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writes:I'm 14 and I do not like porn but I like Yaoi and sometimes I do not know if I'm sick or just gay,
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reader, 10charlene25  +, writes (4 March 2012):
 i think deep down you would know if your gay or not do u fancy men cause if you do u could be gay or bi its not sick so dont worry :)
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reader, Abella  +, writes (4 March 2012):
 The cartoon type of porn you mentioned is often very stylised and unrealistic. So it may be curiousity at this point that draws you to it. Looking at it does not define you as sick and nor does it define you as gay.
While these cartoons often depict a women with a man, the women are often depicted as young, very docile and accepting of whatever is imposed on them. I think it can be demeaning, too stylised and unrealistic in the way women are depicted. If people like it that is OK, it is just not my taste.
Real women would usually prefer a more equitable approach and real men might find themselves in trouble if they did act out the actions of some of the male figures in these cartoons.
But I know some people love these cartoons.
Give yourself a couple more years to work through your own feelings before you label yourself.
Since you are only 14 legally you are under the age of legal consent, so you have time to work out your feelings.
And not all teens of around 14 are certain of their sexual orientation for some time. Others are more certain. While some are emphatic about their sexual orientation at that age.
We are all different and we all mature at different rates.
And people have many and various different preferences.
It is early days. Be kind to you and allow time to develop at your pace, as you work through your feelings about these big issues.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (4 March 2012):
 You're gay if you want to be in a sexual relationship with a real life man. Okay? What porn you watch, or what sexually stimulates you, is close to irrelevant.
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