I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 15, nearing 16.
Q. First off, I'm well aware of the age of consent and such, and neither of us plan to have sex with each other any time soon. (Well, we haven't talked about anything sexual and I fully intend to wait until he is of age before anything like that ...
A. 4 December 2012: So?It doesn't seem wrong at all. Some boys at 16 can look as 18. So if you're having sex or not in my oppinion it's nothing bad. At 17 i had GF who were 21, does it seem odd?! no, if you feel well together then be happy. just remember after 18 age ... (read in full...)
She admitted to faking it! Should I forget about this?
Q. hello dear readers so i'm with my gf 1 year and 6 months...so everything is well. But...we were at a party this new year eve, so we drank a little bit as you all know...and we played a game truth all falls, so the questions were asked to my gf, and ...
A. 2 December 2012: i'm sorry for the late answer, thank you a lot for your answers!!!!!... (read in full...)
No contact in a week from b/f and I have no idea why?
Q. So my boyfriend hasnt talked to me for a week, We've been dating for 4months now (going into 5) he hasn't replied nto my texts or to my calls. My mind tells me he's cheating. My heart tells me hes busy. But you,see he's parents'dont care bout ...
A. 2 December 2012: In my oppinion he has a very difficult life, and that reflects on your relationship. As you saw they aren't easy, so in my opppinion you should put an end, or you'll suffer and get involved in things that you'll be regretting after.
good luck... (read in full...)
How do I get read of this "friends with benefits"?
Q. Hi! Ok I know this is gone sounds trivial but I need help with it!! I met this guy a while back we went for a few drinks and hit it off , I explained to him that I was not looking for anything serious and that what I needed at the moment was pure...
A. 2 December 2012: tell him as every girl says: first of lie, and say that you feel bad after that night it didn't feel well and you're friendschip is more important then sex))) or just ignore as adviced other users.... (read in full...)
My sister caught me watching porn and I'm afraid she'll tell my parents.
Q. my sister caught me watching porn. im to scared to talk to her now. she's always so nosey, she reads my diary and stalks me, i know i shouldn't be watching porn, and i have tried to curve the habit. how can i make it seem not that bad? what is she ...
A. 2 December 2012: after a certain age everybody watches porn. In reasonable time per weak of course. Your parents had the same thing at your age, so they know that at your age you become curious and it should happen. the best thing is not to do it often, and if ... (read in full...)
How do I get b/f to perform anal sex again?
Q. Had anal sex for the first time loved it want to do it again but not sure my boyfriend is into this how can I get him to be for it. ...
A. 2 December 2012: tell him you loved it and you want to perform it again!!
One thing don't do it often, not very healthy=)))... (read in full...)
Girlfriend doesn't like kissing after oral sex
Q. Hello dear readers: ok i have a sex issue, i'm with my gf 1year and 4 months....and every time in bed i want to make some kunilingus and make her happy she doesn't want it she told me that every time i do it well she likes it but then we kiss and ...
A. 24 November 2010: Yes maybe that's true about beeing more calm and conservative, i talked to her about it...she sad that our relationship became more stable so she wil lmake a effort to try something new (new sexy clothes etc...) every man needs it.About the sperm in ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend doesn't like kissing after oral sex
Q. Hello dear readers: ok i have a sex issue, i'm with my gf 1year and 4 months....and every time in bed i want to make some kunilingus and make her happy she doesn't want it she told me that every time i do it well she likes it but then we kiss and ...
A. 24 November 2010: Ok i understand maybe it is turns her off, but you know when she does it, i don't mind.... ok maybe going to the bathroom, or having some mouth wash neer, would be a good idea...just the thing is that i LOVE doing it:) hehe, and all my past ... (read in full...)
I've never been with anyone else, but I'm curious!
Q. ok me and my husband we been togeather since senior year in highschool and we are now 22 yrs old with 2 kids. i was his first girlfriend and he was my first boyfriend we never dated anyone else and now i have thoughts of what it would be like with ...
