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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Great dates, some affectionate passion, but now he's disappeared!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I went on 2 wonderful dates with someone who isn't even from my area, he lives in another state. He was around for business. We both had such a great time together and there was a lot of passionate affection involved in that little time. He kept in touch consistently for a ... (249 words)

How do I manage dating two girls without messing anyone around?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

4 March 2012 (?) age 36-40 - I have the problem that in my last two relationships I had got used and now I'm trying to look again but may have bitten off more than I can chew, because I have two girls that I really like I'm not in a relationship with either, and the one girl "C" we get along really well ... (163 words)

Could I have lost my virginity without knowing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - sex had always been an exciting thin for me as a child. as an adult now, i dislike it. i have always been a virgin i even broke up with my boyfriend because he wanted me to have sex with him. later when i was to try it, my partner was like you are open and i was deeply ... (140 words)

Single and dateless!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi All, just a question. Have you ever found yourself to be dateless or relationshipless for more than 2 and a half years? I have and now i am questioning myself about my personality, looks and life style. Do you think this is odd to be on my own for this length of time?... (54 words)

Advice on how to help my girlfriend cope with losing her mother to a stroke?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a lesbian relationship and nearly 5 years ago I lost my mother to breast cancer that metastized to her kidneys and she died of renal failure. It took a hugh toll on me and really took years to become strong again about 3 or 2 1/2 years. My girlfriend was very close to ... (141 words)

B/f treats me like I'm his property, not his girlfriend

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I have been seeing my bf for about a year and a half now and things have been changing. In school he always downgrades me infront of hits mates like grabs my butt.. I find it very uncomfy. In school he always acts like I am his property an object sort of not as a... (188 words)

We haven't had sex in 8 months! B/f plays games on PC but won't play with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - hi im a 45yr woman been with my partner almost 6yrs he play pc games every night in the bedroom we have not had sex in 8 months there is no intimacy at all not even a cuddle i have discussed about the pc but he dosent care its so awkard now that i would feel uncomfortable even ... (89 words)

Mixed signals, from my ex! Help me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

4 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Why is she doing this? I stop being friends with my ex, so I can recover more effectively. Naturally, she tells me never to contact her, again. So, I block her from any source I think possible. Anyways, in the lunchroom, in the college, she sits at the table next to the one ... (138 words)

Husband mimics everything I do like he's a parrot!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband mimicks everything I say or do to the point where im just fed up listening to him. If I sneeze (i sneeze a lot!) he acts me and laughs. If I scratch my nose or just move some way he copies me. And he mimicks everything I say its like living with a parrot. I... (79 words)

Is it right for me keeping my commitment to my wife and god that I will only love my wife even if it destroys my inner self?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

4 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone I am 30 years old. I have been married to the love of my life for 6 years and we grew together since childhood. I love my wife; however, lately a close friend of ours for 6 years has been the emotional support for me. She practices a Poly lifestyle and I ... (277 words)

He said after the last girl he just wants to be single!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Well.., I like this guy who is in my year and i get on with him really well but he flirts with everyone he is just that friendly. I got my mate to talk to him sorta and he said he just wants to be single after what his last girl did to him what should i do.?3:) thanks... (60 words)

Does a guy's penis have a mind of its own?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4569 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I know this is a stupid question, but I've always wondered this. I almost asked a guy friend, but didn't because I didn't want him getting the wrong idea so here goes: Does a guys penis have a mind of it's own? Do you move it like you move a finger, or like when you get a ... (86 words)

I like him but does he actually like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am madly in love with this guy but I'm not sure how how feels about me. I spent an entire day alone with him about a week ago and we had so much fun. He asked me about myself and refused to accept that I was boring. He had me feel is hair and kept poking me in the face and we ... (213 words)

Why do married people expect more out of their relationship than people who have been dating for awhile?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've come to wonder about relationship expectations, and would like to hear the thoughts of others on this subject. Every so often I read a question and then answers that say "you can't expect this and that at this stage". For example, if a woman has been with a boyfriend for 6 ... (493 words)

Should I give up on her and let her go back to her life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

4 March 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Okay on the surface, my situation seems pretty cut and dry. I'm sure most people would tell me to move on and find someone available and worthy of my affections. But to me it seems more of a questin of unconditional love. I meet "Jess" 9 momths ago before I relocated to cen... (568 words)

My boyfriend doesn't know about business/jobs/money. How can I change him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi people! Lately I'm extremely tired of my relationship with my bf of 3 years. He's lovely and great man I can say. Otherwise, we have trouble in communication, we can hardly chat well lately. Sometimes I think that he's too dumb about talking business and job things,... (207 words)

My ldr bf what his intentions to me. and where do we stand now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - im in a ldr and my boyfriend is 15 years older than me his nice guy we had ups and down to be in this hard long distance relationship,before we been together as bf/gf we started we talk to regularly on skype everyday we have different time so we adjust time for each other.an... (374 words)

She's happy she is with me but keeps giving me mixed signals!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

