talking to him before coming home. Her therapist says this is ok???? When we were dating she cheated on me repeatedly. Am I crazy to think that something else went on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2007): This sounds kind of fishy to me. Unless she tells you something happened, you may never know. If she has cheated on you in the past and the behavior hasn't changed, then maybe she would do it again. DOn't follow the advise Kayla gave you(edsbabygirl),because it is not true that once a cheater always a cheater!! I know from experience. I have cheated when we first started going out but I would not even think about it now cause I love him and it's been 3 and a half years!!My behavior has changed. If your wife's behavior hasn't changed form the beggining when she was cheating, then sweetie you need to get out. She may bring you heartache or worse STD's!!
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reader, edsbabygirl  +, writes (3 August 2007):
 You should not trust her at all. She is a liar and a cheater once one of them all ways one of them. If you stay in this relationship, you will get hurt. If you can't get her to straighten out, I think it's time for a divorce. Kayla
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reader, Helen Help! :)  +, writes (3 August 2007):
 Hey i dont know ur wife so i cant exactly say yes she definatly cheated on u cuz i could be wrong but let me put it this way. ive been with my bf 2 n half yrs n i dont get the butterflys or the excitment i used to get wen we first started goin out, if i met someone that was attracted to me n i was them n thy gave me those butterflys n the excitment agen i think that i would end up cheatin on my bf. shes capable of it if shes done it in the past and surely she knows its not really right to spend 2 n half hours talkin to another man while her husband is waiting for her to come home. on the other hand she might just b wanting to socialise more but its just the fact shes told u shes attracted to him tht makes u think somethings goin on. all u can do is ask her if n e thing happend thn its up2 u if u believe her answer or not do u trust her? good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2007): Why would you marry someone who cheated on you repeatedly?? That's not a good choice. I think something may have happened, but you may never know. Why would she even ask you if she could dance with another guy? And why would she feel the need to tell you that she finds him attractive? It sounds like a bad marriage. I would consider moving on if that is the way she is to you,.
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