A. 17 November 2010: sur it's normal, at this age people try lot and lot of sexual partners, but as the last answer : i don't think you could cheat...it's just a curiosity, that is normal:) you know finding happynes could take a life time, people may have sex with lots ... (read in full...)
I tell my husband these unnecessary lies!
Q. I have been with my husband for 14 years, 3 of those married. The problem is that I have a huge problem with telling lies about stupid things that don't need to be lied about. Every time I begin to redeem myself, I lie about something stupid, like ...
A. 17 November 2010: there a word like mythimania (hope i wrote it corectly) a person who lies even if he doesn't need to lie....i think you should tell your husband about it, and try beeing honest , and deel with it together, because it's a beet mental problem...i'm ... (read in full...)
What do I have to do for my girlfriend to forgive me?!
Q. It was my girlfriends birthday a little over a week ago and I had some stuff come up that got in the way of getting her a gift. I told her about it and at first she was fine with it, then a few days later she brought it up and i felt terrible...
A. 17 November 2010: i think she is a bit over reactingù....come on it's not for the present that we chear for , but for our bf beeing near...ok she could have been mad, but you expained the situation,.On the other hand you could have buy her floers and chocolate and ... (read in full...)
I'm trying to think of a way to get really good revenge on my ex
Q. I hate my ex girlfriend. And I can't stop thinking about getting revenge on her. First I will give you some background on the situation. My girlfriend and I dated for 3 years. The last year we lived together. When we didn't live together I thought ...
A. 2 November 2010: Spend lot of money and make lot of pictures with you around cute girls in bars etc and put them on facebook:) thats what i did with my ex-gf for cheating (and after 5 months she called and wante dme back,and then-i sad a great and big NO:) Gelousy ... (read in full...)
Do I just accept my girlfriend's fantasy?
Q. Dear cupid, well I’m with my gf 1 year and 3months; we love each other etc etc… Well a couple of days ago, my gf forgot her cell phone at my place. Well I’m a guy who doesn’t read sms of my gf. But when she forgot her phone the same day she got a ...
A. 25 October 2010: In fact, i think it's over. My gf told me that she thinks it's a bad idea....at the beggining she thaught it would be fun,but then she told me, that i'll be watching another girl naked and she will be hurt.As i will want mor ein the futur and cheat ... (read in full...)
Do I just accept my girlfriend's fantasy?
Q. Dear cupid, well I’m with my gf 1 year and 3months; we love each other etc etc… Well a couple of days ago, my gf forgot her cell phone at my place. Well I’m a guy who doesn’t read sms of my gf. But when she forgot her phone the same day she got a ...
A. 25 October 2010: dear chigirl,i want it i really do,but as i heard it can go wrong. I don't really know what to do when they'll begin touching kissing etc....... (read in full...)
Do I just accept my girlfriend's fantasy?
Q. Dear cupid, well I’m with my gf 1 year and 3months; we love each other etc etc… Well a couple of days ago, my gf forgot her cell phone at my place. Well I’m a guy who doesn’t read sms of my gf. But when she forgot her phone the same day she got a ...
A. 24 October 2010: It's not that i'm don't want...i want to do somehting new, it's just i don't know what should i do , or what should i do not do...you know, i'm a guy, who doesn't like seeing two naked girls in front of you.... (read in full...)
I really hope to get my ex girlfriend back... But now she got new boyfriend.
Q. Hi, I am Arthur from Malaysia, i am a Chinese currently 20 and studying/working part-time, well i just broke up with my ex girlfriend(now 18 and just went in to college), we having our relationship for 2 and half year, well normally we will have ...
A. 24 October 2010: I'm sorry if i'll be rude, or hard on you but man...be a man: how can you be so pathetic to a girl and every time listen to her when she says:"you don't have a car" if she liked you she would never say that.In my oppinion she is a material girl,or ... (read in full...)
Shy guy didn't ask for my number! Now what?
Q. okand today my very good guy friend shane and i were supposed to go for dinner at the last minute he said that he would be inviting this other guy too(mark)..i knew mark existed but i had never really spoken to him,and we met up for lunch and i ...
