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... Send *asteofIndia a private message | | | *asteofIndia's profile:TasteofIndia here. I'm 33 years old, with my BA in Theater & Psychology. I suppose you could say that I have studied people and how to get into their heads. I've been here on Dear Cupid for well over a decade. I love Dear Abby, Ann Landers, all those advice giving goddesses... when I found this website how could I resist?? (Couldn't.) I love Dear Cupid, love being a moderator and love giving advice when I can!!
A lot of people ask if I'm from India... just to clear things up, I'm not. I'm not Indian, I just really liked that song by Aerosmith when I first made this account. I've never been to India. I'm not even an Aerosmith fan, really, but I really liked that song at the time.
I've been with my fella for 14 years, married for 10. We have two cool daughters and a pretty cool life that involves lots of adventure, art and laughter.
I adore: positivity, theater, llamas, fromage, sweatpants, earrings, and sitcoms. That just about sums it up... |
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My friend is putting doubts in my head...
Q. Well my boyfriend and I dont go to the same school, so I only see him 2-3 days a week (usually friday, saturday and sunday) During the school week (mon-thur) it seems like we're so busy that we barely talk (we talk about 1-2 days between mon-thurs) ...
A. 14 October 2008: You and your boyfriend seem to have something good going on! Sure you don't see him every day, but your situation is a lot better than being in a long distance relationship when you NEVER see each other. Space is healthy for a relationship, ... (read in full...)
I've found his profile on facebook, would it seem wrong to ask him to be my 'friend' or 'poke' him?
Q. Theres this guy, (a rep from a company) that came into my workplace who I thought was good looking we had a bit of a chat and a laugh he then left. He returned a few days later to speak to my male boss, who at last minute wanted me in on the ...
A. 14 October 2008: I don't think it'd be wrong... it is a networking site after all, and that's all you'd be doing!... (read in full...)
He seemed surprised I'd called him, should I take this reaction as a rejection or see what happens?
Q. I have a male friend with whom I haven't see for about a year and a half, since he moved to a different state. We have kept in touch by emails. I decided to call him to finally make a different contact. He was very surprised and almost speechles...
A. 14 October 2008: I wouldn't call his shock rejection. He was probably just very surprised to have an old friend pop into his life out of the blue!
I wouldn't give up on rekindling the friendship quite yet!... (read in full...)
I feel very alone and unwanted, and I don't know what to do.
Q. i dont know what to do im 18 i have very frew friends cant seem to find a girlfriend i hardly ever talk 2 my mum or dad we can sit in same room without speaking 4 days i feel very alone and unwanted i dont no what to do any help...
A. 14 October 2008: Your life needs some spice. You are stuck in a rut, my friend. You need to get out and try some new stuff, find some new places to hang.
I am extremely sad for your situation, and hope that you will take it upon yourself to join a club, get invo... (read in full...)
Why didn't she text me after the movie?
Q. I asked my girlfriend to txt me when she was done watching the movie she was watching with her family at her house and her brother started txting me around 8:00 and we got to talking and he told me the movie was done at 5:00! I talked to my ...
A. 14 October 2008: She probably just got distracted and forgot. It happens sometimes. I would let this one go.... (read in full...)
Am I obsessed or is it just a crush?
Q. I'm in desperate need of help. I really like this guy, but he's too old for me (legally). I'm fifteen years old and I just want to know if I'm obsessed, have a crush, or am I a stalker? You see, this guy isn't like other guys. He's nice and ...
A. 14 October 2008: I think that you have a really serious infatuation. I don't think you gave enough evidence for me to say that you are stalking him, all though moving close to him seems a little extreme. I think, however, by then you'll have moved on and found new ... (read in full...)
He tries to force himself on me, then tells me he loves me?
Q. i really dont know what to do!! i cant even sleep. ive tried, and tried and its runnin through my mind like christmas does!! its awful! today, i was in school (6th form) and i got a text from my *friend* call him bob. and he said to me 'come to...
A. 14 October 2008: Stay away from that creep!! He is dangerous and disturbed. Don't get involved with a fella like that who will bring you nothing but drama and hurt feelings. Even if you have SOME good times, the bad ones grossly outweigh them. Please stay away from ... (read in full...)
My hair is fallling out, I keep getting headaches and feel sick, my partner says he will leave me if these are signs of pregnancy, help!
