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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can I marry my ex's friend ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - i left my girlfriend from 5 months so she became my ex , recently i became so close to her close friend also i feel that i love here also she told me the same .. i love my ex's friend and my ex's friend love me .. so what can i do to get married here ?... (60 words)

Is it okay to not always talk when you are with people? When is it awkward?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Silence, between good friends, family, aquaintances, at work, partner its ok sometimes. You can sit and enjoy where you are not feel the pressure to always talk, is that OK? is it ok to sit and not talk sometimes? Is it weird not to always talk when you are with ppl? how to a... (102 words)

I can't bring myself to meet her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - A close friend of mine introduced me to one of her friends around December last year, and at the time I liked her and thought she was quite pretty and she had an awesome personality and I got talking to her and got to know her and she is a fantastic person, but I can't bring ... (133 words)

I broke up with my fiance because of his mother.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I break up with my Fiance because of the way I am treated by his mother? heres a few examples: -When I go to her house she completely ignores me / gives me dirty looks. -she has kicked me out of the house and has no respect for me -she tells my fiance "you d... (507 words)

Why else would he still have his profile up on the dating site if not to keep his options open?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I met a really lovely 28 year old man online on a dating website in December 2011. Will get on brilliantly, speak daily, his family and friends know about me and we have a holiday planned, were not intimate yet but he told me he thinks of me as his girlfriend ( we ... (189 words)

I asked him to marry me on February 29th, but he keeps changing his mind about buying the ring!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - i have a problem that some will think im stupid on. I asked my man to marry me on feb 29th and he said yes. we talked about rings and i showed him the ring that i wanted which wasnt alot 150 pounds. He said no problem he would get it for when we go away on the 28th of this ... (140 words)

He's happy to be in an open relationship with me, as I find sex with him to be not very good.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I am in a relationship with a man who is almost perfect in every way. We have been togeter for about two and a half years now. He treats me well, and takes very good care of me. I thought he was my soul mate, and we have talked about getting married. The only thing about ... (552 words)

I broke up with b/f because he won't let me go out with him and his friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - okay my boyfriend and i have been dating 16 months we have a 7 month old baby. the whole time we have been together i have only gotten to hang out with his friends a total of 7 times. everytime i ask him if i can go with him he says no because everytime i have been around them ... (162 words)

I am so confused by the messages he's sending out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in class with this guy and just after Christmas we were on the verge of becoming an official item rather than just kinda dating. Then suddenly he stopped speaking to me all together and announced mote or less the same day he was officially with another girl. Naturally I ... (328 words)

Having second thoughts about giving her a 'too' thoughtful present!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

8 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I have a friend who's birthday is coming up soon, and I want to get her something. In fact I got her something already, but it's kind of a bit too thoughtful for just friends, so naturally I'm having second thoughts about giving it to her. The thing is, I like her a... (169 words)

I'm an actress who is in madly in love with an actor I'm working with on a play.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sorry if I sound a little bit confusing, my English is not very representative, but I think you'll get the point. I'm an actress who is in madly in love with an actor I'm working with on a play. I don't know how to approach him. We have great fun together, we have chemistr... (205 words)

I snoop on my boyfriend but that's because he gives me reasons to snoop!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Folks, I got caught snooping this weekend while visiting my boyfriend. He looked at me shook his head and walked off to the bathroom. I went in there to beg him to forgive me. He said he did not want to talk about it and he is not mad. The next day we went to church. Was bare... (689 words)

I can't orgasm even with a vibrator!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone this has been bugging me for a while now I can't orgasm even with a vibrator I have tried everything creams dildos every time me and my boyfriend have sex I have to pretend I have orgamsed just to keep him happy or he thinks he's useless in bed even when he isn't ... (67 words)

Those who were successful in LDR, how did you convince your partner to move closer to you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a LDR of 11/2 years. I developed a habit of snooping very early in the relationship which I think is really bad. I have already fallen in love with the guy so it was hard to get rid of him. He does this thing that I have never seen with any other guy I date. He loves ... (531 words)

I just all of a sudden wound up in a love triangle that I had no intentions of ever being in

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I apologize for the length of this but in order for you to give advice, i feel that i must tell you as much as possible. i started working for a large corporate company back in 1998 which i quickly moved up in to management. i met the projects manager. i will just call him ... (744 words)

