New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

I need a step by step on how to kiss...any tips?

Tagged as: Dating, Teenage<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (12 October 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 October 2008)
A female , *ugersweet02 writes:

ok so i know this is going to sound really stupid, but im ready for my 1st kiss and i dnt no wat to do.

i dnt no anythink even were to put my lips (bottom or top lip) and i just need a step step detail on how to kiss.

thankyou xx

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2008):

Dear Poster

Herewith an article I have saved on my computer; hope it will be of assistance to you.

A guide to great kissing

Knowing when to kiss for the first time:

Break the ice by greeting your date with a kiss on the cheek. When it comes to the time for the "real" kiss you will both be much more relaxed.

Touch your partner throughout the evening. Don't hold the touch too long, however. Use your judgment.

Wait for the moment to present itself.

Look for cues from body language. Is your partner moving into you?

Tilt head, close eyes (enhances the sensation of the kiss)

Kiss lightly with soft lips and a slightly open mouth.

Savour the smell.

Gently move your whole body toward your partner, if he/she is responding, press your chest towards him/her, then your waist and finally move your hips.

Feel your partner's rhythm, match it.

Tongue:

Gently move the tongue in, exploring the inside of the lips, move in a little more paying attention to your partner's motions and rhythms.

Take turns exploring each others' mouths.

Play with the tongue.

Kissing do's and don'ts:

Don't slobber - The amount of moisture should remain the same as your normal state.

Don't tense up your lips - allow your lips to relax, not sloppy, but loose.

Do Tease - be gentle at first. Give your partner a chance to come after your lips, want your lips.

Use all your senses to make love with your mouth.

Be aware of your oral hygiene. Smell and taste can be the most potent of aphrodisiacs (or turn-offs).

Don't press your lips too much into your lover's lips. Squashing your lover's lips is not passionate, it just hurts and makes it difficult for them to respond.

Tips to make it special

Ear nibbling - lightly little nibbles, alternating with light sucking of the lobe is an effective technique.

Cherish the bottom lip. Gently suck the lower lip between your lips for a second before you let it go. Even nibble gently.

USE YOUR HANDS. Hold the face, caress hair, slide your hand down the back. Each one will enhance the kiss that much more.

Enhance the senses - Connect your lips and then don't move. A kiss that will build your anticipation for everything else as it builds intimacy.

Be creative - Develop you own special kissing style. Don't stick to one thing. Explore, enjoy the senses.

Get into it. Your lover will be able to feel your involvement. Enjoy your senses.

Allow the tongue to dance together, teasing it, melding with it, moving together, and apart. Let your lover take the lead once in a while. Allow his/her tongue to set the tone, follow it where it goes.

Lightly lick the neck, use your soft hot breath to linger over the ear.

Move your soft lips down the neck to the very sensitive area where the hairline stops. Lick and nibble.

Oh and as one of the other aunts once suggested; start practicing with your hand.

Relax, enjoy and keep SMILING.

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (13 October 2008):

TasteofIndia agony auntKissing is pretty natural - once your lips are actually TOUCHING, you'll get the idea and just go with the flow. Maybe watch a few movies with kissing to get video instructions.

Don't throw your tongue into his mouth right away - that can be overwhelming! And I wouldn't say that kissing has much of a "sucking" action, but maybe I'm just doing it differently than the other posters.

When do it, you'll get it. Practice on the back of your hand and you'll be fine!

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2008):

Lean in, meet him (or her) halfway

Let the inside of your lips meet his (this is the immediate inside)

Suck his tongue and take it from there

There is no actual directions to kissing

Do what feels nice

The more you kiss the better you get at it

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "I need a step by step on how to kiss...any tips?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0312430999983917!