Q. Okay, I have a problem here. My hair is falling out, and I keep getting these headaches at around 5:00 PM and then again at like 11:00 PM, never in the morning, also the second i wake up i feel really sick to my stomach, and then though out the day ...
A. 14 October 2008: Get a pregnancy test, a more reliable form of birth control and a NEW BOYFRIEND. I can't believe that he said that to you, and wasn't trying to be more supportive. He acts as the unplanned pregnancy isn't at ALL his fault - it does take two to tango ... (read in full...)
I'm not pressurised into sex but I'm worried he will cheat on me if I'm not good in bed...
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months now, and we are both over 16 + virgins. we done nearly everything, like hand jobs and blowjobs ect, but im scared to have sex.. i feel im ready to and im not being pressurised into it, but im ...
A. 14 October 2008: You say you're not being pressured, but you are certainly feeling an awful lot of pressure right now if you feel like he will cheat on you if you're not good.
Believe me, any guy who cheats on you because you're not spectacular in the sack is ... (read in full...)
I want to move out of my parent's house but it's complicated.
Q. Ok, here's my basic situation: I'm a 19-year-old artist who wants to move out of her parents' house. Said situation is complicated by the facts that my brother is seriously mentally and physically ill, my father has a drinking problem, and I ...
A. 14 October 2008: Do you have any older friends who can drive? I know that I taught a buddy of mine to drive on our own time. She was in a similar situation to yours, and I was happy to help. I would only go to a close friend, because it will take a close friend to ... (read in full...)
Lack of trust... or lack of commitment?
Q. Hi. I have a huge problem. I'll quickly tell you things before i get onto the main part. I'm 20 and been going out with my girlfriend for 2 years. Before her, i had 3 girlfriends who all cheated on me. Anyway to the story. About 8 months ago, i...
A. 14 October 2008: Yeah, I don't know if a phone number is enough to really be suspicious. A phone number is sometimes just a phone number - I have more numbers in my phone... most of them I never use, but they're still hanging out.
If you guys have a strong r... (read in full...)
I need a step by step on how to kiss...any tips?
Q. ok so i know this is going to sound really stupid, but im ready for my 1st kiss and i dnt no wat to do. i dnt no anythink even were to put my lips (bottom or top lip) and i just need a step step detail on how to kiss. thankyou xx...
A. 13 October 2008: Kissing is pretty natural - once your lips are actually TOUCHING, you'll get the idea and just go with the flow. Maybe watch a few movies with kissing to get video instructions.
Don't throw your tongue into his mouth right away - that can be o... (read in full...)
I don't know what words to use to tell my parents I am gay.
Q. Hey everyone, I am 15, gay and proud to be. I am "out" to my friends but not my parents. I am nervous to tell them. Not because I think they will react badly. It is because I just don't know how to phrase it. When I came out to my friends I put it ...
A. 13 October 2008: I like HonningKanin's approach. Tell them that you'd like to talk over dinner - you're cooking. Make them a delicious dinner, and over dinner or dessert tell them gently. I'm sure that part of them already knows... parents are intuitive like that. ... (read in full...)
Keep or wait to have this baby? We may not be financially stable to properly care for another being that needs us. Your thoughts?
Q. I am 20 and my boyfriend is 21. We are planning on getting married but have been putting it off so that we can save for a big wedding. We both want children one day but my issue is, I just found out that I am pregnant...right now. So, I'm ...
A. 13 October 2008: I was faced with this situation myself. I read in a book how somebody else dealt with it and it worked for me - close your eyes and visualize yourself without the baby. If you are breathing a sigh of relief - an abortion may be better for your life ... (read in full...)
He wants to have a threesome with the other woman not touching him or be touched by him!?
Q. My boyfriend (28, I'm 24) of 6 months has been asking to have another woman join us in our 'bedroom time'. He says he will not touch and will not be touched by her, but that she will only touch me and I will be in control of the entire situation. ...
A. 13 October 2008: It's all about how YOU feel about it. If you don't care for the idea, tell him "sorry, not going to happen". If you're really interested (I mean REALLY), then go for it. Your boyfriend seems to be excited about you with another woman. If you are ... (read in full...)
