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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I need to get past this shock!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a serious relationship for 16 months now and everything has been perfect. We never argue, enjoy each others company. Have lived together since August and continually talk about our future together. This morning however, he popped out to work on his bike. Hes just ... (242 words)

Although he's fun the heart says "no"!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Today I went for my first date in a long time, the guy was great- good looking, funny, kind but acted like a big kid. As much I enjoy a laugh and a good time he seemed a little too childish for me. However when he asked if we could meet up again I didn't have the heart to say ... (124 words)

Is he in love with me? or was I just a cheap feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've liked this guy for a while, and sometimes I feel like he's making moves on me. Yet, I'm not sure whether those moves are fueled by his possible actual attraction to me or whether he just wanted a cheap feel. As bad as it sounds, I don't mind him touching me because I do ... (595 words)

Boyfriend gaining weight, how can I help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is gainign weight. I'm not saying it to be harsh, I'm saying it because I'm worried about his health. Everytime I mention it he gets all defensive and goes 'you should be the one telling me I look great.' I don't know what to do, please help :/... (50 words)

I cant move on, and she's gone back to her ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

31 March 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - why do i still feel bad ? my ex dumped me for the second time about 8 months ago to go back to her ex. in a way i blame myself . i fell for her again very qiuckley, she never really let go of me , texting me , stringing me along , i was in love with her and she was play... (585 words)

What should I do? He said he did not want to be with me and now he rings me all the time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, this is my 1st time posting.... Was "strictly" friends with my ex for 8 yrs. We dated off and on from fall 2010 until this Jan. He told me he didn't wanna be in a relationship with me. How it was "easier to be with other women and they have no standards". We t... (267 words)

Does he like me? I have not seen him for three years!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4645 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - There's a guy I know that I've know since I was 11 years old and at 11 I liked him (a lot) and I heard rumours that he liked me, but being young and stupid we were too scared to do anything about it. When he was 12/13 he moved to Spain and I thought I would never see again,... (232 words)

I have fallen for my mentor, but know nothing can come of it..he's married

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4648 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, I will try to be straight to it. So this is my story. I met my mentor about 4 yrs ago and we are still working together. From the onset, I felt, there was something special between us and because he is my typically my boss, I just enjoy the attention, the p... (304 words)

Broke up a year ago but I'm missing her and want her back

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

31 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend of about 1 year broke up a year ago. We both moved on and started seeing other people but I'm finding myself missing her again, I'm thinking about her all the time and I'm starting to want her back... I've no idea how she feels but I can't just talk to ... (106 words)

When I say no, girlfriend ends up taking what she wants anyways

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I recently went to sex store this week to buy toys for me and my girlfriend, we're lesbians. So I bought the vibrators, bullets, eggs, and dildos for us along with anal beads and lube. I told my girlfriend I'd like to use it on her during our lovemaking session. Well I ... (328 words)

Should I feel guilty about taking a way out from working with this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4648 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I got roped into a group project with this girl, lets call her Sarah. It was originally a single person project. You see, Sarah and I were talking and she convinced me that we should ask if we can work together on it. I honestly didn't think that our teacher would say ... (170 words)

Between porn and his fantasies it seems clear I don't do it for him

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I have a problem that is eating me up. I have been with my partner for over 7 years. He has used porn since the start whcih is something I had never even seen. Anyway I went along with it to please him!!!! pretended I liked it whcih I know was wrong. The trouble is is became ... (293 words)

He thinks its okay to toy with my emotions!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Why the need to hurt me? My ex and i broke up a few months back, it wasnt a good relationship, he had been hurtful and abusive to me, we also had kids which is why i choose to end it. He has continued to try and get back with me even though he still does not accept blame for ... (170 words)

I now regret taking him back after his fourth cheating episode!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my partner of two years has technically cheated on me and i have taken him back for the fourth time and now i am regretting it what should i do?... (30 words)

For gay men -- is a relationship with a closeted gay man worth pursuing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

