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writes:I have a male friend who lives over 900 miles away. We've been on vacation together with our children. We speak to each other almost every day. He is usually the one who calls me first. We talk about everything. For the last year he has been going through a divorce which is now final. Most recently we went away alone for a brief weekend. Nothing happened, very platonic. When we talk he tells me I know him better than anyone else, he trust me even though he was sure he would never trust another woman again. Is is possible he is interested in being more than just a friend?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2008): He could be interested. The only way to know for sure is ofcourse to ask him how he feels or look for other signs that he's interested when you two get together. If nothing else it sounds like he defnitely values the friendship he has with you. I say give him a little time to get over the divorce and then see what happens. Yea 900 miles is quite a distance. So you will have to have a talk with him to see if you're both willing to make it work. I think LDRs can work if both people are willing to make it work. I know couple who met on myspace of all places. One lives in Texas and another in England and they just recently got married. Obviously they dated in person before that! I hope this helps! Good luck!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (3 August 2007):
 Yep, I think it is very, very possible that he's interested in you. I'm afraid of saying it's a sure thing, but, I wouldn't call a woman who lives that far away every day if I were not interested in her.
You need to define whether he would seriously consider getting involved with you. The 900 miles is an important issue.
Take care.
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reader, sxcbabiegal  +, writes (3 August 2007):
 ask him how he feels don't just sit and wonder you have to confront him and maybe a long distance relationship could work it depends really on how you feel about him and if you are prepared to be with him though there is distance just make sure you know how he feels first lv jodie xxxx
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