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writes:Theres this guy, (a rep from a company) that came into my workplace who I thought was good looking we had a bit of a chat and a laugh he then left. He returned a few days later to speak to my male boss, who at last minute wanted me in on the 'meeting'.During this meeting the rep's body language was telling me he was interested.... whilst talking to my boss, his body was facing mine all the time even though the boss was opposite him, even when he left I saw him looking back to see me. Anyway, I've found his profile on facebook, would it seem wrong to ask him to be my 'friend' or 'poke' him?I know this may seem sad, even silly but I'd appreciate any advice, Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008): Not sad or silly babes. You must not be ashamed of liking someone, or wanting to talk to someone. Who dares wins they say. Unfortunately I'm new to facebook, and I'm not sure how it goes. But it dose seem to be a very friendly place and somewhere that is suitable to just say hello to people you know. I'm shy so I wouldn't do it, but I'm sure you have more confidence and bravery than me, so I'd say go for it. What do you have to loose? If he dosen't like it, then he won't answer back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008): Go ahead, send him a friend request. I would not suggest poking though. Adding him as a friend is harmless. Have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008): hey.. i did this with a member of staff at my uni.. it took me AGGESS to pluck up the courage to do this, and i messaged him. he was okay about it and we had a good chat until he dropped the bombshell he had a gf..so it was pretty humiliating, but at least i knew. he was okay about the message tho and pleased to hear from me, so yes defo give it a go (ps remember to clock his status....):)
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reader, xelax +, writes (14 October 2008):
Personally i wouldnt... i would wait for him to make the first move, its always best to play hard to get!
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (14 October 2008):
 I don't think it'd be wrong... it is a networking site after all, and that's all you'd be doing!
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