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I have a burning guilt for having used drugs at my friend's instigation! Should I tell my boyfriend?

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Question - (2 October 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 October 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've never done cocaine before, but my best friend does it a lot. Somehow when I was over at her house, I ended up doing it too, even though in the back of my head I knew my boyfriend wouldn't approve. Should I tell him I did it? Or is it okay if I just keep one little thing from him?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2008):

I would tell him. I agree with what TasteofIndia said. You made a single mistake and you regret it. If he can't forgive you for that one mistake that hurt no one then he has other issues. Tell him that you wish you had been better able to resist, have learned your lesson and are sorry. That should be the end of story.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (2 October 2008):

TasteofIndia agony auntI think you should tell him. If he ever finds out in the future that you kept it a secret, he will be really hurt and feel betrayed. That's a lot harder to fix!

I actually think that telling your boyfriend will make you stay away from that craziness... cocaine is not a cool drug to be toying with, sister! So no more of that madness.

Good luck, my sweet.

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A female reader, unknownlady United Kingdom +, writes (2 October 2008):

unknownlady agony auntMy boyfriends smokes weed and hes always said he wouldnt wont me to smoke it or try it, unless i was with him and he could be there for me if i need him.

It seems ur bf is doin the eaxct same thing sayin it because he cares. Id tell him if i was u, just say i know u wouldnt have wanted me to do it, and thats why i feel i need to tell u, i tryid i wont do it again and im sorry i did it.

good luck hope hes ok i about it :)

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