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reader, maverick494  +, writes (5 March 2012):
Tell him: "I'm sorry, but what part about "I'm not interested" did you not understand? The foundations of a marriage are love, honesty and loyalty. Even if you cannot grasp this then at least respect it and do not insult me by suggesting I should cheat on my husband with you, for I will never do this."
This may be harsh, but it gets the job done. It also shows him you're not to be messed with. If he persists, report him for sexual harassment. Don't let his superior position influence you. A job is not worth losing your dignity over.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (5 March 2012):
do you have a labor board you can report him to? Sexual harassment at work is illegal here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2012): charge him with sexual harrasment if nothing works
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2012): you don't say I'm married , you have to say I'm not interested you creep.
Saying I'm married is stupid... it sounds like the only thing holding you back is your marriage.. you have to tell him I'm not interested in you.. great grand father..
You have an id like sexy babe - I can only imagine how you would look like o_O
Maybe you should tone down the sexiness at work...
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reader, Sexy babe1980  +, writes (5 March 2012):
Sexy babe1980 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI told him am married he told me that cheating make a marrage stornger. Because his rich he think he can have wat ever he want
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2012): Just say "sorry but I'm not interested in men who are old enough to be my Dad".
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2012): Tell him that's none of his business and you don't appreciate being asked things like that.
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reader, StephanieMcQueen +, writes (4 March 2012):
 You should tell him that wouldn't make your boyfriend very happy. That response works for me all the time its like an immidiate shut down for men.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2012): You tell him "No, I'm not actually good in bed because I have genital herpes and chlamidia and can't actually engage in sexual activity."
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (4 March 2012):
 Obviously you didn't say yes to him, but he will try again. Just say you don't talk about personal stuff with people you work with.
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