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Help! Who should I choose?

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Question - (9 February 2007) 8 Answers - (Newest, 9 February 2007)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi my names mike and Im 13yrs old. I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 3 months now.I was recently at the mall with my friend my friends girlfriend and one of my friends (also a girl).The first thing the girls wanted to do was to go to victorias secret, obviously we had no objection to that.

It came to the point where my friend picked out a bra, she went to try it on, she beckoned me to go into the changeing room with her.I refused. eventually she persuaded me to go in. that whole night she was hitting on me. I kinda like her but i kinda like my girlfriend now. Who should I pick?

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A female reader, KirstyS United Kingdom +, writes (9 February 2007):

KirstyS agony auntDefinately stick with your girlfriend; your friend was just jealouse, and doesn't deserve you. If you did go out with her, it would ruin your friensship with your girlfriend and all her friends, and your relationship with the other girl would just be about appearances and probably wouldnt last any time at all

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2007):

What does your friend think she's playing at? She almost forced you into the changing room with her. What kind of friend does she think she is? Especially seeing as you have got a girlfriend. Stick with your girlfriend otherwise your friend will think that she has won you over.

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A male reader, BenQ United Kingdom +, writes (9 February 2007):

BenQ agony auntYou're only young and inexperienced!

Choose whoever you want, but try and not hurt anyone in the process.

Also, be careful of what this could do to you, if you leave your girlfriend, the word might spread, and it can be harder to get a relationship later on with a reputation.

I see you as lucky though, I don't think I've ever had 2 girls after me at once...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2007):

hey hey almzi tone it down a bit. the term "whore" wouldn't be it.

i agree, she is just teasing you, but yet again it was wrong of her to do that. she knew you had a girlfriend. if you really like your girlfriend.. i'd say you need to stay away from this friend of yours. is she a friend of your girlfriend, too?? do not choose this girl over your girlfriend.

but yet again...

do/chose what you think is best for you. just don't go around breaking hearts. it will come back to haunt you.

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A female reader, almizy Philippines +, writes (9 February 2007):

that girl is a whore! what kind of friend she is if she is seducting you? your too young so i advice you to play and enjoy the sequences.

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A female reader, melschatbox United States +, writes (9 February 2007):

melschatbox agony auntWho should you pick? Obviously, if all this girl had to do was show you her bra to get you to think about dropping your g/f, you never really liked your g/f in the first place. 13 isn't the age to be devoted seriously to any girl, anyway. I say, play the field, but stay out of the girls dressing rooms.

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (9 February 2007):

AskEve agony auntThis girl was only teasing you. Enjoy the attention she was giving you but you like you're girlfriend so I would stick with her. If this girl can do this with you, she can do it with your friends too. Imagine she WAS your girlfriend, could you really trust her?

I wouldn't give my girlfriend up for her!

Eve

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A female reader, renae93 United States +, writes (9 February 2007):

renae93 agony aunti think u need to stay with u're girlfriend...u're friend shuldn't have done tht...she knew u had a girlfrind..u shuld tell u're girlfriend wat happened...

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