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*jManny
writes:Dear readers, I have currently split up with my fionce and we are just mates now. We work in the same work place as each other and mainly joke around and laugh around with each other. She wants to get back with me but i think she has a split personality, one minute shes nice and the next shes nasty. I find it really hard to control her sometimes. Also in work she is close to this lad, she laughs and messes around with him and sometimes I feel like I'm in a weaker position because he can make her laugh and make her happy all the time which I find quite hard to do sometimes. Well she said she wants me back but there are two sides to her, one which I do not like. How do i deal with this? Please help x
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (2 August 2007):
 Maybe she's bi-polar and has never been diagnosed. Unless she gets tested and treated for this disorder, I wouldn't puruse a relationship with her because you will have to deal with both sides to her personality, and I'm guessing the dark side of her could become abusive over time. I'd move on. You can be friends, but I would pursue other women at this point and not go back to her.
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reader, shaye  +, writes (2 August 2007):
Hi well i think you need to figure out "is this really the woman i want to spend the rest of my life with"? you say she has a split personality nice one minute then nasty the next,i personally couldnt be with someone like that.Not knowing what side she is going to show would make talking with her really difficult.You need to talk to her and tell her how your feeling so maybe she can work it. i hope things work out for you what ever you choose.x
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