My room mate has Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
Q. My room mate has Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Everyday I have to deal with his inflated ego. I have to deal with peoples complaints about him daily. We've already argued twice. This is added stress affecting my schoolwork. How can I deal ...
A. 12 October 2008: Talk to your Resident Adviser about finding a new roommate!! Definitely find someone else to shack up with because your schoolwork should take priority.... (read in full...)
Any tips to stop the craving to smoke?
Q. Hello Everyone. I know this is not relationship advice I'm seeking, but please be kind, and help me anyway. I've been a smoker for nearly 14 years. Never really smoked much (only about 5-7 cigarettes a day), until about April of 2007. I st...
A. 11 October 2008: YES!! This follow up made my day. Congratulations!!! You must update us when you've been clean for ONE YEAR!!
How exciting for you. You must feel super strong at this point... your will power is unbelievable - especially with all the stress t... (read in full...)
He won't take his boxers off!
Q. My boyfriend and me had sex but for some reason he kept his boxers on. When I tried to pull them down he would jerk away. When I ask him why. He said. Bf: My `thingy`` is too small. me: oh it cant that small Bf: yeah it is nutmeg (thats my nick...
A. 11 October 2008: Well, your boyfriend is shy and insecure - YOU ARE NOT HELPING. By calling him out and getting pissed, you're just enabling his shy behavior.
Apologize to him and let him know that you adore him and just want to have fun with all of him. Tell him... (read in full...)
I want to move out and I'm very responsible at 17, any advice about how to find a good place to rent?
Q. I will be Seventeen years old this coming May. I have a stable good paying job.Over $5,000 saved.My liscense and a car.I got my GED about a month ago and next fall I wanted to go to college.My Good friend and I really would like to rent a house ...
A. 10 October 2008: Shared housing is so much fun. That's what I did with a buddy when we took off after high school. That's when the landlord rents out rooms in a house, and there's a bunch of people living there - it's seriously, awesome. And a good way to save a lot ... (read in full...)
Tell me about your first time. Was it romantic? Was it fun? Was it what you expected?
Q. Tell me about your first time. Was it romantic? Was it fun? Was it what you expected?...
A. 9 October 2008: My first time was awesome... sort of. I had waited (mostly thanks to a lack of eligible fellas by my standards) and when I was 19 I moved out to Portland and finally felt that right chemistry with the right fella. We waited three months and then ... (read in full...)
I like the idea of a threesome but I'm worried I would be made to feel like the "second wheel"...
Q. I have been dating this dude for about 7 months and he and I are both great at exploring new things sexually. Lately, he has been asking me to have a threesome which i am okay with. I love trying new things and I want to have the threesome too....
A. 8 October 2008: Bad plan!! Threesomes = complete fiasco . The aftermath is disastrous to relationships and it sounds like this will be the case in yours. You sound like you already have insecurities, and I think that the drama of a threesome will be toxic for you ... (read in full...)
Is there a way to share your sadness with a girl without looking like a wimp?
Q. I went out with my girlfriend the other week and I was really depressed about some stuff going on at home. But instead of telling her about it I just pretended I was having fun. I'm really scared to tell her when I'm sad cause she might judge me ...
A. 8 October 2008: Have more faith in your girlfriend. Being honest with her and sharing with her will only bring you closer together. Any girl who thinks that you're pathetic is NOT A GIRL YOU WANT TO BE WITH! A winner of a lady will never judge you, and want to hear ... (read in full...)
I need some advice, I'm 15 and might be pregnant!
Q. Ok im 15 years old and i think i might be pregnant... i havent gottin my period for this month and lately me and my bf have been having unprotected sex =/ i know i cant tell my family or friend because they'll all be very upset...and im not ready to...
A. 8 October 2008: Hi darling,
Go get a pregnancy test. If you are lucky enough to not be pregnant, the next thing to do is to get yourself on birth control. If you're going to have sex, you have to be responsible about it - and the consequences don't stop at pregn... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend but he takes drugs and I don't know what to do.
Q. Hey, I really don't know what to do :( for the last month or so I have been seeing a guy. But on weekends he takes cocaine with his friends, I totally disagree with any illegal drugs, so I had a go at him about it. Saturday night I was supp...
A. 6 October 2008: I'm happy for you both, sweetness. You guys made a decision for the best...
Good luck, my sweet. You will find a new honey to treat you well and fill your days with excitement. For now, enjoy the single life!! You don't have anyone to answer t... (read in full...)