A. 24 October 2010: hey don't worry , if shane is our friend...ask him a little bit about the new guy. And you can be sur shane will tell his friend that you asked,and if then he won't cal or accedantly try to keep in touch with you or text you, then he isn't ... (read in full...)
I feel he is only with me because he cannot be with her
Q. my bf has a gf about seven years ago (relationship lasted two years) it was his first serious relationship and it ended badly. I have been with him for three years and things are great. However, I am convinced without a doubt in my mind that she is ...
A. 24 October 2010: ooohhh yes i forgot to write: STOP ASKING AND COMPARING ABOUT HIS EX!!! believe me ex=past, we don't talk about it.Every time you tell him about it, he tries to remeber about her, but in fact he forgot and wants to forget her forever!!!... (read in full...)
I feel he is only with me because he cannot be with her
Q. my bf has a gf about seven years ago (relationship lasted two years) it was his first serious relationship and it ended badly. I have been with him for three years and things are great. However, I am convinced without a doubt in my mind that she is ...
A. 24 October 2010: AS the previos answer i think you're over ereacting.In your mind you convinced yourself that you'r enot good enough for him as his ex.Well of course he left her b/c his ex cheated, believe me love dissapears fastly when someone betrays you.Try not ... (read in full...)
Think he has a girlfriend... but I also think he likes me... what to do?
Q. Ok, so I met this one guy that is friends with one of my best friends. The first time I saw him, my friend kept on telling me that we were flirting, and it was way obvious. So far three different people that know him have said that he likes me. ...
A. 24 October 2010: Well, it's really a dificult situation. If he really likes you he should make a desicion with his gf.I don't think ruining his relationship with his gf only because he is flirting is a good idea.Maybe he likes to flirt and cheating with his gf,or ... (read in full...)
Will he be disappointed if we don't have sex on our first date seeing as he's coming all this way to see me?
Q. I met a man online and we are meeting face to face within a few weeks. He lives out of town about five hours a way. My question is, I do not have sex with a man, unless I fall in love with him. When I am emailing him, I am telling him about myself. ...
A. 3 January 2010: It's a really tricky situaiton : A) guys on itnerent are impredictable, and you don't know what to expect.
B) he may be interested in you as a person, not just to have sex.
But i think your position should be like this: have a nice dinner with ... (read in full...)
Isn't she into me any more?
Q. Ive been in a relationship with the same woman for over 14 years and we are both in our thirties. We have two children 2(boy) and 7(girl) my lady says that i annoy her too much when i try to cuddle (she says i'm too heavy or i'm squishing her. I'm ...
A. 3 January 2010: did you try talking to her? you are the men of the house.I understand that to talk on this theme sin't very well, but you know having a 2 year old baby isn't fun also.He needs care all the time. I think she is a bit negative person, so try to ... (read in full...)
Does anyone else feel like a stranger the morning after sex?
Q. the other night i was round my blokes house for the night and we had amazing sex he kept going for ages which really pleasured us both. the next morning when we got up it was like the previous night never happened. Does anyone else feel like a...
A. 3 January 2010: it's normal to think about it.Girls in the morning like to have a nice morning kiss and some nice words like "how did you sleep hunny" but if he doesn't do this then he isn't into you as you are.try thinking by kissing him, or just don't sleep with ... (read in full...)
What do I do? Directly ask for sex, make the first move or just accept being horny all the time?
Q. my new b/f and i have only had sex a few times..at first it was hard 4 me 2 get wet with him bcuz i was so nervous being that we had been friends 4 a few years. Now it seems like i always want to do him but he's not around.. What do I do? Directly ...
A. 3 January 2010: it's a bit strange for a girl to ask first to have sex=) when you se him try stimulating make him ask you to have sex :) and then do it=) it's normal for young couples to experement=)... (read in full...)
Don't know what to get for 2 year anniversary
Q. I am in the longest relationship I've ever been in and this is a busy time for us. There's christmas, we both have birthdays in January and then there's valentine's day. In the midst of all that is our anniversary (of the day we met). For our 1...
