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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Cheating husband says I am violating his privacy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

16 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all. My marriage has been having its fair share of problems but have been working on it. I have caught my husband twice cheating on me previously and just found out he's at it again. I wouldn't say I'm still in love with him as my feelings have changed towards him. We ... (216 words)

I've got a deadbeat dad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I'm gonna make this short and sweet. Has anyone else had an experience with a deadbeat dad and found themselves weirdly attracted to men at least 10 years older? Maybe that's not why I, as a teenage girl find myself attracted to much older men but I really am thinki... (88 words)

I want a girlfriend, but I don't know who?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4663 days ago

16 March 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay so i am 14 and i have been single for over a year now. I really want a girlfriend, but i dont feel attracted to anyone. I do like this one girl who i flirt with but she doesnt know, and looking in the future, i can see we wouldnt make a good couple. I just miss the feeling ... (80 words)

I want to be his girlfriend and he wants sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

16 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone. i'm an 18 year old girl, senior in highschool. i've been talking to this guy for a little over a month now. it's clear that we are ''something'' more than friends but im not too sure what to think of it. i have feelings for him and he tells me he has feelings ... (355 words)

Why did she tell me this, I've never met her before!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

16 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My brother is due to get married soon after dating his fiance for over 4 years. She invited me to her hen party, during which, I met many of her friends. Later on into the evening I met one particular friend who introduced herself and we chatted for a short while, just for ... (379 words)

First date nerves...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

16 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I've been single for ages, i joined a dating website and have a date on Sunday.. we are meeting in the day in a coffee shop so theres no issues in that respect, but firstly i'm panicking what to wear, i cant afford anything new so am going to put some nice jeans on... (170 words)

What's the best way to let him down easy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

16 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I just got out of a 2 year relationship where I was cheated on and lied to constantly. I am not ready to date or for commitment for a long time. There is this guy who likes me though who I have been hanging out with for a while and texting, he is really sweet, and ... (271 words)

Broke up with an older woman, then found out she was pregnant

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

16 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Guess who's back? so in previous questions i had mentioned a 35 year old who had a prestarted family (4 kids) and i had broken up with her because i didnt feel there would be a future. 3 weeks later we find out shes pregnant by my child...life and its ironies :( i dont know the ... (160 words)

Don't feel anything during sex, why is this??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

16 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm 18 and in need of some advise. I can't orgasm, in fact whenever I have sex I can't feel anything. I haven't told my boyfriend this cause I don't want to hurt his ego so I usually fake it. I haven't told anyone. He says I'm great and we have sex maybe two or three ... (116 words)

B/f loves me but he's close to his best female friend and it makes me very uncomfortable

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

16 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance is in love with his best friend. They have known eachother since they were very young and have always been close. They used to 'play dirty', like most kids do I guess, when they were about 7. They grew up together and he tried to start a relationship with her in their ... (370 words)

After what I've done now that b/f is successful he doesn't even call me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

16 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - OK so when my boyfriend was.going through hard times I was there. He'd always call me. He even got into some problems with the street where he owed money and I had to pay them off For his safety. He promised to pay me back when he got a real Job but didn't. Now he has a gr... (103 words)

He never takes the lead -- does that mean he's not interested?

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16 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, i hang out with this guy i really really like..! we both have confessed our feelings and meet min 4 times a week. But, the thing is i am the first one who hugged him, the first to give him a kiss on the cheek..the first one to hold his hand..! even though he wanted t... (135 words)

Is it a red flag if husband is facebook requesting a hot chick?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

16 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband has friend request some hot chick on fb; she has big boobs- very provacative looking, has pictures of herself "says for modeling " they look like pictures you would see in playboy ect. I haven't seen any comunication between them- but still- is it right, or like a " ... (53 words)

What are men really getting off on when they watch porn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi a few questions, when men watch porn what are they actually getting off on? Is it the sight of a woman being dirty, are they pretending they are the man in the porno? My boyfriend says it's just the sight and pretending he is having sex with them comes when he needs an extra ... (84 words)

My on/off girlfriend's mom has just died, how much space should I give her? How long will this last?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

16 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend/ex girlfriend just lost her mom a week ago. I say ex girlfriend, because she tried to break up with me a day before her mom was admitted to the hospital for pneumonia. That night that her mom was admitted to the hospital she called me up at 3 am and said she just ... (238 words)

Boyfriend doesn't initiate sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

16 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I started having sex around a month ago, and whenever we do its amazing - however, he always seems to have a problem initiating it. Before we just did other stuff like oral sex, and he loves that, and has no problem initiating it. However, after we foreplay, he ... (123 words)

Am I in the wrong for worrying about my friend? Or is he misinterpreting it as controlling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

16 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - O.K simple question. My friend and I were asking each other random questions about each other. It was mostly about favourite things and stuff, then it was three things you dislike about the other one. He said he only has one thing about me that he doesn't like and that's me ... (170 words)

I'm not sure if my b/f of 7 years is ever going to totally commit to me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

16 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I would realy appreciate your thoughts on my situation as I am very confused. I have been with my boyfreind for seven years, I have two children and he has two grown up and a seven yr old. He proposed to me early on giving me a gorgeous ring but although has ... (312 words)

Mother-in-law!!!!!!!!!!! HELP! The woman is insane!!!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriends mother is causing problems in our relationship. We've been together 2 years, we are incredibly happy and never argue as we're so laid back, compatible and very much in love. However.... he has an incredibly controlling mother. She controls his bank accounts... (1225 words)

