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writes:hi i am a bit confused. it seems like only all the skinny blonde, tall girls get boyfriends!i am 16 and i weigh 8 stone :s i am about 5ft 1Brown hair.is this any boys type?or do they only go for the skinny tall girls? Reply to this Question
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reader, willywombat +, writes (9 February 2007):
 if every individual liked only one other type of person then why are there so many different types of sex symbols?
Look, it is an each to their own thing.....I like red heads, my mate likes brad pitt lookalikes....
honest, it takes allsorts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2007): Different boys go for different girls. Not all boys go for tall skiny blonde girls. Maybe you think that because you know a lot of boys that like that type of girl.
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reader, KirstyS +, writes (9 February 2007):
 I have the same problem- i'm 15, wiegh 8 stone, am 5ft 3, and have brownish-blonde hair. thus, i've never had a boyfriend. it's maybe because i'm not as outgoing as most of my friends, but i cant help feeling that if i was tall, skinny, blond and big-busted, i'd be more popular with boys
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2007): Without wanting to sound patronising this is just a view you have that will hopefully pass as you get older and more confidence in yourself and your body. There is nothing particularly special about long thin blonde women at all.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (9 February 2007):
 Well, I'm a guy and I have met attractive women of all shapes, sizes and colours. What makes a woman attractive is so much more than her shape and size, it's about how she is in the world and how much she loves herself and life. And I have met pretty, tall, skinny blonde girls that are terribly unnattractive because they are self-obsessed, insecure, bitchy and superficial.
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reader, BenQ +, writes (9 February 2007):
 Hey, not all guys go for long tall blondes.
My girlfriend is 4' 11", brown hair, and I don't think I have ever dated a blonde, let alone a tall skinny one.
Remember that there are a lot of men out there, and yes, I admit that the majority may be superficial, and go for stereotypical 'pretty' girls, but there are plenty of other guys out there (myself included) that fall for the person on the inside, not the one on the outside.
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reader, renae93  +, writes (9 February 2007):
 in mi opinion i think u shuldn't worry about the skinny girls if u haven't noticed they always get SCREWED OVR nd guys only look at them for sex...alot of em dn't wanna b serious with them...nd even if they look perfect they have FLAWS everyone one does nd the guys will figure it out one day!!u'll find a guy tht is PERFECT for u nd he'll see u as his perfect angel!!!
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reader, AskEve +, writes (8 February 2007):
 Don't be intimidated by skinny blonde girls. They can be very superficial and vain. You sound lovely and have a lot of common sense so I certainly wouldn't worry about it. Different guys go for different looks, not all guys even like blondes and I know for a fact not all guys like skinny women, they prefer the more shapely figure, someone who looks like a woman and is not just all skin and bone.
As long as you look the best you can, take care of yourself and more importantly be bubbly and friendly, assertive and happy with yourself then that will shine through. Guys like confident women who aren't vain and run to the bathroom every 5 minutes to check their make up. Women like this don't keep men long so DON'T be envious of them, they put more emphasis on their looks than they do their relationships and are really quite sad.
Just you by YOU! Don't go looking for a boyfriend, enjoy yourself with your friends and you see your bubbly personality will attract boys to you! :o)
Eve
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reader, cd206 +, writes (8 February 2007):
 Guys of 16 have a very specific view of what a woman should be. They grow out of it, don't worry. There are countless guys out there who would want to go out with you, you just aren't noticing them. Maybe they like you from afar but think you'd only go for a 6 foot tall, dark and handsome guy. Trust me, as a fellow brunette shortie who weighs somewhat more than you, you'll get a boyfriend as soon as you stop looking for one. Guys sense it when you're desperate for a boyfriend so as soon as you start getting involved with hobbies, going for nights out with your girlfriends they'll be lining up.
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