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writes:What do I do when my husband wont talk to me? It's been 3 days and I havent heard from or seen him. He leaves for work early in the morning and comes home late at night.He is sleeping in the spare bedroom. HE got mad at me for questioning him about visiting his son. I just asked him why he didn't discuss this with me before making plans and he hasn't talked to me since. Reply to this Question
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reader, TinaMG +, writes (27 July 2011):
Thank you very much! It helps to know someone sounds like they care.
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reader, edsbabygirl +, writes (3 August 2007):
 HE is being very selfish, he needs to understand that you are a part of him and that things like that should be discussed. It isn't suppose to be offensive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2007): When my husband and I were having difficulty communicating, we decided to try writing down whatever it was that we needed to say or talk about. We started in the form of emails (that way they're not floating around the house to be seen by unwanted eyes accidentally). This way we could communicate clearly, without emotions getting in the way of rational thought. The first email I sent him started off as "I'm writing this because I am upset, but I don't think it's fair to yell at you, so I am sending you an email and hope to express my concerns clearly." Men hate women getting confrontational and upset with them, and this method avoids that. He may reply to your email, or come and talk to you. If he comes to talk to you, remember that you don't have to tell him anything at that point as he knows it all...as hard as i will be, just listen to whatever he has to say. You'd be surprised what men think sometimes, if only us women would sit down, shut up, and let them talk. I also found that it took my husband a few days to get his wits together to respond to me, so don't push for an instant resolution because it won't happen.I can't help but wonder if there's some issue brewing with the mother of his son? If that seemed to be a touchy topic with him. Maybe suggesting or planning an outing with the three of you might get him to spend some time with you, and maybe even talk to you. Is it possible that the boy's mother is causing havick?If you're having trouble nailing him down to talk to him at all, you may want to arrange a dinner with a nice couple that you both like...maybe also use email to let him know about it...or a note or something....and then you'll be able to grab him after dinner to talk to him.Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2007): just try to talk to him explain you did not mean it how he took it and just let him know you love him and it kills you inside that he is being like this toward you good luck sincerly luva
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