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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 months. The sex always seemed great to me..and at first he would cum. Now he never does. It's been almost 3 weeks since he came...I feel like I am doing something wrong. Please help? Reply to this Question
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reader, SumYungGuy +, writes (2 August 2007):
 Could be he wants to hold off orgasm so that when he does cum it feels GRAND!
Or it could be that he's stressed out about something and his mind is not really on his pleasure but is more focused on yours.
Or there could be some physical issues going on inside his body and he may want to consider seeing his doctor.
Either, communication is the key. Ask him if there's anything wrong or what's been on his mind lately. Let him know you've realized that he hasn't cum in three weeks. Let him know your concerns. See what happens.
Try giving him a blow job to see if you get anywhere with that. But be prepared for a flood of cum if he truly hasn't had an orgasm in a while - it can be quite a bit of a load. Just thought you should know.
Hope this helps.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (2 August 2007):
 Its unlikely you are doing anything wrong.You have spoken about this i take it?Has he ever had anything like this before?Is he drinking lots of alcohol because i know that can effect itI'm not too sure how long guys go without coming. But maybe he is doing it himself at timesDoes he say how he feels when he doesnt?Might be worth a trip to the doc.If he will do that. Some guys can be funny about that.But a chat with you too might be a good idea.Good luckC xxxxxx
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