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*erenityjohnson
writes:My boyfriend and i have been dating for 1 1/8 and have an great relationship except sex. We have had sex over 10 times and neither have i had an orgrasm but he has them...the last time we had sex my boyfriend just kept trying to make me have an orgasm but i never came and he has an average size penis so is the problem me or what is it
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reader, serenityjohnson +, writes (3 August 2007):
serenityjohnson is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your answers it has really help me be comfortable with myself.
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reader, lemontree  +, writes (2 August 2007):
I think many women find it difficult to climax with penetration alone. Perhaps you should think about clitoral stimulation. Don't know if you have tried oral sex, but this usually produces an orgasm. You could do it to each other during foreplay, and then get him to stroke your clitoris during penetration.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (2 August 2007):
 I was having sex for years before i had my first orgasm, and it's not anything anyone is doing wrong, it's just sometimes it takes awhile before you find out just how to please each other and where the right spot is.
Take care.xx.
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reader, Artemesian  +, writes (2 August 2007):
 Hi thereYou have nothing to worry about! In fact you are more "normal" than girls your age who do orgasm from just sex. About 60-70% of women can't come (or haven't) from just sex, not everyone can do it. But some things do help to make it happen.I started having sex at 17 and never came with my first boyfriend (we were together for 2 1/2 years!) but since being with my current boyfriend I have been able to come from just sex a few times...it's all about how into the sex you are, how wet you are (just gotta point out the facts) and also position can really help. You on top is great as you can set the pace and control it more to what feels good for you. That's how I have been able to come and honestly I never thought I would, it seemed to me like it was all a big lie or a hype but it isn't! It will come naturally when it's right for you, pushing it or thinking to much only makes it harder. I hope these encourage you and have helped! Best of luck xo
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reader, smilingeyes  +, writes (2 August 2007):
It is often difficult for a female to have an orgasm through sexual intercourse (G-spot orgasm). The easiest (and very fulfilling) orgasm comes from stimulating the clitoris, which means you do not need penetration. There is no problem with either you or your boyfriend so do not worry. You may also find that you will be able to reach an orgasm through intercourse when you are more comfortable with your partner and through experimetation with different sexual positions. Hope this answer has helped.
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