A. 31 December 2009: well you had nice ideas, but you could do no such expensive things.Just for example try planning your 2nd anniversary, for example at 12 you go to a sauna, jacuzi, then you go to a little restaurant to eat.Or theatre, and in the evening go to a bar ... (read in full...)
She didn't like finding out that I had oral sex before her
Q. Hello dear cupid,i'm new on this website so:i've been with my Gf for 3 years. i'm 23, and she is 22.The problem is that recently she asked me strange questions as: how many Gf did you sleep with, did they all give you blowjobs, did you like it.In ...
A. 31 December 2009: lucky you :) not every girls could take such rational desicions =) take care ... (read in full...)
Do some girls just not like oral sex?
Q. Hello, well i'm with my GF for 6 months, and we love and trust each other, maybe in 2-3 months she will move to my place.We're having sex really often each 2-3 days, but as i noticed she likes blowjobs but dislike when i'm performing it to her(oral ...
A. 29 December 2009: well
w0trh-it- gues i should say thanks to her, that she is so nice, to me.
q1605 - i think you say good things, i have this stereotip idea, that if she gives me pleasur then , i should give her imperatively.And it's all in my head, if it works... (read in full...)
Is it normal for me to be so afraid of his penis?
Q. So I've been seeing this boy for while now, and thing are starting to get intense, sexually. He rub me and makes me orgasm, but I'm too scared to do anything to him. I don't know what's wrong with me but every time I touch his penis I get jumpy and ...
A. 29 December 2009: it's normal for your age and as a begginer to feel such things.Everything comes with experience. Important, just do'nt force yourself.... (read in full...)
Which protection is safer?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for a year now. I've decided i want to loose my virginity to him. when we started talking about what protection we would use we had an issue. for my first time i want a guy to cum inside me, but of course i ...
A. 29 December 2009: As a futur doctor, i can tell you pills are safer for unprotected sex, only if the girls takes them REGULARY!!!! but the guy should be tested on STD before. Prezervative are used to evoid infections,and pregnacy. And let' s not forget: to use ... (read in full...)
He says I'm too much of a good friend to date me?
Q. I really wanna date this guy he says he likes me but he said I'm too much of a good friend to date because he doesn't wanna lose me. What do I do?!?!?!?!!??...
A. 29 December 2009: I'll tell you seriously, when a guy says things like that, it meens you are very close and important person for him, but he won't date you.I'm sorry :(... (read in full...)
I can't find a girlfriend, the issue is bringing me down, any help?
Q. I am good looking guy 27 yo , i have been told many times from different people that i am very good looking and i have friendly and down to earth personality , but the point is that no one interested on me anymore ,, i don't know why i feel ...
A. 28 December 2009: you know there's nothing wrong with bisexual,just tell us and we can help or advice you more wisely))... (read in full...)
I want my boyfriend to do something bad so I hurt. How can I fix this?
Q. Ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months, i love him to death and he is so good to me, he treats me like a princess, but I want him to fight with me, i want him to do something so bad i hurt. Now in my past relationship they have ...
A. 28 December 2009: i think you are abit adventure girl,and you are allready bored because he care and is good to you.Try finding your type of guy, and don't hurt the good onces.... (read in full...)
We flirt so why hasn't he called?
Q. I have known this guy from work almost a year. From the begining he has flirted with me, and I have flirt back. One night people from work went for drinks to celebrate someones retirement. We talked the whole time. Exchanged phone numbers and even ...
A. 28 December 2009: Hi, well it seems maybe he likes you a lot, but he has already somebody.But don't forget we aren't in high school and we should wait till the guy asks us out.Next time he flirts try beeing a bit hard on him ask him as a joke, about your futur ... (read in full...)
I never had any problems making friends at college. What's wrong now?
Q. INTRO: I live with my parents because of chronic unemployment. They spent Christmas Eve and Christmas at a distanced city with our extended family and I refused to go as usual. I'm the only Christian in the family, and I'm in my thirties and still ...