Boyfriend either doesn't like sex or just doesn't like having it with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - OK this is long! Either my boyfriend doesn't like having sex with me, or he just plain doesn't like sex (I wish I knew which). We've been together nearly three years (I am 30, he is almost 40). Compared to my previous relationships I've always found our sex life a litt... (658 words)

I don't feel guilty about cheating on my wife until she cries, but even then I secretly enjoy it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Ok,i have got myself in a bit of situation, all self inflicted and im not looking for sympathy just advice. I met my partner on line 4 years ago, i was serving in the forces and whilst i was still married, we were not together, i was seeing someone else though. So i me... (365 words)

Why can't I fall for someone new? Am I hung up on my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - In August, my boyfriend of a year and 8months broke up with me. I was completely head over heels for him and i was devastated, we were close for a few months after but now we don't talk. I lost my virgnity to him and i've never been so close to someone in my life. I don't want ... (138 words)

My boyfriend forgot my birthday?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I waited to see if he would remember, and when he didnt I sent him a text at the end of the day saying the days date. I was expecting him to say sorry and then try to make it up to me in some way. Instead, he sent me a message which was completely unlike his usual self... (160 words)

Why is my boyfriend's 'friend' making these nasty comments about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Just a short question One of my boyfriends 'friends' has been making fun of me, me and my boyfriend reported him and he was seen too, he has stopped not entirley but mostly and im not going to make a big fuss out it, all i want to know is why he does it, he never used to befor... (169 words)

I have extreme anxiety and nerves about "receiving" oral sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have extreme anxiety and nerves about "receiving" oral sex. I am 100% ok with the giving to my male partner, but when it comes to the thought of him giving to me I get really insecure about it. I have never received oral. With my ex bf of 4 years, we were very vanilla so ... (281 words)

Should I just kiss him already?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve been hanging out with one of my guy friends a lot for the last couple of months (I’ve known him since November-ish). We get along really well and I enjoy his company very much. Sometimes we do kind of nutty stuff together – we once had a staring contest for 3 hours, our ... (379 words)

Am I wrong, to want to know what happened between my bf & his ex??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 March 2012 (?) age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend were in tesco the other day and we saw his ex! it was weird she followed us round the store, I dont know much about his ex as when i ask him he says he doesnt want talk about it, ive asked my mum too coz i thought it was weird that he doesnt want fo talk ... (247 words)

Should the girl lead the way, when the boy is unable to achieve an erection??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been seeing a really great guy and the other night we decided we were ready to take it to the next level and have sex. we didnt have very long before i had to go so we went into his room and started messing around, to be honest i realised then that he wasnt really getting ... (205 words)

I am smart, not pretty & a nerd, what can I do to belong and bot be laughed at?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey so it's not really relationship but please I need you guys: I'm in my third year of senior school and I am an A* student. I have a passion for art; I work hard in class and I'm on the top 21 list of students in my year and the Gifted and Talented List. I'm a nerd. That... (303 words)

Do all guys drop their guy friends, if they are in a relationship or married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - ... when they're in a serious relationship or marriage? Or maybe I should be asking, What type of guys drop their guy friends when they've got a s.o.? I was asking my bf why he doesn't have guy friends he hangs out with. He said they've all gotten married, and the ones who... (132 words)

How do I find out if he wants more than sex??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 20 year old girl and im very confused! I havent had a long term bf in about a year or so. Any thing since that was just dating. But now, i want a relationship. Ive being seen a friend of a friend for the past 2 months. Im not sure if what he wants is the same as me. We ... (133 words)

How can I bring back the spark?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my boyfriend have been dating 3 years all together, where inlove with eachother, and we was best friends when we got together, but of a lately the spark has dissapeared, he doesnt like mushy paragraphs anymore, we think its because he isnt sure about his future, on what ... (98 words)

I wet my bf's bed, how do I reduce the embarrassment?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have an embarrassing problem, that i'm almost too embarrassed to ask you all about. Last night I stayed at my boyfriend's house, we've been together 2 and a half years. I woke up to discover I had wet the bed. I was absolutley mortified, as I haven't done this since childhoo... (178 words)

My bf attacks me about my past, how can I stop him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all. I've seen a lot of questions here from men who cannot deal with their girlfriend's past, but I'm in at the opposite end of the problem and I need help. I'm sorry this is so long. I have a lot more sexual experience than my boyfriend. I am now thirty, and my b... (703 words)

