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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm 13 and confused about my sexual orientation

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

12 March 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello, I'm 13 and I am really not sure about my sexuality. I have had many dreams about having sex with women, eventually one ending in a wet dream. But I keep on thinking about kissing the boy I'm sitting next too, but then I shudder. I try to look up girl skirts as well. I ... (147 words)

I don't know which guy to chose! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (?) age 30-35 - hi,am 22..i agreed to date my boyfiend(first ever) cos he is intelligent and has a promising future and moreso cos he was persistent but i never really loved him cos he wasnt the romantic and cute guy,just wanted him as a friend..1month into our relationship,he travelled out of ... (118 words)

How do I tell b/f in a nice way that I'm horny and want more sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I have been together 8 months. We met on a dating site. He still lives with his parents (for various reasons) and since they are an hour away from me, he basically lives with me 3 nights a week on the weekend. The problem is that, on average, we have sex only once ... (286 words)

I have no way to contact her except the internet and she doesn't even know me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

12 March 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay, so here's the deal. There was this girl I liked in my old school, but we didn't really know each other and I never had the guts to talk to her. I had her on facebook but she deleted me recently because we weren't really "friends", which I can understend. After I switched ... (133 words)

Would you go back to an ex who cheated on you with your friends?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - This question is for the guys out there. Why would you leave someone who treated you right for an ex who has slept with all of your friends and cheated on you? Is it possible that this cheater will change?... (41 words)

Health, family issues are putting a strain on our relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for a year. We were good friends for several years prior to this however. We are both in out 20s with promising careers. Recently things haven't been so good in my life, after being unwell and fainting several times i was diagnosed with anemia. ... (186 words)

How do I convince him that I love him and he should stay in this country with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy is from Lithuania originally and I met him a couple of years ago when I started working at the same place as him. We have really gotten to know each other but he is so shy, even now! I know he has feelings for me and he cares, but he's been so broken before that he is ... (273 words)

Flirting friend -- joking or is there something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My 18 year old female friend at work tends to flirt a lot with me in bars and clubs, but I am not sure whether this is jokey or serious. She is NOT the type to go sleeping around or however you want to put it. She has not dated anyone for ages and has a strong personality. So I ... (218 words)

He will not marry me until I am submissive. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - After a long four hours discussion with my man yesterday, I found out the reason he is having fear in proposing to me is because he feels I am somewhat of a dictator in a relationship. He feels like I like to be the man in the relationship. And he wants me to be submissive. ... (467 words)

I still feel pain after the relationship had ended

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i was involved in a serious relationship with a guy for several years. Even though the relationship ended i still feel pain. what should i do?... (26 words)

Girl I was talking to turned away and said to her friend "there are so many hot guys here" Was that lack of interest on her part?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Over the weekend I ended up at a bar in the company of a girl who I'm quite interested in and a few others. Being recently single, I'm not embarked on a crazed drive to find another girlfriend but I like to explore all possibilities shall we say. Somewhere through our ... (106 words)

Girls Texting My BF Is Pissing Me Off....... HELP!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I tell my bf that I do not want a specific girl (maybe 2 now) to text him the way that they do. No I do not know what is said during the conversations because I do not look at his phone. I do know that the main one in particular has deeper feelings for him than just a ... (171 words)

Dating but I still have feelings for my ex. I'm torn!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (F) age 41-50 - My boyfriend left the country. He was away for over a year. Now he is back I am in a new relationship but it has been turbulent from the beginning because my new guy still had feelings for his ex gf. They broke up because he had to leave the country too. I have realized that I ... (68 words)

Do I make a move yet, or just wait and invite her over as a friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have liked this girl for a long time. We're great friends and I would love to be with her. However, she has always had boyfriends, and when I did ask her out, she sent me a nice email saying that we would never be more than friends (that was about 4 yrs ago). Howeve... (114 words)

Am I wrong to be upset about the fact that my girlfriend still keeps photos of her boyfriend who died 12 years ago?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

12 March 2012 (M)

age - I have been living with my girlfriend for three years. She kept photos up of her and her deceased boyfriend (posed together) who died 12 years ago. We had none of us. After we had been togehter 2 years, I mentioned that I felt that she was living in the past with him because of ... (207 words)

The girl I was dating slept with a co-worker and then ended things with me. Did I dodge a bullet?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

12 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - About a month ago, I went on a chat site when I was at a loose end, I wasn't looking for anyone but ended up chatting to a girl. She gave me her number, we texted and eventually decided to meet. She looked lovely, genuine, and said she looked forward to getting to know me.... (272 words)

Is this guy back together with his ex or are they still just good friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a really nice guy a couple of weeks ago and I really like him. We met for a coffee a few times before he moved a 3 hour drive away for work and we haven't really been in contact since. He broke up with girlfriend just before Christmas and now I think they may be back tog... (138 words)

