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writes: I've been in a relationship for almost 4 years and we have two children together. It's been extremely hard for us financially the past couple monthes and the stress just keeps building up. What can we do to keep us from falling apart? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Sugarbuns +, writes (2 August 2007):
Talk about your problems together and make it a team effort to solve each bump and crisis that comes along. Don't stop doing nice things for each other, no matter what's going on. When you're getting the kids ready for school or daycare, he could pour you a cup of coffee and put creamer in it, just the way you like and bring it to you. Or you might tuck a note into his lunch that reminds him how much you love him. Maybe it's a small gift that you surprise each other with from time to time (it doesn't have to be expensive). Just make time to flirt with each other, compliment each other, say and do nice things for each other as a couple, and you'll be able to weather the rest of the stress.
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reader, shaye +, writes (2 August 2007):
hi there, Please dont let money get between you two talk to each other heaps about how your both feeling and work things thru.Every couple has money problems at one time you just need get thru it with out damaging your relationship. hope u work it out. x
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