I am thirteen, and have had my period for a while now, I want to use tampons, my mother is strongly opposed to my use of them, what is wrong with tampons at my age?
Q. Well I use tampons secretly behind my moms back. I find pads uncomfortable. I asked when I can use tampons and she tod me when you're WWWWWAAAAAAYYY older! She's afraid I'll hurt myself (im 13!) and that I'm too small to use something "big". AND ...
A. 12 September 2008: Thank you guys a lot!!!! I really want to talk to my mom but I'm just afraid cuz I know she'll be a mix between mad and surprised. But I also might still use them ut not telly her. You guys helped a ton!!! And I know all about tampons don't worry :)... (read in full...)
How long do you think it will be before I get my braces?
Q. tomorrow I am going to the orthodontist about braces. As i live in the uk the treatment is free and the orthodontist told my mom I will be put at the top of the waiting list and that my treatment starts in august. I have already had x-rays and ...
A. 7 August 2008: Well when I went to see when I'd get my braces, I had a 2 month wait. But it could be different. The orthodontists have to look at your x-rays and pics of your teeth to estimate about how long you'll have your braces. So that's why there's such a ... (read in full...)
Should I change the way I am so I feel better about myself or what?
Q. hi.. i'm very self conscious of myself. i dress myself and act myself and stuff, but when i'm around other people i just get upset. it's like everyone looks at them and i'm just there, and i feel like people would just make fun of me. when people ...
A. 6 August 2008: I have the same problem. Well, if you DO end up changing eho you are, just make sure you're comfortable with it and it's really who you are. Wouldn't you rather behated for who you are than loved for what you are not? Try different things: find ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is getting distant. Am I showing him enough love?
Q. hello i have been with my boyfreind for two and a half weeks and i think we get on great but recently he seems to becomming distant i dont think that im showing him enough love so i dont think he loves me as such i think he just sees me as another ...
A. 24 July 2008: Maybe if you try spending more time with your boyfriend things will get better. Don't forget, guys need their space sometimes. Also, you say he's looking for a job...there's a possible chance he could be a little stressed out or just tired and ... (read in full...)
I'm leaving and I want to tell him I love him. What do I say?
Q. Tuesday I'm leaving on vacation. I want to leave the guy I love ( not yet dating) a message that tells him how much I love him ( without sounding over dramatic) and say somthing that will make him think of me while I'm gone. any suggestions on w...
A. 20 July 2008: Just be absolutely truthful. If you love himmaybe you could say you love him (of course). and maybe if you guys do really like eachother, maybe you can get together beofre you leave so you have someone to think about and that person is yours! And if ... (read in full...)
I don't understand why he's acting like this. Does he like me?
Q. Dear Cupid, Lately I've been feeling like I'm losing everyone. So when I tell this to one of my best friends, whom I have dated and now like again, he tries to help. He makes me feel amazing like I'm not losing anyone at all, or like I don't ne...
A. 17 July 2008: Wow exactly the same thing with me too!!! Well, anyway, if he says I'm sorry maybe hee feels like he's making you like him although that isn't the case at all. If he really cares about you, that might be it. Good luck!... (read in full...)
Could this be an eating disorder? Or is it all in my head? Also, how can you gain weight in a proper, safe and reasonable way?
Q. I'm a little underweight. I'm 13. When I eat I can't have more than 4 bites without wanting to throw up. Could this be an eating disorder? Or is it all in my head? Also, how can you gain weight in a proper, safe and reasonable way? OhI also ...
A. 15 July 2008: Uhh I just feel sick...I'm not thinking about feeling sick it just happens. Thanks :)... (read in full...)
I feel like my boyfriend only wants me for sexual stuff!
Q. I'm 14 and my boyfriend and I have been going out for a month and I started too really like him. A couple weeks ago he asked for head and I gave it to him but yesterday he asked me again and he asked to see my boobs. I said no but I feel like thi...
A. 14 July 2008: I totally know what you mean. That's why I'm scared to have bf's cuz I'm afraid there only wanting me for sexual reasons. But anyway, I think you should break up with him if he's just using you for your body. I'm guessing he's a growing teenage boy ... (read in full...)
Lost my virginity very young, got drunk at a party, should I tell my mom about both, I feel bad not doing so, please advise?
Q. I lost my virginity last year (early november 2007 when I was 13 1/2) to a guy who I had been hanging out with and was really close to for about 4 months. We never dated, just hung out a lot(he sort of led me on). My mom knew him and let him come ...
A. 7 July 2008: If you feel guilty and you just feel the need to tell your mom and you both are very close, I think you should tell her. Although if you have a dad, I'm not so sure. Dads are obviously very protective. Hmmm...I personally think you should tell ... (read in full...)
I need makeup tips to start the 8th grade!
Q. I really want to start wearing makeup. Like eyeshadow, mascara, eyeliner and lipgloss. I'm pretty sure my mom will approve because I'M GOING INTO 8TH GRADE!! ***I REALLY need LOTS of tips and advice!!!!*** PLEASE AND THANK YOU!!!!! xoxo...
A. 2 July 2008: Thanks you guys you helped tons!!!!! Oh yeah, when I said I'm intersted in those certain types of makeup, I didn't mean I was going to wear them all at once!! lol :) still, thank you!... (read in full...)
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