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writes:Ok im 15 years old and i think i might be pregnant...i havent gottin my period for this month and lately me and my bf have been having unprotected sex =/ i know i cant tell my family or friend because they'll all be very upset...and im not ready to have a kid me and my bf are only 15.... so sum1 plz give me some advice i really need it.... =/ thank you 3333
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (8 October 2008):
 I agree with the other aunts who are suggesting that you get a pregnancy test first. You can buy them from the local pharmacy, or call Planned Parenthood to see if they can assist you in getting one. The number is 1-800-230-PLAN. Their website is helpful too, if you need to find a local clinic. http://www.plannedparenthood.org/
The thing not to do is panic. You are where you are now, so start to think logically and plan each step. First step, get a pregnancy test. Second step, take it. From the results, then you can start to decide what to do.
You are going to get some feedback about not using protection, as that is pretty much a guaranteed way to get pregnant. I would have a long think about why you were having sex without protection, and come up with an answer, because you are going to be asked this again. The clinic will want to know, and your parents, if you are pregnant, will also want to know.
Unfortunately for you, it is time to grow up and start making decisions and doing things like an adult. Sorry for that, but I guess it's all part of life. I do wish you well, and hope that this is only a scare. Let us know how you get on if you can.
Good luck.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (8 October 2008):
 Hi darling,
Go get a pregnancy test. If you are lucky enough to not be pregnant, the next thing to do is to get yourself on birth control. If you're going to have sex, you have to be responsible about it - and the consequences don't stop at pregnancy - you could fall victim to any number of STD's.
If you are pregnant, get ready to talk to your parents about your situation and figure out what is best for you.
I hope your boyfriend is a sweetheart and can give you the support you need during this!
xx
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reader, Country Woman  +, writes (8 October 2008):
 Oh sweetheart you really need to get a pregnancy test asap, if you didn't want a baby yet why have unprotected sex?
Your body and that of your bf's are mature enough to make a child so first of all find out if you are pregnant or not, there could be other reasons why you haven't got your period yet as worry and stress can sometimes delay that coming so don't start to panic just yet, first of all find out whether you are pregnant or not.
You can get a pregnancy test kit from a local chemist or pharmacy and do a home test first of all or you could go to your doctor or local GP/Practioner to find out. There could well be different clinics near you who offer free condoms or something so see who is around locally but if you and your bf can muster up the cash for a home pregnancy test kit that would be the first thing to do.
Once you know either way then you seriously need to start thinking about what and who you are going to tell if the test tells you that you are actually pregnant, cross that bridge when you get to it though as right now there is nothing definite and you could be worrying for nothing. However if you do get a reprieve of not being pregnant hopefully this will be the biggest wake up call for both you and your bf to always use protection in the future no matter how many times you want to have sex OK.
Keep me posted.
BFN
Country Woman
x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2008): omg you silly kids why wont you learn to be in control of your action.. how did you not think this through. not having a direct go at you but its getting depressing seeing how many of you say im underage and having unprotected sex..of course you will be pregnant and if your not then your bloody lucky but i would say you would be.. sex = prengant..go to your gp and tell them that you think you might be pregnant.. their is two routes you can choose having the child or abortion the choice is up to you..also in future dont have sex unless your responsible to deal with the consequences also go on the pill and use protection dont be stupid. have a look at this site http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html
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