4 March 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi. So im going to jump right into this but it may end up being somewhat long i dont know haha. but anyway ive been in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost four months... weve really gotten into each other and i feel like she may be the one. please dont comment saying ... (264 words)

I'm 35, is it wrong to pursue a relationship with a 20-year-old guy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - well, this is a little weird for me. telling this story. im turning 35 this guy who really likes me is turning 20 in a couple weeks.never met but we talk over the phone, facebook hotmail,and x box live. i never hit on him. but it turned out after knowing him for almost 2 yrs he ... (588 words)

2 years since my divorce and haven't found a guy; feeling very low. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, i just need a kick up the backside off you guys please. i'm 36 and am back living at home after i got divorced he cheated on me and bled me and my folks dry.. i'm back in my old bedroom, bored and poor.. i had to go bankrupt so most of my wages go to paying the ... (288 words)

My boyfriend is on vacation and I'm feeling anxious. I don't like feeing this way!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has been on vacation for the past few days and will be gone for a week more, and I've felt nothing but anxious the whole time. I can't understand why. I haven't heard from him very much but I can understand that, considering he IS on vacation, plus that isn't ... (176 words)

My boyfriend isn't going to get me a present for my b-day but has money to buy a new game

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - my birthday is coming up (in two days), and i had some friends and my boyfriend around yesterday to watch some films and throughout the day, me and my boyfriend cuddled and kissed etc.. today, me and my boyfriend were talking, and he said 'i may not get you a birthday present... (193 words)

Can you get pregnant from dry humping?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Can dry humping get you pregnant even if there was no ejaculation and you were wearing underwear?... (17 words)

Why do I still feel so badly a year after a break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I still feel like this even after a year? Is this normal? Today is a year since my ex boyfriend broke up with me. I loved him so much. He was my everything. I've never felt that way about anyone else before. We did everything together. we were so cute. He told me he lo... (201 words)

Single mom struggling at minimum wage ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I no this is usually advice for relationships. But my problem is money troubles, an I thought in this climate I can't be the only 1. I'd also like to thank you for reading this... Let me start by giving you a brief summary of my life. I am nearly 24 an I have a 6 yr ol... (388 words)

I want to be more than friends. He doesn't.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship with this guy for 7 months and i said i think am falling in love.weeks later he said that we have to end it its not me its him. we remained friends for a year seen each other afew times but know he says that his family like me alot but we cant get back ... (121 words)

He loved me and wanted me and I threw it all away.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I've messed things up with a guy i really like and i don't know how to fix it. I met this man 9 months ago - we had a two week fling and then we didn't see each other for 4 months as he went back to live in his home country. We stayed in touch by email the whole ti... (381 words)

Where can I meet potential suitors?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you meet guys? I've dated before and I've had "casual encounters" before, but I want to know the normal way to meet a good guy that I can be in a long lasting relationship with. The guys I've dated I all either met at parties or online (NOT on dating sites, str... (165 words)

I want to have my ex as a friend again but don't know how to go about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Need some advice. I miss my ex boyfriend. We were together 6 months in LDR and he broke up with me because of timing and because he couldn't give me what I wanted. This was 3 months ago (ish). The last thing I said to him was that I couldn't be friends. (purely because ... (147 words)

I had sex with my friend's dad.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Okay so this is kinda tricky.. i'm good friends with this girl, not like my bestie or anything but we still hang out often enough. Started getting to know her through college, been hanging around with her for about a year, we're both 21, same age. To cut a long st... (598 words)

I really wish I hadn't flirted because now I don't know what this guy is up to

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have a situation at my new work. I have started to get feelings for one of my trainers in work. He has been flirting back (I think) and we had a conversation recently about me being newly single and that he thought I was cute etc then he said he was in a very unhappy r... (264 words)

I didn't know what to do so I ran back into my house!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

4 March 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - hi ...ok this is a question ....i want girls to answer it...plz i need help..ok im a guy of 17 who loves a girl who falls to be my neighbour...we hav been living in the same place for many years still we never hav talked or i dont even know her name....i usually see her on her ... (213 words)

I'm being elbowed out of our friends group and I have no idea why!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

4 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have always tried my hardest to be a decent person, good friend and supportive boyfriend but it would seem as if my efforts and near-perpetually confounded. A reoccurring theme in my life is that I’ll reach out to someone who seems to be at a rough end socially and try to i... (986 words)

My boss asked me if I am good in bed

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - What should i do there a guy that the own of the market that i work at asked me if i was good in bed and told me that i could have who ever i want just have 2 let people what was he getting at am 32 his 59 how can i tell him that am not intertese in him. If that wat his get ... (75 words)

Do I try and forget him and move on once he's gone? Or do I stay in contact with him, and if yes, how often?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age - Hello everyone, I have been in a friends with benefits (FWB) relationship for 1yr 4 months (we both live in the same town. In the begining I thought we were both moving towards a committed relationship, but I soon realised that it was just me who felt that way and he was just... (546 words)

Being nice doesn't get me anywhere

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

4 March 2012 (?) age 36-40 - Sometimes i think i'm too nice and forgive people too easily. I'm quite a sensitive person and people's actions can hurt me a lot sometimes. I'm very loyal to the people i feel are loyal to me but sometimes it seems like i'm giving and not getting anything back. I've rece... (447 words)