A. 28 December 2009: first of all, i can say that the book is really great=) i loved it and it is really a positive book.Read it 3 times.
then second, maybe try some hobbies? try going somewere social, to a sport club, or doing some colective organisation, char... (read in full...)
I can't find a girlfriend, the issue is bringing me down, any help?
Q. I am good looking guy 27 yo , i have been told many times from different people that i am very good looking and i have friendly and down to earth personality , but the point is that no one interested on me anymore ,, i don't know why i feel ...
A. 28 December 2009: "doubleM" has a point: if you are gay, take his aedvice.
But if not never just never give up.Try watching some inspiring films, go on youtube and watch "rocky balboa speach" i can tell you this really magical and GOLD words!! do'nt give am man)... (read in full...)
Why does my girlfriend talk to her friends but not me?
Q. Why is my girlfriend not telling me things? She won't even tell me what is wrong. But she tells all of her friends. What do I do?...
A. 28 December 2009: Be calme, she is young give her space, and stop asking always "what's wrong"!! i know ,you know that you care about her, tell her this words: "that you'll be with her no matter what" and try making her laugh)))good luck... (read in full...)
I can't just get over the situation? Any advice?
Q. Hi, sorry to blab on but i am having some difficulties getting over this situation.. So i was on and off with this guy for about three years, our families are very close well our mothers are very good friends so he is someone that has been ar...
A. 28 December 2009: i'm sorry for this question but can you detail this situation:"Well i left we said goodbye and we both cried? "
Well i think he is a sensitive guy,shy also. Of course you are doing the right thing by not involving his other, but try to talk to ... (read in full...)
I'm nervous about meeting my online friend, should I meet up or hold off?
Q. I've been talking to this guy online for a couple of days and we text and stuff and we've seen each others pictures and I've seen him on webcam and I like him and he says he likes me and wants to meet up but Im kind of nervous about meeting up with ...
A. 28 December 2009: I'll tell you a short story, i met my GF on facebook, and we leave same city, and talked 3 weeks each day on camera.She and i were so nervous first day,and now we love each other and we are together 3 years.You say you talked a couple of days.I ... (read in full...)
Is sexting considered cheating?
Q. Ugh. Okay, im in a really difficult (for me) situation. I feel I have cheated on my boyfriend of 3 months. Im one of those people who are insanely against cheating and is 100% for honesty so the possibility of this sort of thing happening never ...
A. 28 December 2009: Well, it may seem that you cheated...but you didn't. i think it's more because your BF wasn't near you. Now everything depends only from you.If you'll continue flirting with other guy and as a result it will becaome a cheat, or when your Bf comes ... (read in full...)
Any insight into these frightening dreams?
Q. Hi--help? I keep having the strangest of dreams and premonitions. My ex, whom I love very much, dies. It's usually in a skiing accident or a nonspecific vision of him in the hospital. This has been coming and going for some 9 months, and part ...
A. 28 December 2009: well in different cultures dreams can be interpretated differently.In eastern culture(rusia,ukraine) we say that when we see death of a dear person that means that an evenement will come.Most of the time it is good.If you see him in the sky, then i ... (read in full...)
Do some girls just not like oral sex?
Q. Hello, well i'm with my GF for 6 months, and we love and trust each other, maybe in 2-3 months she will move to my place.We're having sex really often each 2-3 days, but as i noticed she likes blowjobs but dislike when i'm performing it to her(oral ...
A. 26 December 2009: ok i'll try to talk and reason or change something. But the thing that there exist girls who don't really like receiving, that kind of helps me a bit. ... (read in full...)
Do some girls just not like oral sex?
Q. Hello, well i'm with my GF for 6 months, and we love and trust each other, maybe in 2-3 months she will move to my place.We're having sex really often each 2-3 days, but as i noticed she likes blowjobs but dislike when i'm performing it to her(oral ...
A. 25 December 2009: Well i gues the probleme isn't that she doens't like it....she does like it, but only when she is doing it to me,she told me that it turns her on 10 times more when giving me a blowjob.And i'm a bit confused about it.May be it's because of her past ... (read in full...)
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