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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Why is she doing this? I stop being friends with my ex, so I can recover more effectively. Naturally, she tells me never to contact her, again. So, I block her from any source I think possible.Anyways, in the lunchroom, in the college, she sits at the table next to the one I am eating at. And, she asks me how I'm doing. I was so shaken up, it was an anxiety attack. I was confused, as I remembered what she had told me, and that was at Easter time, she didn't want me to contact her, no more. Yet, the semester was starting, and she was kinda doing the opposite of what she told me to do. Was she being fair, or, did she act kinda hypocritical?Thanks, in advance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2012): Well, it wasn't me that decided to terminate the relationship. It was her. I couldn't stand the thought of being her friend, as I had found out that she had lied, to me.
But, I find your answer to be helpful. Thanks. I very much appreciate it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2012): The breakup almost occured a year ago. In 2 exactly weeks, it will be exactly 1 year. However, I decided to end my friendship with her, at around Easter Time. I couldn't find it in my heart, to trust her, any more.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (5 March 2012):
 I think that folks don't want to admit failure and they figure if they are friendly with an ex it's less of a failure.
IF the breakup occurred at Easter last year you are nearly a year out and when you run into each other saying hello and being pleasant is part and parcel of being adult.
Just smile say "i'm well take care" and move on...
it's not mixed signals... she's not asking to get back together... just being pleasant.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2012): Just keep your distance from her so u may heal emotionally. Avoid her when u see her.....not being mean but looking after your own emotional well being.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2012): Well i think she just needed a lil break from u && she missed u so she wants u back now yes i know im a girl us girls can be confusing and Play hard to get
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