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writes:i dont know what to do im 18 i have very frew friends cant seem to find a girlfriend i hardly ever talk 2 my mum or dad we can sit in same room without speaking 4 days i feel very alone and unwanted i dont no what to do any help Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (14 October 2008):
 Your life needs some spice. You are stuck in a rut, my friend. You need to get out and try some new stuff, find some new places to hang.
I am extremely sad for your situation, and hope that you will take it upon yourself to join a club, get involved in a theater (they need ushers, techies, actors...), a book group, volunteer, take a few community college classes and find things to get involved with there.
Stay strong and remember that you are awesome and that things will work out - they always have a way of doing that. Good luck, my sweet.
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reader, ms.sherri +, writes (14 October 2008):
 Alone is not always a bad thing. In this time without anyone in ur life who may be taking away from what ur true purpose is. During this time make your self someone valuable. Like finding something u love 2 do and be the best at it. And once that happens others will see you r content in ur own skin and good at doing what u do and others will want 2 know what u know and be apart of your big plan. Stay strong u have a lot of life 2 live and everything will fall in place 4 u very soon. Huggs. Toi
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reader, Chippymunk  +, writes (14 October 2008):
 Don't worry, you're not alone as i'm pretty much in the same situation. Maybe even worse as my parents are emotionally abusive instead of just ignoring me. I also can't seem to find a gf, and have very few friends as they all found someone and went their own way. I understand how painful it is to be alone but try not to let it get you down. I was pretty depressed but started to do some volunteering and taking up recreational activities. I felt much better when people started appreciating me for helping out. So try going out and volunteering and joining clubs etc. I know it won't be easy to just get up and do stuff and it may take time but it may really make you feel better. Oh, and about not finding a gf yet, here's a good video to take a peek at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mg-nU5l4tLo Good luck =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2008): Well, there are lonely girls out there feeling the same way, you know. There are online dating and chat rooms that you can access with caution to perhaps find a new friend.
I find that one of the best things to do, when I get in that kind of mood, is to find ways to serve and help others. Find projects no matter how small that you can do. There's a natural sense of accomplishment and self-worth that comes from serving others.
On a humorous? note, are your parents alive?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2008): ok. never ever feel like your unwante becuase i am sure that many people love you and adore you. ust put yourself out there. i have felt like that many times before and its just inner feeling's of emotion. talk more to people who you wouldnt usually talk to. widen your horizons!
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