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anonymous
writes:i screwed up big time with a lad i like.i was goin out with this lad called ste and i decided i liked his mates brother.he had little experiance with gurls and i didnt mind as i liked him alot.after a while i thought things were goin very slow.i was on msn to my ex ste and i told him i was missing him. he said that he was missing me to .. he still liked me. i didnt still like him i just missed him bein aroud his hugs and kisses. he said he had the house to himself all week and i should pop round [ im geussin you no what for] on either monday or tuesday and i said i would. i didnt bcuz i said i cudnt do it to richard, even tho we wernt going out or seeing each other. on the friday we were in the pub and me and ste tlked about old times and ended up kissing. he told everyone not to say anything to richard because we wanted to get back together but not untill it had all blown over [ and he aid thnat without me sayin i wanted to get bak 2gether. and all the old things i didnt like about him came out again. later that night he told rich himself bcuz he was drunk. i was devistated that he found out because i realized how much i liked him and i new it would hurt him.he was mad at me .. and wa talked four about 12 hours about it.. and didnt reali sort anythingn out. the next day he looked at stes chat logs and was heartbroken. he cudnt believ i would have done that. i said that i didnt do it bcuz i cudnt do it to him.but he still was hurt nd i didnt like being the one hurting him.but now we are okay. but him and ste and like best mates and hes getin glory wen im bein called a slag. ive messed things up with rich and ive lost a realy good friend as his brother is one of my best mates and dosnt want to tlk 2 me ne more.:(i dont no how to sort things out with rich.i do love him.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (8 June 2008):
 your going to have to let him sort out his feelings. what hurts is taking part in activities which you know before hand can cause someone you like pain. it's not the act, it's the disregard for feelings by doing the act.
He must feel as he isn't good enough. Fearful of repeat behavior. A bunch of things. The best thing to do is to let him sort his feelings, then really talk about the issues.
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