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anonymous
writes:Hi, my fiance wants to go on holiday with her ex and I just aren't happy with the idea - surely it's not a normal thing to do?Thanks,Confused
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2007): That is not normal, you should be worried and if you were to do the same would she mind? I'm sure she would.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2007): It doesn't sound normal. Her and her ex on holiday together? Alone? No wonder you are worried. This is not what i would call fair, after all, she wouldn't like it if you went on holiday with your ex. Perhaps maybe they are planning to be together romantically again. Get rid. You deserve better.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (2 August 2007):
 I would not be happy about it. I do not think it's normal and I cannot understand why she would do this unless she still has feelings for her ex. If it's because of their kids, she should at least bring you along. That would be my ultimatum. Either I go, or neither of us go. It's a matter of respect and love.
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reader, kenny +, writes (2 August 2007):
 Well im not suprised you are not happy with this idea, i don't think there is any man that would be to be honest. I would tell het that this is a real bad idea, and that you feel very strongly about this.
If she still goes i would consider walking away from the relationship altogether, but then that's just me.
I don't think i could cope with the feelings of being at home while my girlfriend is sunning it up with her ex.
Good luck
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reader, eddie  +, writes (2 August 2007):
 I think your question is a little light on detail.....On the surface, it sounds like a terrible idea. It's difficult to answer though , based on the information you provided.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2007): What is the nature of their relationship? Did they break up many years ago, or did they break up recently? Why did they break up? Are they better suited as friends, or is there something more there? What would she say if she read this question? How would she defend herself?
I'm not surprised you are feeling unhappy but you need to put things in to context so that you can decide whether or not what she is doing is acceptable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2007): why on earth is she going on holiday with the ex? i wouldnt be happy about that if it was my partner. why you not going?at the end of the day, if she is going to go then you cant stop her. you can talk to her and say you are very uneasy about it but if she is set on going then you either have to go with her or just trust her.shoe on the other foot "would she let you go on holiday with an ex?" i probably think not and i would not say thats normal.
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