Now I'm 22, is a relationship with my one time Spanish teacher legal, or is it frowned upon??
Q. I'm a 22 year old male, in a decent job, with a good social life. I often go out drinking with friends. One time when I went down the pub, I saw my old Spanish teacher. She was 27 when I was 16 doing my GCSE's. We had fun reminiscing about old...
A. 6 October 2008: You're not a student any more!! She's single, so are you...
I think you're in the clear to go for it.
Enjoy!... (read in full...)
Is my husbands fetish normal?
Q. I have a question about a weird fetish my husband has developed in the last few months. Lately, instead of us having intercourse, he likes to watch me have intercourse with a vibrator instead while he holds it. Is this normal, and if so why does he ...
A. 6 October 2008: It sounds relatively normal, a lot of men get off on that sort of thing. Is he avoiding being intimate with you all together? Does he still kiss you, pleasure you? He may just be so excited about this new routine, that he has forgotten how to be a ... (read in full...)
I forgave my girlfriend after blatantly cheating on me several times, now I suspect she is still cheating / lying!
Q. Last week my gf got home and text me "baby im home - come round now" - when i turned up she was in tears, i kind of knew what was coming next. I said wats up "im going to loose you" - me "why" - i new she had either been with somebody or slep...
A. 6 October 2008: Sketchy behavior all over the place. You have every reason to be suspicious. I think that she's hiding something as well I agree with the previous poster - you should just ditch her and find someone doesn't have so many secrets and who will treat ... (read in full...)
Jerk or nerd - which do I choose?
Q. ok here we go... well im 17 and leaving school soon. i have been going out with a guy in my school since i was in grade 9. but recently i have noticed my feelings for him arent that strong anymore. When we kiss i dont feel anything-at all. And...
A. 6 October 2008: Never the jerk. "Jerk" is pretty much always the wrong answer. The nerd is the better choice, because he'll treat you better and you actually enjoy spending time with him.
Who the hell cares if you get terrorized at school? You're 17 now, you're g... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend but he takes drugs and I don't know what to do.
Q. Hey, I really don't know what to do :( for the last month or so I have been seeing a guy. But on weekends he takes cocaine with his friends, I totally disagree with any illegal drugs, so I had a go at him about it. Saturday night I was supp...
A. 6 October 2008: Don't accept no for an answer. You tell him that he kicks the drugs or you're walking. If he doesn't make honest effort to stop, ditch the guy. You don't want to be involved in that kind of world.
He may be a great guy, but you deserve better t... (read in full...)
Is it friends or something more?
Q. Theres a guy who I work with, he calls me and texts me every day, and we speak on the phone for hours. We went for lunch one day, and were going out again this week and he says he's gonna take me shopping for clothes and stuff. He's asked me thing...
A. 6 October 2008: Sounds like it's going somewhere. No guy just takes any "friend" shopping, he takes a girlfriend shopping. Or, at least someone he's trying to impress...
Sounds like it's full of potential. Keep that flirting game up, girlfriend. Have fun!... (read in full...)
I like straight and gay porn. Am I bisexual?
Q. Im a 19yr female. I think Im bi curious, but Im confused. I masturbate and get off to both straight and gay(guy/guy and girl/girl) porn, i dont know what this means? Is this normal?...
A. 5 October 2008: You're completely normal. All kinds of people (particularly women) can get down to both kinds of porn. I know I can. I think that sexuality is a difficult thing to define - but it is more defined by your actions than by your fantasies.
Don't... (read in full...)
I made a commet to my boyfriend and I don't know if I hurt his feelings
Q. Hello everybody, and thanks for read my post, I think I said something to my boyfriend that wasn't good, we had a discution 2 days ago, he is a very quiet guy, he doesn't raise his voice, but I am very volatil, and sometimes I say things that I ...
A. 3 October 2008: I think it's quite possible that you hurt his feelings. That was a pretty harsh thing to say - I totally understand that you were pissed, and sometimes we say things out of anger, but you need to learn how to control that temper. I can sympathize ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to try new things without discussing it or am I right to be upset?
