I don't want to seem over-eager and put him off. But is our friendship moving towards something more?
Q. I started my new college four months ago and in my class there was this guy who has caught my eye. So, after a few lessons; acknowledging that we were both in one class, I added him on facebook and asked him a question about an assignment for our ...
A. 22 December 2012: I think you should just go with it - don't do anything differently for an indefinite period of time.... (read in full...)
He showed signs that he liked me, but when he found out I felt the same he has gone cold!
Q. He showed signs that he likes me but when he knew I like him too, he just seemed not to care anymore, why? Am I that easy? I'm afraid if he continues doing this, I'm giving up on him, there's a lot of guys out there. But why? He knows he's a hottie. ...
A. 17 December 2012: Move on to the next one - he should be back if he likes you.... (read in full...)
She wont give up the dating sites and chat rooms, what can I do? I don't want to leave our son....
Q. I have been living with my common law for 6 years and we have a 5 year old boy. For the last 18 months we have constantly argued over her use of dating and adult related chat room type websites. Just as always, I think we are getting back on the ...
A. 17 December 2012: You can do better.... (read in full...)
Should I leave my husband or not? I don't know how he will survive if I leave him....
Q. I have to make a decision regarding leaving my husband. We have been together 18 years and have no children. Life prior to marrying was magical. I could not fault him in the least but on returning from our honeymoon he became grumpy and sulle...
A. 17 December 2012: Leave him - he'll get use to it. Better for you - better for him.... (read in full...)
My husband said he can't express happy or be himself around me
Q. I feel empty inside. My husband told me that he can't be himself around people or family when he is with me. he said that when he feels good and has something that makes him happy, he has to hold it in so that I won't burst his bubble. We are not ...
A. 11 December 2012: Try to go about your days with a smile on your face - that will pick him up and eventually him looking happier will pick you up.... (read in full...)
Should I finish school or get pregnant with my 40+ boyfriend?
Q. Please advise. Like a retard I quit halfway through college several years ago and havent been back. Now I'm dating a man in his early 40s and I am in my mid 20s. He is amazing and we will get married but I must finish school. At same time I feel...
A. 11 December 2012: Technically it is doable but in reality he might not be happy with the amount of time you two would be spending.... (read in full...)
My 25 year old boyfriend acts like a teenager. Will her grow out of it?
Q. My problem is that my 25 year old boyfriend acts like a teenager at times. He is still very influenced by what his friends think, and because of that he often does things to fit in with them. He is often the drunkest guy on a night out because he ...
A. 10 December 2012: Hard to tell. Does he have any responsibilities? Financial or otherwise?... (read in full...)
Do I leave my fiance because I'm not totally happy?
Q. I have been engaged to an amazing guy for a year, i really love him but there are a few things that i really don't like about him, one is that his a momma's boy who can't do anything without his mom's help and another is that he is not thinking ...
A. 10 December 2012: Do what makes you happy and what you think will make you happy in the long run. Your fiancé might be 'heart-broken' but he will be better off with somebody who is totally commited to him.... (read in full...)
My daughter's bizarre behavior has the whole family concerned. What should we do? Stage an intervention? Get her counselling?
Q. My 19-year-old daughter has recently started acting bizarrely and, to be honest, I don't know why. I highly doubt it's drugs, as we live in a fairly middleclass area and everyone knows everyone else. She's started binding her breasts down (I found...
A. 10 December 2012: She might be going through a period in her life where she is not sure of things.... (read in full...)
Why can't I ejaculate when I'm with girls?
Q. Hi all, Just a quick question that has been bothering me for some time now. Ive slept with around 12 girls, mixture or sober and drunken experiences as you would expect, but only one of these girls has ever been able to make me ejaculate. Ha...
A. 10 December 2012: Maybe you should ask a doctor that question.... (read in full...)
I can't get over my former teacher. How do I move forward?
Q. I am having immense trouble getting over a former teacher of mine; it has been 1.5 years since we last spoke. I know I should have been over this a long time ago, but I guess I am just weak, and I am never able to find anybody who can make me happy ...
A. 10 December 2012: You can try to speak to her and even if you don't get to speak to her trying might help you feel better and get some closure unless she has made herself clear that she doesn't want to be in contact.... (read in full...)
I can't seem to figure out exactly what I'm holding onto with my 'virginity.
Q. I am so confused as to how to view my virginity. I am 20 years old, female, live in London, UK. I would say I am pretty. Long black hair, light brown eyes, taller than average - 5'8, medium sized body. I have met guys in the past, but usuall...
A. 10 December 2012: You might be waiting for the right guy.
Nothing wrong with that.... (read in full...)
How can I stop freezing up when I meet a girl I like?
Q. Hello, I have always had trouble going for the wrong girls because i have always been to shy to talk to the ones i actually like. I hope not to sound conceited here but i know i am not bad looking, in fact i get a lot of compliments on t...
A. 10 December 2012: 'Just do it'
Yeah you gonna be 'shy' the first but eventually you will be comfortable.
One of the ways (maybe the only way?) to fix the issue is to approach girls you like on constant basis and after some time it won't be as awkward and you ... (read in full...)
How can I get my girlfriend to be more accepting of my cannabis use? She's gone from being a nice loving woman to a total nag!
Q. I am 28 and have been with my girlfriend for 4 years. I recently made new friends and they have introduced me to smoking cannabis again. This is something I have not done since I was about 18. My girlfriend hates it though and has gone from a nice ...
A. 10 December 2012: Smoking cannabis is legal in state of Washington. Colorado has also repealed the federal law against the recreational use of marijuana. Many states (14 of them + city of Detroit) have decriminalized their laws against recreational use of marihuana. ... (read in full...)
My bf wants pics of me should I send them?
Q. Hi Recently my bf asked me to send pics of myself in underwear I love him and trust him and I want to do it... its not I don't feel comfortable with it and he said if I don't want to do it its fine but I don't want him thinking I am some kind...
A. 9 December 2012: NO!... (read in full...)
I'm confused about how abrupt he became after sex. What could be his problem?
Q. Hi everyone, I have been feeling incredibly confused and feel that I need some advice before I can let this go.. Im 29 and the guy in question is 26.. we dated for only 3 weeks. He is quite an introvert and definitely not the player type. The...
A. 9 December 2012: He is embarrassed about the experience.... (read in full...)
Why would a guy just disappear? What did I do to make him lose interest when he never even got to know me?
Q. I met a guy at a bar a few weekends ago and we ended up making out. I went back to his place but I told him I didn't want to have sex (I'm not opposed to one night stands but I had my period and I don't like having sex until it's over). He was fine ...
A. 9 December 2012: Girls do that too. Think he either was upset at something you said or did or the way you acted or he just wanted more but you didn't offer :-D.... (read in full...)
Do I wait? hope? or just break up with her? Because I think she may have feelings for another guy who reminds her of her ex.
Q. I'm in college. Over the summer I was at home and started talking to this girl online, who also lives in the area. We had common friends and began talking for hours every night. I had very strong feelings for her but she was reluctant because for ...
A. 9 December 2012: You could share her.... (read in full...)
I know I'm going to break up with him. But am I right to wait until after Christmas? Should I return his Christmas presents after we break up?
Q. Something has snapped in me this week and I have finally decided, after a lot of heartache, that I want to break up with my boyfriend of 2.5 years. He is no longer making any effort with me, and despite me bringing it up several times and him prom...
A. 9 December 2012: Agree as well - should do it ASAP.
He'll be better off - you'll be better off.... (read in full...)
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