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He tries to force himself on me, then tells me he loves me?

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Question - (14 October 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 October 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i really dont know what to do!! i cant even sleep. ive tried, and tried and its runnin through my mind like christmas does!! its awful!

today, i was in school (6th form) and i got a text from my *friend* call him bob. and he said to me 'come to your school gares' so i went to the gates, worried cause i thought there was something wrong with him, and he got hold of me and dragged me down this ginnal, he punned me up against the wall and started kissin me and undressing me, i threw him away from me and fixed up my clothes, asked him what the hell he thought he was doing! he started screaming and shouting in my face, about how much he likeD me, how much he thought "we could work" said i had been "leading him on, for months" called me a slag, a slut! told me i only wanted guys for the sex! he thought we had something special but obviously im a selfish tart and all this shit! so i burst out crying and said aload of stuff i cant even remember! told him i hated him, i never wanted to see him again, i deserved better than him, i DID like him up until today!

i dont know how he could do it, he make me phisically sick! i dunno wat to do!! i cant stop thinkin! he text me about an hour ago, it sais (this is quoted) it was like 12 pages long or something:

"(my name) im really sorry about earlier on today babe, you have no idea how much i like you, ive been tryin to get you on your own for months so i can tell you how i feel but it hasnt worked, i think ive fallen for you. i didnt mean to hurt you earlier, i just couldnt cope nomore, you with other lads made me so jealous, when you tell me you like me, my face glows! seeing you makes me smile. hangin around with you makes me the happiest guy alive, i love it when your drunk, cause your all over me, huggind me and kissing me, i wouldnt dream of takin advantage of you but i love spending time with you. please forgive me, phone me when youve calmed down abit, im truly sorry babe i love you xxxx"

i read the text and i just cried, ive not stopped yet, re writin it made me cry loads more! please help me someone, i really do like him, i just dont know what to do!

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (14 October 2008):

TasteofIndia agony auntStay away from that creep!! He is dangerous and disturbed. Don't get involved with a fella like that who will bring you nothing but drama and hurt feelings. Even if you have SOME good times, the bad ones grossly outweigh them. Please stay away from that guy for your own good, my darling!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2008):

Any guy who would try to force himself on you is trouble. Run the other way and don't look back.

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