I want a threesome with my wife & another man, how do I make it happen?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

8 March 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been happily married for 12 years with 3 kids. I want to do a 3sum with my wife and another man. I don't want to do anything with the man, the idea just seems very exciting. I know she would never even consider doing a 3sum with another woman, so I never bring that... (112 words)

What goes through your head when you're facing jail for the first time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend was found guilty for Burglary during the London riots last August. It’s his first offence and is awaiting sentencing which will be custodial. A moment of complete stupidity has also lost him his job. He sent a text telling me he loves me and he call me later. ... (107 words)

Why does my ex stare and try to get really close to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was at my ex's work the other day, he works in a supermarket and i was at the self serve thing with my mum and he wouldnt stop staring at me, he stares at me everytime i go there or even if i see him anywhere, anyways he walked towards me and leaned down near me and gave me a ... (133 words)

Should I break things off? I don't think my girlfriend is into me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 March 2012 (M) age 36-40 - I need a little advice for my situation, I'm with my gf for more than three years but its been kinda of a roller coaster (good time, bad times etc') but I feel we have some fundamental problems like some miscommunications, our communication is not open enough and I feel it can ... (334 words)

I want to tighten myself up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - am in a relationship for over five years now and we've been having sex for the past two year but i want to stop having sex,what should i do cos my vaginal is very loose and i don't know what to do to thighten it?... (45 words)

I'm sick, did I get it from giving my new partner oral sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - On Sunday 26th February, I had protected vaginal intercourse but unprotected oral sex with my new partner for the first time. I didn't ejaculate in her mouth nor did she orgasm whilst I was pleasuring her orally. The next morning, I noticed that the tip of my penis was burn... (385 words)

I don't know what my g/f wants in bed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - so long story short im trying to figure out what my gf wants in bed.. she isnt conventional in that she trys to appear very proper like she isnt kinky.. the thing is that when she has been more open with me she has mentioned she loves to be "*ucked really hard and loves it when ... (264 words)

Is it ok to feel something for your best friend when they don't return the feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - is it okay to feel 'something' when you see a guy of your age. because whenever i look at my best friend i always wonder how will it feel if he kisses me. i even had a dream about him kissing me. Is it okay to feel like this about your best friend when you know that he's not ... (61 words)

Do I just have to be okay with no sex in my marriage, or should I find someone to give me that "experience" my body is craving?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I really need someone to help me out. I have been married to my husband for almost five years, and we have two children together. Ever since we had our second child, my husband and I have had very little to no sex. He could care less about any fore play, and usually the ... (177 words)

How can a guy be still in love with me after 15 years?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - How can a guy be still in love after 15 years? He is a family friend, same age and loves me like a crazy. He proposed me few times but I wasn’t ready to get married and didn’t accept. I got married 8 years ago but he is not dating anyone because he says he can’t see anyone ... (185 words)

Awesome friend with benefits situation, but I want more and now I don't know if I should end it or try and move things forward..

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like I have sort of an uncommon situation... None of my friends ever quite know what to tell me. Here it goes: So, I have been thinking about ending things with my long term friend with benefits. He and I both care for each other deeply, and I hope one day we could en... (684 words)

How can I know if my girlfriend's had an orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 March 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - i have been dating my gf for 1 year and 3 months now. the sex is great...at least for my part. im worried that she might not be liking it. she tells me that she has an orgasm but im not really sure. how can i tell if she does or not? plus another thing is i have premature e... (89 words)

I am so scared of losing her.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

8 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 1/2 years. We have loved each other fully and we would do anything for each other. But recently we had a scare where my girlfriend thought I cheated on her and it scared her. She believes me that I didn't and we have gotten ... (380 words)

One day he's all over me, the next day its nothing, what's the deal with this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

8 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I need advice on this situation...Ok, my b/f and I were on a break for the whole month of February per his request as he needed to sort out his life. We did text each other through that month but nothing too exciting. Early March, he finally contacted tellin... (571 words)

I am the one who initiates contact, never her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

8 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys I have a quick question, mostly for the feminine gender here :P So there is this girl I like and we kinda text chat on our phones. Its been just a week since we started this. N mostly its me initiating it. But when it starts it goes for an hr or more and its fun and ... (178 words)