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writes:My boyfriend stays an hour away and I miss him so much that I want to start crying. He is away for work and can see him in two days. He phoned me tonight and I almost started crying, but did not cause he will maybe think I'm just being stupid. What can I do? Thanks to all that can help me! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2007): heya, i know exactly how you feel, im away on holidays for 2 weeks and the very day i cone home my boyfriend leaves to go on his holz so i wont hav seen him for a month by the time he gets back, its really really crap but u will get through it! the day i lwoz leavin i rang him at the airport and i cried wen i had hung up and i miss him more than nything in the world!! but everything happens for a reason and absense makes the heart grow stronger!! trust me! jusst think f all the good times u guys have had togethr and of so maany more to come ya?? good luck nd hope evrythin works ou 4ya!!
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (2 August 2007):
 You need to find things to keep yourself from going nuts. When my b/f works out of town, I do all the things I never get to do when he's around. For one thing I don't cook a thing! I sleep in the middle of the bed. I make flavored coffee. I read gossip magazines. I do my nails. Watch naughty movies. That way, I get a "vacation" too so I don't pine away because he's gone. Also, it helps to go out with friends, see a movie (yes, even a sappy romantic movie and you can cry all you want). The key to long distance relationships is to be an individual. Your life doesn't stop when they're not with you. And a little independence is sexy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2007): Hi love,
Dont worry hunny my fella goes for a few days a week as its nice to have a break and do your own thing relax do your girlie stuff and you appreciate each others company so much more if you have your me time, everybody needs a little time to unwind and be just you.
Yes you will miss him but the seeing him again will be so exciting, enjoy your time together and enjoy the times apart thinking of how wonderfull it is to feel how much you love him and you have someone so special in your life.
Take care of you lots of love MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, lovehate  +, writes (2 August 2007):
 Exactly what the post below says hang in there! It is amazing how close you are to cry if he is away for that period of time. Try to get your mind of him, keep yourself busy until he comes back, and when he does suprise him with something :P
Best of Luck.
Need more advice, message me xx
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reader, Andy00 +, writes (2 August 2007):
 Sorry, mate, but I have to tell you; an hour is not a big deal.
It's understandable that you should miss him, but surely, a meer 2 days away from seeing him, you should feel more excited than upset.
I have just come out a relationship with my girlfriend who lived 240 miles away from me. That's 4 and a half hours away. We were together for 2 years, and were only able to meet up every 7 weeks or so for between 1 and 2 weeks.
I understand long distance is tough, but at the end of the day, an hour isn't an awful lot, and you are seeing him in only a couple of days time.
Be stronger, for the sake of your relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2007): just hang in there and i wish you the best and hope you see him soon
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