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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Last week my gf got home and text me "baby im home - come round now" - when i turned up she was in tears, i kind of knew what was coming next. I said wats up "im going to loose you" - me "why" - i new she had either been with somebody or slept with somebody else, So i said "have you slept with Blar" she said "no not that".She told me, when i went home one nite her friend came around and "comforted her" as she was down, he then kissed her... 2-3 weeks ago... She then told me she kissed him on 3 seperate occasions, 1: at a party, 2: after i left her house and 3: when i went home as she was going out to see "aparent friends"...NOw i know that is blatent cheating, but i said i can give it one more go becasue i dont want to loose her. we had a 3-4 hour chat in my car and we sorted things... I just said "i need you to tell me i can trust you again" she said yes...thurs 2nd oct, she tells me shes going her girls party on friday 3rd oct... I said ill text/ring you to see if your ok etc, she left her phone switched off!. I asked her the next day, how was your party, how come you never text and how come you stayed out? (the house she went to, she didnt even know the person only her friend)...sorry long story... :/We went to the store last night, where her "girl friend" works, and she was acting like she aint seen my gf in weeks, "she also said, have you dyed your hair" - my gf replied "yeah again" she dyed it 2 weeks ago... So now im like errrrrr ok.I just make sure by going on face book, and it shows her friend live on facebook at 9:34-10:15 posting saying "cold and bored" - (supposed to be at the party) on friday 3rd oct... I know now she didnt go the party and is lying to me, i am going to confront her after work about it and if she is lying to me, i think she did it becasue she is still cheating...What do you guys think?Thanks rob oxoxoxox
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2008): Welcome to my situation, i am about to leave her for good, i think you should do the same. Sticking around involves to many mind games and pain, something i cant go through again! TWICE! GOODLUCK!
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (6 October 2008):
 Sketchy behavior all over the place. You have every reason to be suspicious. I think that she's hiding something as well I agree with the previous poster - you should just ditch her and find someone doesn't have so many secrets and who will treat you right.
Good luck, sweetness!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2008): Confronting her will just give you more of a headache, how will you know what's a lie and whats a truth.
Just ditch her and find someone new.
She doesn't respect you, what future is there with her? just more of the same. Don't waste your precious time on her, you only live once and your clock is ticking away, find someone worth while.
Good luck
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (6 October 2008):
 I think she's hiding something yes. If you know she didn't go to the party, you need to know why she said she was going. And hopefully find out where.As for cheating, who knows. But she sounds like a pathalogical liar at best.C xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2008): I think there is deffinatly something up, she aint being straiht foward with you, just sus out the situation abit more before accusing her of cheating, there could be other reasons, goodluck
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