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writes: Okay, I have a problem here. My hair is falling out, and I keep getting these headaches at around 5:00 PM and then again at like 11:00 PM, never in the morning, also the second i wake up i feel really sick to my stomach, and then though out the day I get even more sick to my stomach, I haven't had my period in about 1 1/2 months but I don't think it's that, I just dont get that feeling, ya know? But if it was that then I need help, because my partner told me that if I was pregnant that he'd leave me, because "unplanned pregnancies drive men away, not draw them closer". So I'm kind of in a bind, any suggestions on what this might be?
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reader, Mummy to be +, writes (24 October 2008):
It doesn't sound like pregnancy to me, it sounds like you could be really unwell. However, a pregnancy test is the only way to find out but i would book into your GP as soon as.
As for your boyfriend, well i'm sorry to say but you are in a dead end relationship sweetie. Why men think that women get pregnant all by themselves i don't know but we don't. They just have issues with standing up to responsibility. Get rid now! He should be worried for your health and supporting you and if you were pregnant stand by your decision. Good luck and hope everything works out at the doctors, love mummy to be : )
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reader, Green_Eyez +, writes (14 October 2008):
Do a pregnancy test asap. Believe me - you don't have to have 'a feeling' - take it from someone who's been there.
Next, if you are pregnant, you need to decide what to do because, frankly, your bf sounds like a complete toerag. It takes 2 to make a baby and he will have to face up to his responsibilities whether he likes it or not. If I were you I'd finish it - he doesn't sound like a particularly nice person.
If you aren't pregnant I'd get yourself off to the Doctor because you don't sound well and may need checking out.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (14 October 2008):
Get a pregnancy test, a more reliable form of birth control and a NEW BOYFRIEND. I can't believe that he said that to you, and wasn't trying to be more supportive. He acts as the unplanned pregnancy isn't at ALL his fault - it does take two to tango and he is just as responsible for the situation as you are.
Definitely get a pregnancy test and make an appointment to see your doctor. And talk some sense into your man, because he's talking crazy.
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