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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I fell in love with the most beautiful, talented, amazing girl in the world and well she dosn't fell the same. I love her more than anything in the world. There was a time when I thought that perhaps she loved me and it was the best moment of my life, I was so inspired to write and play guitar and all sorts of stuff, now I just feel depressed and do nothing but think of her and what could be.From what I know she dosn't like me because she is not 'attracted' to me and that she likes someone else. But if the person I think she likes is who he is, well he's a total jerk and won't care about her.I can't just let her go, I never wanted to fall in love in the first place and know that I will never be able to again because all I see in other women are pieces of her.I KNOW that if she can see past 'attraction' then we would be perfect together because we share the same interests and hobbies and work really well together. But how can I do that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2008): Do something that she likes
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii  +, writes (9 June 2008):
 try and continue the friendship even though it hurts, be yourself and don't let her see that your in pain with this but also try and move on, if she has feelings for this other guy then it is clear you will only get hurt.
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reader, graciie; +, writes (8 June 2008):
dude, if she doesnt love you,
let her go.
she'll be happy and isnt that what you want?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2008): I totally agree with "rcn" be yourself. Be friendly to her and be friends. Be there when her eyes might open, she will discover who her loyal friends are.
Mingle with your other friends, and be friendly with the other girls, that might make her a little jealous and might make her think.
Good luck!
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reader, rcn +, writes (8 June 2008):
 If it's meant to be, she'll come around in her own time. Some times people have to experience the jerk, before they realize that's not what they are looking for.
Keep playing guitar, and with your inspirations, that's how you identify yourself. I play guitar, and have done so for almost 30 years. Weather or not I'm with a woman, I always have my music.
Being a teen can be hard, but I'll tell you I've seen many people who weren't for eachother when young, then in their 20's or 30's they end up getting married.
Until then, just be there for her. A good friend is always someone she can count on when the jerk is a jerk and she needs picked up and validate you'll be that friend.
Take care.
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