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writes:Hey, I really don't know what to do :( for the last month or so I have been seeing a guy. But on weekends he takes cocaine with his friends, I totally disagree with any illegal drugs, so I had a go at him about it. Saturday night I was supposed to be seeing him but when I text him asking about meeting up he said you can come down if you want but we have drugs and I know you won't like it. He's been letting me down a lot lately. I don't think he's addicted but I just don't like him taking it full stop. He said if he had to choose between me and drugs it would be me hands down... but now I'm not so sure.. he doesn't seem to be willing to not take it on weekends with his friends.When we're together we really do get on great and I love being with him but thinking about the drugs just stays in my mind..Please help I really don't know what to do.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (6 October 2008):
 I'm happy for you both, sweetness. You guys made a decision for the best...
Good luck, my sweet. You will find a new honey to treat you well and fill your days with excitement. For now, enjoy the single life!! You don't have anyone to answer to, baby!! Have a little fun!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2008): thanks everyone
He ended it with me about an hour ago.. im absoutely gutted as i really did like him but i guess it was for the best :( . He was so nice about it and we both realised were such different people and are in to different things
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (6 October 2008):
Well he says he will come off them if you say so.... so say so!
Tell him you don't want to be with some one who takes drugs.
He can stand up to his mates and stick to the booze or if he's too weak then you have to walk away.
You can sit worrying about this for ever or you can take a risk and know one way or the other. Be strong.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (6 October 2008):
Don't accept no for an answer. You tell him that he kicks the drugs or you're walking. If he doesn't make honest effort to stop, ditch the guy. You don't want to be involved in that kind of world.
He may be a great guy, but you deserve better than a druggie.
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