I don't feel comfortable traveling outside of my town but if I don't I may lose my benefits!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This isn't a relationship problem, but i hope someone can help. I am currently receiving Jobseeker's Allowance, which are benefits we have here in the UK. I tried to get on Disability Benefits once. You ahve to have an assessment, but i failed it because they thought i had a ... (322 words)

My current boyfriend wants me to delete FB pictures of my ex and I! Should I do this or not?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend feels uncomfortable seeing videos and just a handful of pics on my Facebook page of my ex boyfriend, it's vids and pictures of him and a few if my friends hanging out and normal pictures of me and him.. He's asked me previous times to delete it but I never did. It ... (148 words)

He's not sure if we will get married and have kids with me, what do you guys think of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, heres a bit of backstory. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, lived together for 3 years and have 2 cats together. we get along very well dont often fight and are best friends. We often talk of our future plans buying house, career etc but never have spoken... (238 words)

Girlfriend's cousin told her mother lies about me, and now my girlfriend has to choose between me or her! How can I show her mother I'm not what she thinks I am?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf and i have dated for the past 2yrs and all has been well until recently her cousin accused her for sleeping with her husband on which its a lie. now her cousin approached my gf's mother and told her lies about everything even about me, telling her i m a free mason, a ... (119 words)

Is he more relaxed with me now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (F) - I apologise for what may seem like a silly question in advance. I made contact with a guy whom I had dated many years ago (20 years) on facebook. I had always known him as Jim and I have always kept in contact with his sister over the years. His name is actually James a... (224 words)

Only met him recently but thinking ahead I'm not sure if we have a future, should I bring this up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (F) - I met someone from online who lives about 3 hours away. We both seem to like each other and have been in contact everyday now whether it's through text or phone conversations. He already said he wants us to be boyfriend/girlfriend. He came to see me in the city and i visi... (268 words)

We are really happy but his attitude towards money is driving me mad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i have a problem. I am living with my boyfriend and i love him so much. we are really happy in all areas, the one and only area that i am not happy is with his attitude towards money. EVERY month without fail, he runs out of money, he cant, or rather doesnt want, to make ... (283 words)

Back together with my boyfriend again but found out he lied about being on his own, he was actually in a relationship with his ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend split up with me in November and said this was because he didn't want a relationship after this we didn't speak until January when he said he wanted another go at things and he said he knew 100% that this is what he wanted and he'd been on his own since November ... (105 words)

Scared about having sex, what should I do? My girlfriend keeps asking me and I don't know why I'm so scared

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - hi im a lesbian woman and i just wanted some advice due to sex. i really do not like anything inside me, fingers anything and have never had sex before as im scared to. well not inside me anyway. why is this. nothing has ever happen bad to me at all in a sexual way. m... (97 words)

In a breakup why do people take the cheaters side?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3001 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I was watching George Clooney's The Descendants the other day. The movie is about a character that doesn't know his wife was cheating on him. Everyone knew and didn't tell him. He never treated the wife bad or cheated on her. She screwed him over and was planning to leave him ... (71 words)

I pushed him for comittment and he made his excuses, now I find pictures of nude girls on his phone!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing a guy for a few months, at first everything seemed great until he started acting strange disappearing not calling as much, texting ppl late etc... When I started pushing commitment he started saying I have too many make friends and he needed to have more ... (103 words)

How do you deal with a partner's thick pre-ejaculate?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all and thanks for reading :) I've given my new partner oral sex in the shower and in bed, but it was after having made love already earlier that evening. However, most recently, we were getting into the mood, lots of foreplay, so I took him into my mouth - and tha... (189 words)

He doesn't want a relationship, but has never been happier when he is with me! What is going on? Has he broken up with me for good?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 30 and my ex is 33 we were together for 16 months and we were extremely happy, rarely argued and laughed a lot. I saw him about 4 times a week and I always stayed at his as I currently love at home with my parents – I have just bought a flat and move Friday. Almost... (672 words)

Is it bad if he doesn't get jealous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 10 months never gets jealous, and I don't understand why. I ask him this everynow and then but I try not to get into it because i would rather him be un-jealous like then super crazy jealous. We have a very close relationship so I still don't understand it!... (52 words)

We get along great outside of the bedroom, but she doesn't want sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (M)

age - My wife and I have been married for 20 years. Ever since we have had kids she gives them 100% the attention,(great Mom). Sex was good, once a week the ritual Sunday morning.lol. Then it just stopped, we seperated for 6 months about 10 years ago. We went to counseling and ... (166 words)

He has been bad mouthing me, should I confront him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age - Hi I am an older lady who was in a relationship for 5 years. I do not drink or have any addictions. But use to many many years ago. My problem was i got into a relationhip that was so far so good but I had a hard time trusting him,( 2 bad realationships of abuse)kinda from ... (241 words)