31 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello agony aunts and uncles! I am experiencing a bit of a dilemma. To cut to the chase, I met this guy who is confusing. By now, I can usually tell when another man is gay. With him, the signs are there. However, he doesn't tell me he is. He went out of his way to talk to me, ... (245 words)

We've been together four years and I've always hoped he would change!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been with my bf for about 4 yrs. We've had our share of issues. I always hoped somehow he would change, but I don't believe he will. Sometimes its incredible he's sooo complimentive, charming, he will cook for me treat me great and other times its horrible. He... (243 words)

I just don't want to hurt anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok well I was.with my boyfriend for two years the first year was wonderful. Then he cheated on me hurt me bad but I loved him so much that I gave him anither chance then he started accusing me of cheating the whole time ive been fathful.he dosent belive anything I say then he ... (111 words)

I want to break up and not go back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I asked this question and I tried to do it but I didn't succeed. I feel like breaking up with y boyfriend because I had gone into this relationship very very soon after my 2 yer relationship with my ex. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months now but have been ta... (275 words)

How can I become more confident, especially in my relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4648 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need some advice on ways to boost my self-confidence. I'm approaching 30, so I think I should be able to function in an adult relationship, but my lack of confidence is threatening to hinder or even ruin things with my current boyfriend. Lately, I've been very anxious ... (88 words)

Girlfriend got asked out by a guy on facebook?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 March 2012 (M) age 51-59 - My girlfriend was recently asked out on Facebook by another guy. We have been dating for over a year. Her response was that she could not do "any one on one time with another guy because she would not approve of me doing that with another girl." Is it appropriate for my girlf... (62 words)

How men like making wives jealous

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - This is trick of the mind.My male cousin has been cheating on his wife since time they've been married.We don't know what it is that he's telling her but shes posting things on fb to prove that their marriage is great.He don't tell us much but the female he's sleeping with shes ... (142 words)

How long does it take to concieve after being on the depo shot

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering if anyone could share their experience after recieving the depo shot staying on it a few years and their ability to concieve afterwards. How long it took that kind of thing. My fiancee and i already have two young children and decided we wanted to wait awhile ... (88 words)

I really like him and I want him to like me too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - This guy i like and I are both fourteen my mom doesn't want me to date him and doesn't like him. She doesn't know him as well as I do. He sits at my table at lunch and his name is Kai. He is super nice, and mentions some other girls a lot. We don't talk as mug as we used to, ... (132 words)

Was I wrong to discredit all the good we had in our relationship? Did I take it all for granted and basically throw a good thing away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Just wanting to know people's opinions.... I asked a question about this before, but there is new information now... My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. From the beginning, he has been very loving towards me, telling me that he loves me, tha... (1031 words)

My boyfriend's dad is creating problems in our relationship and shows no signs of moving out

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriends and I have been together 3 years in July. We got a house together almost 2 years ago and I love him very much BUT his dad moved in with us when he started going through a divorce almost a year ago. At first he refused- said he didn't want to move in because we ... (375 words)

I have no idea what's going on, she's done a complete 180 from being over the top, to completely ignoring me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

31 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Well where to begin. Basically, I met a girl who at first appeared very forward shall we say, in her feelings for me. I received many flattering (although false) compliments from her, and she was quite touchy feely, a little possesive, always holding my hand etc, even gettin... (351 words)

Is this girl pregnant with my boyfriend's baby? I cant even ask him because he's locked up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time he's bad but I really love him and he loves me very much,I'm only16 and I need help?...I found out that he was texting other girls...one of their names was Gina,now this was about five months ago..I saw her at school today ... (90 words)

Am I just wanting something I can't have or am I in the wrong relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

31 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Im a 24 year old with a little girl. I'm feeling extremely mixed up at the moment. I recently got back together with my little girls daddy (he is 42) who I've known for the last 8 years. In that time we've had an awful lot of problems, break up, custody fights and he married ... (226 words)