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29 May 2007: TOUCHING SKIN This is playfull and gives u a special bond with your partner. Take your partner lay her on the bed with only underwear, know the secret is not to touch your partners skin with your hands. (ex. use feathers),then start by ...
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20 and never kissed a girl. I'm always told to "be myself," advice, please?
Q. i'm 20, I am a confident person, I'm nice and I have a sense of humour. How many girlfriends have I had - 0. How many have I asked out - 7 I think. I have never kissed a girl let alone had sex and I don't know what I'm doing wrong. One girl sai...
A. 22 September 2007: 20 is not so bad and believe me ,when u do get miss right she'll think that u r sweet 'cause u waited 4 her. u c u can try to b wild and bad but in the process u'll destroy some of the goodness in u and maybe u'll miss the relationship that would ... (read in full...)
I have fallen in love with my brother--help!
Q. I fell for my brother. My brother and I have been close since I was born. When I was 6, I was taken away from my mom and brothers, through a custody trial. Last summer I was able to reconnect with my brother, Tim. We now live together. We wer...
A. 23 June 2007: this is 1 of those situations where must listen 2 the right angel on ur shoulder - think about it ,if ur the child of ur uncle and its ur dad ,how would u have looked @ ur mom in a later stage in ur life .how would ur moms family have seen her .. ... (read in full...)
He doesn't support me enough when it counts
Q. I am at my wits end with my husband who seems incapabable of standing up for me when it really counts. Only today we were taking our dog for a walk and it was set on by a pack of dogs including two Rottweilers who were off their leads and the ...
A. 23 June 2007: believe me if the dogs act in any way to harm u or the owners acted in a way 2to insult u ,ur man would have acted 2to protect u . my ex was the same when ever she stood up for something she exspected me to become as excited over the issue as she is ... (read in full...)
We broke up and he's taunting me but I'm still not over him
Q. I was in a three year relationship and I'm having a really hard time getting over him. I honestly think about him everyday and I can't help but feel lonely without him. I go out with friends but all I can think about is him. He left me for another ...
A. 23 June 2007: hey girl ,listen nothing we say will help u 'cause it looks like u really loved this bloke and if it was true love saw in him that special feeling for him might never die. rather use this in the future to set boundries of what u want from a ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend forced me to have sex, but Im sure he didnt mean it, what should I do ?
Q. I love my boyfriend. I'm 16 and he's 22. I told him I wasn't ready for sex until I'm 18. He said he feels the same way and would never force me to do what I didn't want to. Well, that was a lie. He got drunk one night when I was over at his house ...
A. 15 June 2007: hi girl ,sorry to hear this. listen if he he did this once the change for a second time is 100%.... i feel sorry for u and this for your first time .he did rape u and this makes him a rapist ,my advice would to talk a adult that is close to u - that ... (read in full...)
Is this RAPE???
Q. I dont know what to do about my boyfriend. A few nights ago when I came home from work, he asked to have sex but I was too tired. He seemed understanding so I just went to bed. I woke up during the night to find him thrusting his penis in and out ...
A. 11 June 2007: im gonna put this simple this time cause these people are not putting themselves in the right set of mind ......................... 1.DID UR BF HURT U..............................2. WAS IT HIS PLAN 2 HURT U
............................. 3.DI... (read in full...)
He says to me "I wish you were dead"... !
Q. My boyfriend of 4 yrs calls me names like schizo, stupid, and sometimes when he really tempers up he says " I wish you were dead". He had agression and anger problems, and it flares up on me because I dont stand up for myself and I keep it all ...
A. 11 June 2007: sounds like a bit more than just anger ;r u sure he's not using drugs or maybe drinkink alot - that could explain the moods when hes between deffirent people.people like this doesn't change overnight and the way i c it ,being with him might become a ... (read in full...)
Is this RAPE???
Q. I dont know what to do about my boyfriend. A few nights ago when I came home from work, he asked to have sex but I was too tired. He seemed understanding so I just went to bed. I woke up during the night to find him thrusting his penis in and out ...
A. 11 June 2007: neh im sorry i cant agree with everybody and so cant u. i had a gf that would wake me up being busy and thought it was kinky and i asked her 2 do it more often and i did it to........................... u see its hard 'cause its not something people ... (read in full...)
My ex won't let me see our little boy! I'm afraid our son will get the wrong idea if I take her to court! Help!
Q. Okay - my ex broke up with me. We've got a little boy that i love dearly. She moved about 400 k\m away from me. I pay maintenance, but she doesn't want me to see him. Now the thing is if I take her to court, my son might get the feeling that I w...
A. 7 June 2007: thanx 4 the advice so far, it does help. BUT heres the latest ,weve been apart 4 a couple of weeks now and out of the blue she phoned me 2day bcause she wants 2 come visit. i do love my boy and always will ,but do i allow her back into my life jus... (read in full...)
My friend has changed... How do you deal with being around someone you don't like or trust anymore?
Q. Recently one of my close friends has changed dramatically. She used to be really nice and trustworthy and very counsious about not hurting people. (She didnt even belive in bitching!) She has loads of nice guys after her and is leading them all...
A. 3 June 2007: what does the word friend meen............. 1. love 2.trust
3.a bond to look after each others feelings. your so called friend has broken all 3 things that makes someone a friend ,so why still call her a friend? i think ,from what i take out of ur s... (read in full...)
My ex won't let me see our little boy! I'm afraid our son will get the wrong idea if I take her to court! Help!
Q. Okay - my ex broke up with me. We've got a little boy that i love dearly. She moved about 400 k\m away from me. I pay maintenance, but she doesn't want me to see him. Now the thing is if I take her to court, my son might get the feeling that I w...
