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First of all, common sense prevails. If you shake the can of Coke, it's going to explode.

Second, without balance, you won't move forward. If you stop peddling, you'll stop, put your foot down or fall over.

Last, if you don't respect yourself, you have no room to love another.

Am I overreacting because my BF spends so much time joking with other girls online and ignores me?

Q.   So my boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 years now and we are very much in love. The thing is, lately I have been becoming increasingly jealous of the girls that he talks to. He talks to one girl all of the time online and I know that he ...

A.   18 May 2007: Do you have anything to worry about? Does he hide his behavior from you or do you catch those jokes when he doesn't notice? Is he finding comfort in another woman online from something missing in your relationship? In my opinion, it is n... (read in full...)

My ex keeps sending me emails telling me he hates me! Does this mean he's not over me or what!?

Q.   I had been dating a boy for about 3 years and we recently broke up for the second time about 4 months ago. He constantly calls me and emails me and when I respond with a casual answer, he turns around and insults me. He tells me to leave him alone ...

A.   18 May 2007: Unless your wanting to get back together with him, do yourself a favor and ignore all emails and calls and dont respond. He is angry he has lost what he had with you. He is recentful and still in love with you.... (read in full...)

Together 10 years, broke up, continue having sex, but now I've met someone else and I don't know how to tell him!

Q.   I was involved with someone for over ten years and over the years that we were together we broke up numerous times. It seemed that everytime I asked where are relationship was going he would find a million and one reasons why he did not feel ...

A.   18 May 2007: Sounds like your ex has the both of best worlds. Gets to have sex when he wants, do what he wants, with no responsibilty. Make yourself happy again and give yourself some respect by telling your ex to hit the road. Keep in mind how selfesh he has ... (read in full...)

I met the female work colleague my BF has been spending time with and she acted really weird! Why?

Q.   I just want to know if it's normal for this girl that my bf works with to come to my work and not be able to look at me or introduce herself. We have had problems about 5 or 6 months ago because of this girl and my bf going to her house without ...

A.   18 May 2007: Sounds like your question may be is your boyfriend cheating/will cheat on you or is he faithful? Does he have a bad track record? Has he cheated on you in the past? If you dont trust him, do you have reason? It's possible a guys has a fling... (read in full...)

My long-term BF is going away with the Army for 3 years and wants to marry me when he gets back, but what if he comes back a changed man?

Q.   Me and my bf had dated for 3 1/2 years off and on. The last time we broke up i left him for another guy. Now me and him are back together and I'm for real about us this time and he says he is too. We have been dating so far for 4 months now. Whe...

A.   18 May 2007: You know what to do. You have a lot of time to move on to the next guy. No stress now. You will probably break up before then anyways. And if not, then say "listen, your going to be gone and i dont want that. if im single when you get back then ... (read in full...)

My husband of 10 years is very loving but lately I don't want to go near him or have sex! What do I do?

Q.   I have problem with my husband. Recently i don't want to go near him. He is very loving and i also love him very much but i dont know why i dont want to have sex. We have 3 kids. 10 years of our marriage life gone. I'm very worried it will cause a ...

A.   18 May 2007: You should take a look at the root cause of your dislikes. You say 10 years of marriage life "gone" doesn't exatcly sound like a happy marriage. Without a wife's attention, he will either stray or become angry. Then again if you're not happy, ... (read in full...)

My BF put his computer game before me! Why would he do that?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have always had a shaky relationship, that has now gone on for almost 2 years, but somehow we always recover from any arguments we have. For the last week we've been on and off, on and off...Just the smallest things would have us ...

A.   18 May 2007: The problem is he has an addiction and these games are real addictions. You will have to make a stand, to draw boundries on your relationship's do's and don'ts and make real time for each other. Understand that you can't force him to change. ... (read in full...)

My BF of a year is flirt and I'm worried it will lead into him cheating on me!

Q.   Its a simple question. We have been together for a year now I love him but he is a flirt. It has gotten on my nerves kind of and gotten me worried he may have or is going to cheat, yet I dont want to put boundries on him as his house is not a happy ...

A.   18 May 2007: You should only feel the way you do if you are lacking in some emotional need. He may or may not be doing anything wrong, but what you are doing to yourself is what will kill your relationship. You have become insecure and allowed him to get away ... (read in full...)

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