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writes: I broke up with my boyfriend about 5 months ago as we decided it wouldnt work out with me goin 2 college and him staying on a sixth form as we thought we wouldnt see each other, he moved on and by the end of the month was getting together with someone else which really hurt me. On our birthday i got drunk and rang him and told him i still loved him and wanted him back, we met up and he said that he couldn't get back together because he was getting together with someone else and didnt want to hurt her, i tried to move on and i actually thought i had but keep seeing him at parties and i feel as if theres something there. my best friend and him are good mates and whenever she asks hows it goin with his new girlfriend he always pulls a face, i would do anything to get him back i no its meant to be and i have a feeling deep down he feels the same but doesnt want to get hurt. I don't no what to do? plz help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008): there's absolutely nothing you can do...my love has had enough of me..because i was silly and immature. i loved him with all my heart but in my pride and blind faith in this love of ours i thougth he was gonna wait forever. i left the country and went home. he couldnt stand the long distance relationship, broke up with me and hooked up with someone just last week. its the biggest pain, the worsthangover, the biggest disappointment. when you know you love someone, you want them back but its too little too late.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2007): WELL no offence but you may be comin across as desperate so move on go out there find someone new, show him and yourself you can, you will and you are. Good luck
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reader, love bug +, writes (9 February 2007):
love bug is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyea at parties he's either with his girlfriend or with all his mates its mainly his mates tho
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (8 February 2007):
 If your boyfriend wants you back then he'll call you or get in touch with you in some way to ask you back, plain and simple! The fact he pulls a face when your best friend asks how things are going is to spare YOUR feelings. He knows she's going to go right back to you with the answer from him. When you see him at parties all the time, is he with this other girlfriend?
I think the best thing you could do is lie low for a while, it may be he's immature and is only trying to make you jealous but if he DOESN'T see you around (and still has feelings for you) then he'll start asking about you, where you are, not seen you for a while, is she okay? I wouldn't get in contact with him in any way, lie low and see if he gets back in touch.
It's hard when you've been with someone you have feelings for and break up with them but you can move on! Maybe it just wasn't meant to be, time... of course will tell.
Eve
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2007): he is trying to make a point but like you and everyone else knows he still feels for you deep down he hasnt moved on properly and he still has feelings for you but if he says he doesnt hes lying to himself and it will come back and haunt him what you really should do is try and forget about it move on and dont get caught up.i no its really hard to do when you have strong feelings for him id just go out to places where i no he would be and take a mate along and show him ure not upset over him and show him to that ure movin on and then u will no if he still has feelings for u because oviously his reaction will come back to you and besides theres no doubt thers bear ova lads out there who u could take your pick from and dont chase him as soon as he knows that youve put yourself back out there he probally be worried no matter what happens keep your head up and keep smilling if he hasnt realised that hes missing out than thats his hard luck but dont chase him he will soon be chasing you i feel hes missing you a lot but is to scared to show his feelings
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reader, Carina  +, writes (8 February 2007):
 I know this situation well. In fact my son is going through something similar at the moment. This is a very difficult time in your life when all your friends and relationships change because people are going off into the world doing their own thing. I think it was sensible to break up because of being apart and you may be right about how he feels....but you may be wrong. I know it's hard for you to deal with seeing him all the time. My advice is to hang in there from a distance. Tell him you'd like to stay in touch as friends and email every now and then. Keep it light and friendly. If it's meant to be it will be, but there's nothing you can do to force the issue. Just leave the doors open so that if he changes his mind he knows where you are. In the meantime go out and enjoy yourself. There are plenty of guys out there and in many ways it's a good thing to have the experience of going out with other people, even if you end up with him. Be patient, be happy, be social with other people and see what happens. Life is full of surprises! Good luck!
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