Q. I am sexually active with my bf of 9 months. Last night we had sex and he pulled out and jizzed all over me. He's never done that before. We use birth control and he didn't need to do that. I got mad because he didn't ask first. He says he shouldn't ...
A. 3 October 2008: I completely agree with xKx.
In a secure relationship, it should be okay to try new things without discussing it - WITHIN REASON. It should also be okay for you to say, "whoa, next time why don't you give me a little warning!" or simply say, "I'... (read in full...)
I told myself that I would never mention marriage to him again, but at the same time, I don't really want to help pay for a house that is only in his name... what do I do here for the best?
Q. I have been living w/ my boyfriend for 2 yrs. We have been renting. He is now working on getting a loan for a house (to buy) and we have started house hunting. He has been talking about putting the house in his name only. I don't really care for...
A. 3 October 2008: If you are helping pay for the house, your name should be included. You and your boyfriend need to have a serious talk if you're thinking about buying a house together. If he's man enough to purchase a house, he should be man enough to talk about ... (read in full...)
He says he's not ready for a baby - how can I change his mind?
Q. Me and my husband have been together for almost 4 and a half years and we have been married 1 year. I want to have a baby like yesterday, and my husband says hes not ready but i know he is. He is great with children. Im a nanny for a little boy and ...
A. 2 October 2008: Don't you want having children to be a positive event for him? Your desire for wanting children is natural and beautiful, but it's getting to the point of selfishness. Maybe he just wants to have some more alone time with you before your lives get ... (read in full...)
My wife is pregnant (again) and our sex life is DEAD!
Q. My wife is 4 yrs. younger than I am. Since she's gotten pregnant (again, 2nd baby now), our sex life is terrible. I feel like I have to nearly beg. She says 'okay', but then later on says "I'm too tired" or "let's do it later on". Later on never ...
A. 2 October 2008: She's pregnant - she's probably all hopped up on the hormones. However, like all the other ladies have said, to rev up your wifes sex drive, you need to get into the drivers seat and start working for it. Sometimes it takes a little extra effort - ... (read in full...)
I have a burning guilt for having used drugs at my friend's instigation! Should I tell my boyfriend?
Q. I've never done cocaine before, but my best friend does it a lot. Somehow when I was over at her house, I ended up doing it too, even though in the back of my head I knew my boyfriend wouldn't approve. Should I tell him I did it? Or is it okay if I ...
A. 2 October 2008: I think you should tell him. If he ever finds out in the future that you kept it a secret, he will be really hurt and feel betrayed. That's a lot harder to fix!
I actually think that telling your boyfriend will make you stay away from that cra... (read in full...)
What should I do about my abusive boyfriend?
Q. The other week I kissed one of my boyfriends best friends and now I dont know what to do. My boyfriend and I have been arguing a lot and the majority of the time when we argue he gets abusive and hits me. His friend walked in on this happen...
A. 2 October 2008: I agree with Annalisa -- why are you waiting for other people to talk to him about his behavior? Call the cops! Leave him! You know what he's doing is completely wrong, and if you're kissing other guys, it just prove that you're already disconnected ... (read in full...)
Will small breasts on a thin frame put people off?
Q. My breasts are really small. Ive got quite a slim frame. Do you think it will put people off? :(...
A. 1 October 2008: Heck no, sweetness!!
If by "people", you are concerned with attracting a significant other - please don't worry. Guys (this is assuming that you are after dudes) love girls with all SORTS of frames. Being petite is a real turn on for lots of guys,... (read in full...)
Dating a year and I want to meet his family...but when I suggest it...he gets so defensive! What is happening?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year and still have not met his family. Everytime I bring it up he has one excuse or another. He also shuts his phone off everytime we are together and will not talk to people over the phone in front of ...
A. 30 September 2008: Are you sure this guy isn't married?? You have an awful lot of reasons to doubt his sincerity in this relationship. I would proceed with caution, my dear!!... (read in full...)
I'm wondering what walks of life the aunts and uncles come from?
Q. Dear posters, I think its wonderful to have people from different walks of life, to be able to come here and look at others situations with a different set of eyes. its great! On to my question, I was left wondering what each and every one of you...
A. 24 September 2008: Hi!
I'm 22 and I go to school (theater major... useless, yes) and then I work at Victoria's Secret and Under U 4 Men (a men's underwear store). So I'm pretty much the authority on undergarments!! Lol.
