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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Do girls actually “like” giving oral sex to guys or what?So many girls seem to have a real issue with it, like feeling subservient or degraded or something. But they don’t have any problem getting it!? What is all this double standards? I hate asking for “sex things” it seems so improper. I prefer to just go with the flow but I never seem to get what I want doing this, I’ll initiate because I like giving oral, feels great to dedicate so much attention to someone, but then things always seem to leap straight on to sex – which is great but I would like my “turn” if you like.And when I do ask (which I hate doing) cos then I’m always given that same submissive answer, “okay then” instead of very enthusiastic pounce “here I come!”There’s nothing sexy about a girl feeling she’s just paying you back or doing her duty – she has to enjoy it too!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2007): Wow. i feel like im reading something i could have written..
im 17 and in pretty much the same situation as you.
My boyfriend enjoys being passive, so he prefers me to take all the initiative.
I found describing a sexy dream, in which i am the passive one went down as a great hint..
however as we all know, some men are not very good at taking hints..
the best thing in that situation is to describe to your man how u would like him to be in bed, without being critical.. (never good to have ur ego bashed, especially in bedroom perfomance related topics, whether you are a man or a woman..)
try explaining that being passive turns you on as much as taking the initiative.. and you'd love it for him to treat you the way he'd want you to treat him.
when it comes down to it, communication is the only answer to your problem.
Good luck!
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