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writes:Well my boyfriend and I dont go to the same school, so I only see him 2-3 days a week (usually friday, saturday and sunday) During the school week (mon-thur) it seems like we're so busy that we barely talk (we talk about 1-2 days between mon-thurs) When I told my friend I barely talk to him during the week until I see him on the weekends (or days off from school) she said, "Then why do you go out?" I think that our relationship was going really good, because whenever we hang out we always are really excited and happy to see each other. Now my friend put doubts in my head, and I'm getting kind of upset. Do you think we should break up? Or still go out? Please help! (Or maybe should I start calling him some days?) Help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2008): Don't listen to your silly mates! You've obviously got something really special going on and trust me, what your friends think doesn't matter. It's not their relationship.
Not seeing each other all the time is very good for your relationship cos it gives you guys time to think and dream about each other which in turn makes you even more excited about seeing each other. It's perfectly normal not to see him everyday, it'd get old fast if you did.
You said you thought your relationship was going good. Keywords there are 'you thought.' What you think is the only thing that matters.
Enjoy your bf and dont stress :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008): wow. don't let your friend get to you. you obviously have something good going. it's good that you guys get to see each other on the weekends. some people don't even get to see their partner. plus it could be annoying to see your boyfriend every day and talk to them 24/7 so this may be a good thing as you wont be annoyed. you could try calling him and stuff if you'd like. but don't let what your friend said make you think about breaking up with him. it's your life, your relationship. good luck :)
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reader, karlgoo +, writes (14 October 2008):
 Wow I would swear you are my girlfriend but my gf and i talk a lot during the week with txts and phone calls. Time with him just will be more special because you don't get to see him everyday or talk to him all the time. Distance makes you really realize how much you want to be with that person more and more and your heart grows fonder.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (14 October 2008):
 You and your boyfriend seem to have something good going on! Sure you don't see him every day, but your situation is a lot better than being in a long distance relationship when you NEVER see each other. Space is healthy for a relationship, anyhow.
Don't let your friends thoughts get in the way of a great relationship!
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reader, masquerade711  +, writes (14 October 2008):
 Don't let your friend and her opinions get in the way of something amazing. It's not uncommon to go a couple of days in the week without seeing him. You're both leading busy lives and this is good! My boyfriend and I don't see each other every day, but that makes the days that we do hang out so amazing! Don't break it off because of this. You'll most likely regret it.
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