A great question, I can't wait to check ba... (read in full...)
Any tips to stop the craving to smoke?
Q. Hello Everyone. I know this is not relationship advice I'm seeking, but please be kind, and help me anyway. I've been a smoker for nearly 14 years. Never really smoked much (only about 5-7 cigarettes a day), until about April of 2007. I st...
A. 25 March 2008: Yay, fabulous! Wait until you hit that MONTH mark. You'll be feeling amazing. What a great accomplishment!! You are testing your strength and will power and YOU ARE WINNING! Keep going, my sweet!... (read in full...)
Any tips to stop the craving to smoke?
Q. Hello Everyone. I know this is not relationship advice I'm seeking, but please be kind, and help me anyway. I've been a smoker for nearly 14 years. Never really smoked much (only about 5-7 cigarettes a day), until about April of 2007. I st...
A. 21 March 2008: Hope that things are still going strong... if you have faltered, it's okay! GET BACK ON THAT HORSE!... (read in full...)
Any tips to stop the craving to smoke?
Q. Hello Everyone. I know this is not relationship advice I'm seeking, but please be kind, and help me anyway. I've been a smoker for nearly 14 years. Never really smoked much (only about 5-7 cigarettes a day), until about April of 2007. I st...
A. 16 March 2008: ONE WEEK!!!!
Killer, dude. So happy for you! Please continue to update us week by week, so we can continue to cheer you on. Also, write to us with any struggles that you find yourself having!!
Good luck and keep going!!!
xx India... (read in full...)
Any tips to stop the craving to smoke?
Q. Hello Everyone. I know this is not relationship advice I'm seeking, but please be kind, and help me anyway. I've been a smoker for nearly 14 years. Never really smoked much (only about 5-7 cigarettes a day), until about April of 2007. I st...
A. 15 March 2008: I feel great because YOU feel great. Congratulations, you are definitely having sweet victory. Sounds like you had a fun night! Keep it up, sweetness!... (read in full...)
Any tips to stop the craving to smoke?
Q. Hello Everyone. I know this is not relationship advice I'm seeking, but please be kind, and help me anyway. I've been a smoker for nearly 14 years. Never really smoked much (only about 5-7 cigarettes a day), until about April of 2007. I st...
A. 14 March 2008: Still routing you on!! I hate spiders too, oh God. Brave girl.
NO SMOKING HOORAY!!... (read in full...)
Any tips to stop the craving to smoke?
Q. Hello Everyone. I know this is not relationship advice I'm seeking, but please be kind, and help me anyway. I've been a smoker for nearly 14 years. Never really smoked much (only about 5-7 cigarettes a day), until about April of 2007. I st...
A. 13 March 2008: Three days!! Hoorah! If you last for the whole week, you will feel invincible!!... (read in full...)
Any tips to stop the craving to smoke?
Q. Hello Everyone. I know this is not relationship advice I'm seeking, but please be kind, and help me anyway. I've been a smoker for nearly 14 years. Never really smoked much (only about 5-7 cigarettes a day), until about April of 2007. I st...
A. 11 March 2008: Woo hoo!!! Keep going, keep going!! Well DONE! Tell your partner so that he can be cheering you on as well!
xx India... (read in full...)
Any tips to stop the craving to smoke?
Q. Hello Everyone. I know this is not relationship advice I'm seeking, but please be kind, and help me anyway. I've been a smoker for nearly 14 years. Never really smoked much (only about 5-7 cigarettes a day), until about April of 2007. I st...
A. 11 March 2008: Woo hoo, 20 hours (probably even more by now!). The first few days are the hardest. Also, if you falter in your journey (which you SHOULDN'T, but if you do), don't beat yourself up about it. Just keep going, keep being strong, and KEEP RESISTING!!
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Any tips to stop the craving to smoke?
Q. Hello Everyone. I know this is not relationship advice I'm seeking, but please be kind, and help me anyway. I've been a smoker for nearly 14 years. Never really smoked much (only about 5-7 cigarettes a day), until about April of 2007. I st...
A. 10 March 2008: Congratulations! Quitting smoking is SO difficult... every time you feel yourself start to slip, just go and hug your daughter and hang out with her. I assume you don't smoke around her, so she may be a great incentive for you to stay on track. ... (read in full...)
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