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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:How do i stop obsessing over my ex boyfriend? He told me he might be moving back to my city and ever since then i have been phoning him and chatting with him online everyday. he says he still likes me but there is nothing we can do unless he moves back to my city. Which is true. I cant shut off my thoughts about him. how do i have self control in this situation!! I look desperate! Thanks.
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (2 August 2007):
 Well, do you want him back? Or are you just setting yourself up for another heart break? It's okay to visit with him a little, but if he's got a g/f or hasn't indicated that this is anything more than a friendship, then you probably need to find things to do with your time so you're not so vulnerable to chatting, or e-mailing him. Sign up for a class, join a gym, start going out more with your friends, anything to occupy your time and make you less available.
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