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I've been a language teacher for about 9 years and also a fitness trainer. I now mostly give relaxation and body awarenes classes, for people having various problems.
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How can a man become totally nonsexual toward his wife in one day?
Q. How can a man can totally become nonsexual toward his wife from one day to the next? My husband once lost his erection in the middle of intercourse,and since than he is like a different guy.It was like a spell.. I really think it is weird,be...
A. 6 May 2010: I'm so ever sorry for you, and i would like to have a guaranteed answer, but helas, this doesn't exist. Lets take it by steps, 1. What do the different physichians say? Is it a physical or mental problem, or both? What kind of tests did he do? ... (read in full...)
He got cold feet and broke up with me!
Q. Dear cupid, I am 24 and my ex-bf is 22. We dated for about 3 months and everything was going great, until one day he broke up with me. We didn't speak for about a month after we broke up and recently we talked as friends. He opened up and told me ...
A. 6 May 2010: Dear Laetitia,
I do think it would wise to let time do things. What i mean with time is, do not be on him all the time, kind of wait & see. You are both still quite young, and so much is happens during this age. Your boyfriend somehow does not... (read in full...)
My mate has told me the biggest secret any woman can tell another woman. What do I do?
Q. right b4 u say it no it is not me..... i have been duped with the biggest secret any woman can tell another woman. basically my mate slept with her ex of 6 yrs ago about a month ago. thats not all.... she is married to my husbands cousin an...
A. 20 August 2008: Dear bluntasaspoon,(what a name!)
Your mate has obviously not thought about the consequences she might get into having done what she did.. but also in telling you this.
She considers you as her heart friend, s/one she can tell everything t... (read in full...)
Why did he say that to me?
Q. Hi I am 16 and just need some help understanding this. Me and my best friend who is a guy and we have known each other for 12 years is opening up to me i guess you could say. He is very open about his private areas with me. He always says thing like ...
A. 20 August 2008: Dear yourdesire, By reading you i have the feeling you have become kind of a sex goal for your friend, helas. Between the age of 5 and 17 A LOT of things change in a human being!!! if he's about the same age as you are he is in full sexual dis... (read in full...)
Do you think its possible that she will realize her mistake and come back to me? Or that she will get tired of their bickering over time?
Q. My ex broke up with me for her old ex. She says she loves both of us and is basically torn between the two of us. She says she needs to be with him because she feels like it, and she wants to understand why she feels that she needs to be with...
A. 20 August 2008: Hi!
Dear...
First of all enjoy the time-out between you and your girlfriend. You're young and it's not a good idea to get fully hooked and tied up into a relationship this way. Apparently she needs to sort things out in her mind and feelings, so... (read in full...)
Advice please on oral sex.
Q. what is oral sex, how is it done.can someone get pregnant after oral sex or get infected with hiv...
A. 25 July 2007: Hi Fayie, Oral sex includes all the gestures, manipulations, done with the mouth on the genital parts. For example: licking or sucking the other persons' sex part. HIV can be transmitted this way if blood is in contact w/ saliva or sperm. For exa... (read in full...)
Why do these "average joe's" do this to me?
Q. Hi! I am a 23 year old female. I recently had an incident happen to me that I would absolutely love some advice about. First, I've never had a bf. No, I'm not some hideous monster. I'm actually quite cute, long blonde hair, blue eyes, tall,...
A. 25 July 2007: Hi mcke! Well that was a long explaination! My answer will be long too, because I really feel w/ you. You seem to be 'hooked' already. No problem w/ that, only, you've said it before a lot of times in your msge, he's IS NOT A GUY who's going to... (read in full...)
Are people who are jealous of me just bad people?
Q. I have been conditioned to feel very afraid of people who are jealous of me in some way. I use too much of imagination to develop some picture about the personality of that person who is jealous / judgemental to me in some manner. They are bad ...
A. 5 July 2007: Jealousy can wear a person out I find. This is negative energy. Though this is a bad feature in most humans, you shouldn't reject these people outright unless they really harm your daily life or gossip about you badly. It also depends WHO is the p... (read in full...)
YOU CAN HELP: Spread the word about DearCupid!
Q. Hi, I want to ask a really big favour of everyone who uses, likes and has been helped by DearCupid. Help spread the word this weekend, by doing some of these suggestions: * Tell your friends and family about DearCupid * Talk about and ...
A. 30 June 2007: Being British born but living in Turkey, I try and encourage every English speaking person over here, and tell everybody oversees how wonderful your site is. I don't have a great amount of time to spare on internet, but am hooked on to your site ... (read in full...)
For the gals: What are you thinking when you are checking out a guy's wedding ring?
Q. For the gals: What are you thinking when you are checking out a guy's wedding ring? I was having lunch with a buddy of mine when this topic came up. Occasionally, when I am among women, I catch them ogling my wedding ring. If they end up maki...
A. 28 June 2007: Hi! Let me answer what i think too! I never look at a man's wedding ring on purpose. If my eyes happen to see the ring I don't give it a long stare. Not interesting for me. I have a lovely unusual ring too and have had women and men glance at... (read in full...)
