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Shes the only girl I have felt a connection with do you think I have messed things up?

Q.   Hello everyone. OK this is kinda lengthy so to give you all the detail you need in order to give me the best advice here. I have worked with this girl who I shall call Mrs A since the end of March and she left last Tuesday, so end of April. ...

A.   12 May 2008:  Thank you for the response's .. very helpful indeed!! I agree with you both that in reality me and her were not meant to be. Thinking about our pasts .. yes maybe that was what drew us closer. Its strange beacause their was a genuine attracti... (read in full...)

Came on too strong with her and regret it, but wish to be friends...

Q.   Hi, I came on wayyyy too strong with this girl and really regret it now as she did like me but I scared her off we got on really well too......Anyway I recently asked her to go out to lunch to catch up but no reply. Admittidly I still really lik...

A.   10 May 2008:  Hello, If I were you I would give this girl space for awhile and let her settle. Send her a nice card and inside write down that your sorry about comming on so strong and that you acted badly and that you want to be freinds ... that you cher... (read in full...)

Would it be wrong for a 36 year old to date a teenager? Can people choose who they are attracted to?

Q.   honeslty do people think this is wrong if a 36 year old man is really really attracted to a 16 year old (mature, or so he thinks) girl...i mean people cant help who they're attracetd to right??? and if he got carried away and ended up in bed with ...

A.   10 May 2008:  Hi, Attraction as I say isn't a choice. We can't help who or what we are attracted to .. its just something that happens. I wouldn't say its wrong for a man aged 36 to be attracted to a 16 year old girl BUT I would say its wrong for a 36 y... (read in full...)

Shes the only girl I have felt a connection with do you think I have messed things up?

Q.   Hello everyone. OK this is kinda lengthy so to give you all the detail you need in order to give me the best advice here. I have worked with this girl who I shall call Mrs A since the end of March and she left last Tuesday, so end of April. ...

A.   10 May 2008:  A quick update is that I passed a letter to a freind who works in the day centre at my workplace who this girl likes and especially her daughter whos around her age and also works in their on a Tuesday. So on Tuesday this lady who is mature an... (read in full...)

Shes the only girl I have felt a connection with do you think I have messed things up?

Q.   Hello everyone. OK this is kinda lengthy so to give you all the detail you need in order to give me the best advice here. I have worked with this girl who I shall call Mrs A since the end of March and she left last Tuesday, so end of April. ...

A.   6 May 2008:  Just to clarify... The "she also isn't the norm...I don't mean this in a nasty way but bare in mind the sexual abuse and her mother has cancer when you respond to this" what I MEANT is this lady had had ALLOT of problems in her life, isnt her fa... (read in full...)

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