A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: My boyfriend (28, I'm 24) of 6 months has been asking to have another woman join us in our 'bedroom time'. He says he will not touch and will not be touched by her, but that she will only touch me and I will be in control of the entire situation.I really am just at a loss of what to think or how to respond... Suggestions?
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2008): He's just pushing his limits. Say o.k. but first lets do it with just a guy watching. Then see his reaction. LOLI think he's taking advantage of your low self esteem.Good luck
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2008): I think I am confused as to whether or not this is a sign that he is sexually 'fed up' with just me...?
Men...suggestions?
Thank you for the responses thus far!
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female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (13 October 2008):
My bet is he sets all these "conditions" just so you'll go along with the idea. If he only wants to WATCH girl on girl action tell him to rent a video.
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female
reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (13 October 2008):
It's all about how YOU feel about it. If you don't care for the idea, tell him "sorry, not going to happen". If you're really interested (I mean REALLY), then go for it. Your boyfriend seems to be excited about you with another woman. If you are into girl on girl action, things may work out.
Threesomes often end up in hurt feelings or regret. Make sure you really think and talk things through.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2008): What do YOU want? Sit and think. It's no use asking other folks because their tastes may be different. You need to take control of your own decisions.
THINK what do YOU want?
Good luck
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