A. 31 May 2007: Did go to court today. This woman does not wanna reason. I can't believe how someone can change their stripes like she did. It's her mom that's the infleuance. And I mean, if you're 26 with a child, you can't run after your mom and move in by her j... (read in full...)
My ex won't let me see our little boy! I'm afraid our son will get the wrong idea if I take her to court! Help!
Q. Okay - my ex broke up with me. We've got a little boy that i love dearly. She moved about 400 k\m away from me. I pay maintenance, but she doesn't want me to see him. Now the thing is if I take her to court, my son might get the feeling that I w...
A. 30 May 2007: come ladies i wanna know whats the feeling from the opp.
sex, cause thats most probely what shes feeling ...... i don't know?... (read in full...)
My ex won't let me see our little boy! I'm afraid our son will get the wrong idea if I take her to court! Help!
Q. Okay - my ex broke up with me. We've got a little boy that i love dearly. She moved about 400 k\m away from me. I pay maintenance, but she doesn't want me to see him. Now the thing is if I take her to court, my son might get the feeling that I w...
A. 30 May 2007: yes yes i know its the right thing 2 do ,but he still very young (not even 2)and she went back 2 her mom and they can have such a bad invluance on him till hes old enough to see the truth 4 himself................. i,ll rather not talk 2 him 4 know ... (read in full...)
Cellphone antics...mysterious calls, a lot of unusual numbers (females). Should I drop him off in 'dump' city?
Q. what's up with the guy im dating or am i being insecure he has numerous phone numbers yeah i check them with female's on the other side of the phone he has a habit of walking to the next room when certain calls come in.may have to drop him off in ...
A. 30 May 2007: well hes not respecting your feelings and should not b chatting 2 anybody if he couldnt share it with his partner
so either he comes clean ,what he most probely cant do or yeh take hiss *ss and dump in dumpcity... (read in full...)
He has a hard time trusting me now because I lied about liking another guy...any advice?
Q. I need your advise. My boyfirend and I have been together for almost 7 years. We have had our ups and downs, I guess like any relationship. Last year we almost broke up, I was having doubts about us and instead of talking with him and opening up I ...
A. 30 May 2007: well atleast u know why hes not putting all hes trust in u ... well its not the end of the world and we all are human so its up 2 u how 2 handle cause u know him best
maybe this picture will help .......can u remember when u
did something wrong an... (read in full...)
Why did my boyfriend ask me if I had f***ed him?
Q. OK...I'm a bit confused at the moment. Today, just a little bit ago, my boyfriend was making a comment about a guy's truck and I noticed that I knew him, so I stated that I thought I knew that guy. He then asked me if I f***ed him....I personally ...
A. 30 May 2007: well i sounds a bit insecure, maybe a bit 2 much .he must respect your feelings as mutch as u do his. it a bit nasty the way he came down on u ,cause - AND this u must ask him - what does he think of u ,hopefully he'll grow up and this nonsens will ... (read in full...)
We recently had unprotected first-time sex. Could she be pregnant?
Q. Dear cupid, I am worried that my girlfriend may be pregnant. We had first-time sex recently. We had sex in the shower first, I did not ejaculate. Then, I went to my bedroom and masturbated until I ejaculated. I fell asleep for about 45 minutes...
A. 30 May 2007: if u dont want a child u r playing with fire
*life isnt something 2 play with ,but no i dont think
shes pregnant .next time use protection or stock up
"THE MORNING AFTER PILL" so that bad things dont happen 2 good people ............... (read in full...)
Could it be that I am still a virgin at my age because of possibly low testosterone(male sex hormone)levels?
Q. NB: Please reply to THIS question; ignore the previous one- it was accidentally posted prematurely! I am a 27 year old male student, at University (a late starter), in the UK. My problem is that, at the age of 27 years, I have never had any se...
A. 30 May 2007: all boundries in your mind is there because u allow it 2 b there............... if u r gonna look at ur self and say you feel old or look old ,well u know * u r making ur own rules * rather enjoy the time that ur spending there cause 2morrow ur ... (read in full...)
I'm starting to feel closer to my guy's friend. Do I leave him alone or continue?
Q. I've been seeing a guy for 2 years and we kinda fell apart, and me and his best friend have been spending lots of time together. Should I leave his friend alone or continue?...
A. 30 May 2007: well u r still young, decide what !U! want ,but remember do 2 ppl what u want ppl 2 do 2 u.......................
well thats about it!~... (read in full...)
What is she really saying? Do I just walk way and let it go?
Q. Hi, Okay, help please. I just broke up w/ my gf of 5 years. She and I had a talk the other night, and she told me she still loves me, but because of earlier times, she doesn't trust me. I haven't cheated, but when we met, i was with someone els...
A. 29 May 2007: i think u are us confused as she is ............ so get ur head 2gether and may b its gonna b easier 2 c whats going on in hers ,,,,,, if that does help and u wanna keep her go 2 my profile and follow my tip and shes yours forever ... (read in full...)
Can't orgasm and different positions don't work...what can I do?
Q. I have been having sex for over a year but cant orgasm, i have tries different positions still dont work. please help...
A. 29 May 2007: go 2 my profile and read my tip ...... follow it and let me know ,but be soft and gentle... (read in full...)
Media request: Video game addicts
Q. TV Programme about Video Game Addiction A British TV company has world exclusive access to Europe’s first treatment centre for video game addicts. In August we want to take three British teenagers aged between 14 and 16 to the clinic to exper...
A. 29 May 2007: im sorry there must b better ways ,if u take your kids to such a place u are making them feel like they are sick or something is wrong with them .......... get involve in thier social live ........ - when last did u have some real family time .It ... (read in full...)
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