Could this mean I'm gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

4 March 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 and I do not like porn but I like Yaoi and sometimes I do not know if I'm sick or just gay,... (24 words)

Our sex life sucks but she's been with dozens of other guys?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

4 March 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - When I dated my GF, everyone told me she was a freak and I thought that was cool. I never asked her how many men she slept with. After dating and moving in with her I noticed qualities that a "loose" person would have, mainly my male friends, grabbing and getting close to other ... (272 words)

No longer attracted to my husband

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont find my husband attractive anymore and i dont know what to do. we have been married since feb 26th 2010 and even before we got married my heart just wasnt all the way in it but i did it anyway because i didnt have anywhere else to go and i ended up pregnant by him. we ... (97 words)

Throwing in the towel is never been an option if you love someone, or is it???

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

4 March 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been in a relationship for over a year. I moved 700 plus miles to be with this woman. We both come from long marriages with bad ex'es. We both have custody of our boys. Needless to say blending a family is hard. Please tell me if I'm being an ass, if there is validity in ... (1141 words)

I might as well be single, I'm liviing like a room mate!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Someone suggested reposting to get fresh advice.. so here i am! Hi, My partner who i live with, is addicted to online gaming. Not only that, but when he does deign to spend any time with me, it's generally him wanting to "get it on", he cannot seem to understand why hi... (609 words)

Abused as a teen. Now I find I am starting to prefer girls. Can I change to become hetrosexual?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

4 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - ModNote: As the OP was then under the legal age of consent at the time, then the OP, legally, was not able to give informed consent and so was a victim of abuse. If the OP wants this waiver removed please say While under the legal age of consent I was used sexually by gay m... (152 words)

Could he be into me? Or just nice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4645 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a boy in my grade who I have many classes with. He is nice to everybody and is friends with everyone. Recently in some classes he has smiled at me or given me unnecessary help. I was seated at a table with him and although there was another guy there that e was friends ... (107 words)

How can I distiguish between her being nice and just acting like a family friend or more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4644 days ago

4 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey y'all, I have a two part question: First of all a little background. I've known this gal (she's 25, I'm 23) for almost 6 years know. We know each other since her uncle has been dating my mother for the past 6 years. We've gotten to know each other throughout the y... (203 words)

Lots of sex, but he's still into porn?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, My bf and I have been together for a bit over a year, we live together, and are generally very happy. My one concern with him is that he watches porn. Not a whole lot, but sometimes. We have sex most days and we do our best to live out his fantasies ("faci... (137 words)

I think my boyfriend is still too emotionally invested in his ex girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am confused as to handle this situation with my boyfriend concerning his exgirlfriend. They were together for a year but have been broken up for almost 3 years. He told me when we met that he was still friends with her and that was something that other girls needed to ... (496 words)

A little nervous about these symptons

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, so I'm on bc pills, I noticed yesterday I haven't had a period since feb3 and I've noticed I'm bloated, craving foods, everything goes right threw me, I'm never ful no matter what and how much I eat, breaking out like crazy, also mild cramping, about 2ce a day, took ... (94 words)

I feel less attracted to my black fiance...and more attracted to Caucasian men!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So its pretty simple I'm mixed black and white. My fiancée is black, lately I have been getting more and more attracted to white men, I'm not racist or anything. My preference has changed and it wouldn't be such a deal, if I didn't feel like I'm losing attraction to him. What's ... (55 words)

Whats a good way of rejecting an invitation to date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Quick question - A guy just asked me out, I said no and made a bit of a mess of explaining why (basicaly I just wasn't intrested) Whats a good way of rejecting an invitation to date? One that doesn't involve shocked babbling on my part please!... (50 words)

Nearly everything that damages society gets glamourised in some way. Why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I know I can't change it but I'm not a fan of how society is. I hate seeing people drink their lives away, ruin their bodies with drugs, smoke as much as possible until/through lung cancer, wanting to have sex or wear skimpy clothes at young ages, the constant attention seeking ... (207 words)

Sometimes I feel like he's only with me for sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfrend and I live in separate cities we love each other dearly so we try as much as we can to see each other but sometimes I feel like I'm trying a lot harder than he is , he would take about 3 days without calling or texting and when I ask him why he says he's been busy , ... (185 words)

After 1.5 year together my g/f is still waiting for the magic love button to be engaged for me, but its just not happening!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

4 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm in this tricky and difficult situation with my girlfriend. She has a toddler to a past relationship that was very messy, We have recently been living together along with my 8yr old daughter who I have every 2nd week. My girlfriend is head over heels in love with me but the ... (243 words)

My girlfriend is a virgin and wants to have sex. Advice to make her first time special?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

4 March 2012 (M) age 26-29 - Hi my girlfriend recently said to me that she felt she was ready to have sex. She is a virgin while I am not so I was really excited. The problem is I've never had sex with a virgin before and I am really nervous about being her first. I mean I love her so I'm not having doubt ... (90 words)