My husband cant have sex with me so I found a lover, but now I have lost him too! What do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - FOur years down the married lane, I am still remain untouched by my husband. He has a medical condition of low testosterone, low libido, that is under treatment...and might take longer for him to actually sexually function. He has been loving, supportive and affectionate that I ... (473 words)

What is too much when it comes to checking up on your man?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ladies: do you check up on your man? If so, how much and to what extent? I'm asking because I'm wondering what is "normal" when you are in an exclusive boyfriend/girlfriend relationship like I am. Do you check his cell phone every once in awhile? What do you think if he does... (125 words)

I feel I'm losing him. I love him. But the trust is not good and we are fighting. How can this be fixed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend and I have been good for the most part. We tend to get into arguments once in a while, and just got over a big one about two weeks ago. Thought we were going to be broken up after that one but we are back, although he is having a tough time trusting me. But I ... (527 words)

Was this Band member being sincere? Did he mean it when he said contact him again? Should I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - The other night I went to see one of my favorite bands play in a tiny bar in a tiny town, so there really wasnt anyone there. I'm only visiting here so I went alone. I ended up talking to one of the members at the bar, and we totally hit it off. He was new to the band, and youn... (414 words)

Does she like me? So many signs that maybe she does

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

12 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there! I've been trying to work up the courage to ask this girl I work with for a while now. Just recently I asked her friend that she works with if she knew if she liked me or not. And just for the sake of anonymity, I'll call the girl E and her friend Y. So I've been w... (486 words)

I regret the awful texts I sent to this guy I like, while I was drunk. Do I have any chance of working things out with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I did an awful thing last night. I got drunk, I'm sorry HAMMERED and decided to text mean things to a boy that I really like. We met last weekend and we've been communicating via text message and were planning on seeing each other soon. My stomach turns when I reread... (195 words)

Do I get over it and move on with my life, or wait for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18, he's 17. We dated for 5 months, then he abruptly ended it. He said he didn't feel like he needed to be dating, and that I could wait until college. That was in November. I was hanging out with my bestfriend, his sister. Me and him started flirting, and eventually I ... (195 words)

Should I move in with him when I turn 18? or wait?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there, I'm in need of some advice. I'll be 18 in June. Don't let that deceive you I'm a very put together kind of girl. I would say I'm very mature for my age but how many times do you hear teens say that? Anyways, I'm with this guy, shocker, and we've been together for ... (350 words)

He's being controlling and jealous. How do I get him to reconsider his views?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like my boyfriend, we've been dating for 4 months now and we go together really well... he came out of a confusing family and ran away from home at 16 to live with his aunt. Ever since leaving home he's been working hard for money and trying to succeed in life. I'm ... (419 words)

I talked about his mean actions. He promised to stop. So how do I handle that he's doing it again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4664 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend and i , we been 10 months strong .. but now , it seems like every now and than we get into really BIG arguments, and the more i be in back of him. If i keep calling him , and texting him , he takes advantage. Whether he wont pick up , or send me back a really m... (177 words)

My boyfriend had an alcoholic mother. Should I feel scared to drink in front of him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello dearcupid, My boyfriend has a very troubled past. He grew up very poor with an alcoholic mother. It sounds like she was a cold woman who only cared about drinking when he was growing up. He told me that when he moved out he attended a group that was like AA, not beca... (209 words)

He used to have Erectile Dysfunction. Why is he scared his past will stop him fathering children?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4668 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hello there, I really need some help for my boyfriend. we are both 18 and he's really concerned with a problem. he has had sex with multiple girls before we got together. and well everytime he would have sex he could never reach an orgasm unless he would masturbate hims... (109 words)

He's playing me in a FWB while cheating his Gf. How do I break it off with him and mean it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 32 and been divorced for about 3 years now. I have known a guy who is way younger than me as long as i can remember. He will be 20 in 2 months. We have been in a FWB relatinship since he was 18 (legal age in my state). We would fight and break it off then end up back with... (240 words)

Is he going to have an affair at this singles place with a bad reputation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4668 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months. He is 22 and I am 23. The problem we are having at the moment is he is planning to go to a place with his friends in summer where there are lots of unsavoury things going. this place opens in summer, it has lots of clubs, beac... (255 words)

I feel like what we had was unfinished, but it didn't really have an official start

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I'm sixteen. I had a "thing" with this guy who just turned 18 yesterday. This past fall we started hanging out with a mutual friend and there was instant attraction for me. He took me on a few dates, kissed me first and we had this thing were I "paid a kiss toll" at red ... (470 words)

My beat friend's behavior is scaring me..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - A bit of background: my best friend (A) has had 2 boyfriends before. With the first one, she just casually dated him for like a month and then they split up. Then she had her second boyfriend, who she was in love with. He was an asshole, cheated on her millions of times, and ... (335 words)