I thought we could make something out of this... Now I feel that I was wrong. Any advice?
Q. Okay, we are not children, I'm 40, he's 45. We met through mutual friends and there is definitely attraction and we have just begun seeing each other. He found my site on Match.com after our first date, and now has created a page there as well. I ...
A. 28 June 2007: Hi there! Did he create the page infront of you? Anyway, i would have been hurt too. Suppose you did that "just trolling", he wouldn't have appreciated it AT ALL, believe me! Just trolling... No, he did it for a reason. I don't know him, but ou... (read in full...)
Lots of things make me think my boyfriend may be cheating... such as his secret myspace pages!
Q. I have been with someone for almost two years. We are moving in together in 2 weeks. Whats mine is his and vice versa. I love him dearly but I have trust issues with him. I have never caught him cheating on me but here are a few examples of what ...
A. 22 June 2007: If you don't get clear answers to your questions from him, you have the proof of him wanting to cheat or seeking to do so. Your intuition is the most important factor plus all the details you've noticed. Has there been a problem between you or ... (read in full...)
Fidelity and marriage
Q. Many times, we see questions asking for advice about marriage, monotony and fidelity. I tend to be cut and dry on this topic and often without compassion for the person struggling in this area. What bothers me most, is the ability of people to ...
A. 22 June 2007: Hello Eddie, In going through mail from previous months on this site, I bumped onto your article of May 8th, about marriage and infidelity pblms. I'd like to give my opinion too, if you permit! Ok, you're very right indeed that one must kee... (read in full...)
Is it all about looks when you become accepted?
Q. My society and culture sets high standards in terms of way a person looks in order to be considered acceptable to relate with some kind of people, especially those who belong to high society or have good social reputation. As if, it were all about ...
A. 21 June 2007: Hi there!
Looks are very important, ALAS, to most of people and firms in our society. At first sight that's what we humans are prone to be aware of.
But when it comes to relating w/ s/one on a one one basis, there is much more to it. The way ... (read in full...)
I've been really unlike myself for the past couple of days and I'm not sure why?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for a week now and things were going really well for about 4 days. But for some reason I've been really unlike myself for the past couple of days and I'm not sure why. It may have something to do with the fact that we've ...
A. 20 June 2007: Hi hun, Do you remmeber what you wrote in your last sentence? "We have very little in common". Also, you've only just got to know him yet! Give yourself some time and a little thinking, see each other a few times for a drink or an activity... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is very relaxed about his personal hygiene
Q. My boyfriend is very relaxed about his personal hygiene and is quite happy to have only one shower a day in the morning regardless of what activities he has been doing during the day and only cleans his teeth in the morning too. I am the opposite ...
A. 13 June 2007: Hi anon!
Hygiene is really important to me too. I feel w/ you completly, but do not know how it would be best to make it loud and clear to your boyfriend that you don't appreciate his less hygenic ways of living.
In general, a man will not wan... (read in full...)
I must increase my bust!
Q. Right - I'm 18 and I have such small boobs - a 34A - but even some bras seem loose. It always really upsets me! I would just like to go up a size, but I could never consider a boob job! Is there anything I can do? pills?, exercises etc......
A. 5 June 2007: A good friend of mine used to have really tiny, cute round breasts(not flat or sagging),at your age. At the time she could never find a bra to fit but was quite ok with that. She used to be a lovely ballet dancer, so normal or bigger breasts ... (read in full...)
Should I be upset that he bailed on me for being "busy" but has time to see a band at a bar?!
Q. I just started dating this guy I met online. I sent him an email and asked him if he wanted to get together this weekend, like we had discussed earlier in the week. He said he was really busy right now and asked would it Ok if he called m...
A. 5 June 2007: Hi!
You've only got to know this guy through the web! Have you been dating already? If not, i shouldn't make a big deal out of this, please, for your own sake. If you feel attracted (webwise) to him, you DO NOT KNOW what he is really like. Go to t... (read in full...)
A girl text my boyfriend the other night, no big deal... it was what he said back to her that's bugging me!!!
Q. A girl my boyfriend used to fool around with text him the other night about graduating law school. No big deal to me but it's what I found out he wrote back that is bugging me. He said things like how are you baby. Can't wait to talk and catch up ...
A. 5 June 2007: Out of experience, I do not think his behavior is ok. Nice of him to admit that he shouldn't have written those things to the other girl, but nevertheless I would really watch out if I were you. You can trust other men if from the beginning you feel ... (read in full...)
When I shave my legs it hurts so bad because I have very sensitive skin. Anyone got any ideas?
Q. I have dark hair on my legs so I have to shave it but I also have very sensitive skin. Whenever I am shaving my upper legs it hurts like something wicked. I use a venus disposible razor with some sort of shaving gel. I have tried alternatives to ...
A. 4 June 2007: I have very sensitive skin too so what i would hightly recommend is to moisturise your legs (or the part of skin you want to shave) BEFORE shaving. Then wait for 5 min before shaving. Shave with a mens type rasor like gillette salom blue. NOT venus ... (read in full...)
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