I'm flexible, can anyone suggest any sexual positions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4663 days ago

16 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a LDR with a wonderful guy who I love imensely. We have been together for 7 months but he works abroad a lot for a month at a time. He is coming back home tomorrow and we are going to have a sex night. I'm a flexible girl (can do the splits, take my legs around my ... (155 words)

Boyfriend acting weird and when I ask him what is wrong he has nothing to say

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

16 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf has been acting wired i keep asking him whats wrong but he does have much to say he keeps telling me hes just tired he works nites but he only works three times a week so its not like hes doesnt get any sleep also hes been acting weird latly like irated by me for asking ... (148 words)

Should I not forgive my best friend and try to let her go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

16 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is my first time posting on DearCupid, and I apologize beforehand if my post is too long! I don’t really know where to begin, so I guess I’ll just start anywhere. My old best friend and I were best friends for countless years. I actually known her since elemen... (1412 words)

Is my ex in the honeymoon stage or is she in a rebound relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

16 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey long story short girlfriend of 8 years, first love amazing relationship. she started hanging out with a guy about 2 or 3 months before she broke up with me. she ended up leaving me for him. would u still consider this a rebound relationship? because i know she wasnt ... (221 words)

Does she want my penis or just want a friend for comfort?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

16 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Long time no see. I'll get straight to it. Alright, so last year a friend from my past sprang up and started talking to me again. To clarify, I had spent some time with her boyfriend and she must have been curious or thought I was dead or something. I'll never know why i... (433 words)

Why do men want oral sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

16 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - why do men want oral sex ... (8 words)

I really messed up my ex with our breakup. I don't know if I want him back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

16 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a high school student and my ex boyfriend is a freshman in college. My ex boyfriend and I were together for 2 years. On October of 2011 I broke up with him because I was starting to have feelings for this other guy and I was afraid I would cheat on him. For three months ... (414 words)

2 guys and I have no idea which one to pick!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

16 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, I can’t decide which man I want to be with! Please can you offer your advice on what I should do? There were problems in my relationship with M when I first met S. I had moved to university in a new town (though this was already planned when we started dating),... (1583 words)

When do you give up on wanting to be in a relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

16 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey to you all :) I have a question?? When do you give up wanting to be in a relationship? I'm almost 21 and I have NO luck with guys. Yeah I know I'm young and have my whole life ahead of me and blah blah blah lol! But when I tell you I can't find not 1 guy that wants a ... (405 words)

I think I have a daddy complex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

16 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I apologize in advance for how long this is gonna be. I just really need help. I'm worried I have a Daddy Complex. So for some background, I'm currently 16 and just finished driving school. As weird as it sounds, I couldn't help but think about how hot my driving instr... (320 words)

Have you ignored ever ignored an ex ,when you've bumped into them in person?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

16 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it childish/rude to ignore an ex if you bump into them? I live in the same town as mine, and have avoided bumping into them so far (mainly due to my planning!) If I bumped into them and they said 'Hello, how are you?'(which I think they would), I would not want to spea... (141 words)

I've fallen for her but she will not leave her fiance for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

16 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Right, I am 25 and have been working with a women fro the last couple of months and I have fallen for her more then anyone else in my life. She is a year younger then me and engaged. We have flirted since the second day we worked together and got on so so well. She trusts... (381 words)

Why can't I cum during a blowjob?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

16 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Ever since my first blow job i haven't been able to cum? This is like 10-12 times now. This girl I see comes over and blows me and she gets frustrated because i can't cum. What can i do to cum when i get a blowjob? Help Please... (50 words)

He's kissed me and said "I love you"..will he ask me out?

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16 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. Lately me and this guy have been texting each other, hanging around at school together. I went on "field trip" and he missed me a lot, and I missed him a lot.I've said "I love you" multible times to him, and he's said it to me. Last friday, the first night we actually had ... (174 words)

Am I having safe oral sex by not using a condom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

16 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i give my partner oral sex fairly regularly. He is one of two that I have given oral sex too. (The first guy was an ex boyfriend and I only did it twice with him) Anyway. Both guys are clear of STDs. My current bf and I don't use a condom for oral. I just wanted to know if I am ... (88 words)

We want to have sex but what if my parents find out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

16 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - soo c: I have a boyfriend and he is a couple months younger than me. we both have talked about sex and we really want to have it but I'm worry that my parents will find out and I don't know if I'm old enough either /: Help3 ... (54 words)

I make him a priority when we make plans to do things, but I feel like he thinks of me as an option

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

16 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now and lately I'm starting to get frustrated with where his priorities seem to be. If I want to do something with him that requires him taking even a day off work he takes forever to get back to me and is generally indecisive about... (734 words)

I'm confused! Is he keeping me around just in case?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

16 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I think I may have my own answers here but I'm curious as to what others think...especially a male perspective! Im quasi-dating a guy and have been seeing him about once a week for the last month. But the interest has waned I feel. he use to really want to talk to me. Now ... (229 words)

She's sending me mixed signals!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

16 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, so there was this girl I got to chat with via txt, now i know this is probably not the best way to communicate, but we havent really got into that talking zone yet .. dunno why anyhu .. its been like 15days i think, she showed interest we chatted late sometimes too, l... (243 words)

Should I be suspicious of his behavior?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

16 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is currently in medical school and has his board exams this weekend. Last weekend, he said that he was going to study ALL weekend, but wanted to do something Friday night. So we went to dinner with his mom, then back to his place for some t.v. and I spent the ... (327 words)