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writes:hiI have been with my partner for over 2 years, he told me 3 months ago he has a 13 year old son, He works away, and I only get to see him once a week, and he is always with his work mate,3 days ago he sent me a text message saying that his son wants to move in with us when we buy our house, I told him that was ok, but he won't let me meet his son yet, Everything is an excuse with him, I just don't know what to do, Any advice?
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reader, Uncle Trev +, writes (2 August 2007):
I wouldn't agree to anything regarding the son moving in until you have at least met him. You need to know you can get on - you need to know that you can trust the son too. If you agree and he turns out to be a monster, a thief or worse it is going to be very difficult to do anything about it once he is there and you have committed fully to this house.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2007): just give him time and the day you do get to see him talk to him and let him know how you feel hun and lets see what happends from therebest of luck sweetssincerly luva
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reader, Wildlife dude  +, writes (2 August 2007):
 Well I suspect you're going to get to meet him soon enough if he's planning to move in with you guys. It's probably just difficult to fit that into the schedule when you only get to see each other once a week. I'd be more concerned about that and the fact that he spends so much time with his work mate. Is she a female?.....You may have bigger problems than a 13 yr. old son you've yet to meet.
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